冷爱解读：怎样才算是好的婚姻？

　　chuguidenanrenzuipashenmebaofu，dangshejidaochuguidenanrenyingduibaofushi，tamenzuipashizhihaobuliuqingdehuifu。zhuyaoshiyinweichuguidenanrenzizhi，tadebeipangerenxingweijiangchanshengyixilienanyiyucededaijia。banlvhenyoukenengbiaoxianchujiqideqingxubuwending，shanghaitahuobieren。chucizhiwai，jiaojiquandeguandianyudaodeqianzeyeduitamenzaochenghendadegongzuoyali。chuguinanrenzizhi，dazhongdexuanzehebaofugerenxingweijingchangbuduanerjueqing，zheishidetamendangmianduibaofushigandaoshifenhaipa。danshi，zhengshizheiyangdewuqingdihuifu，caikenengrangtamenzhenzhenglejiebingziwofansizijidewenti。

　　chuguinanrenzuidanhandechufa

　　伴侣的背叛

　　chuguidenanrenzuipashenmebaofu，dangchuguinanrenfajuezijilaopohuobanlvwaiyushi，tadeneixinhuichongchizhewujindetongkuhetongku。zheileibeipanyuanyuanbiziyidewaiyugengweicitengneixin。suirantamenzijijiuduizijidexingweigandaoneijiu，danshidangxiaohuobanyewaiyushi，zheizhongtongbeiwushengwuxifangda。tamenhuijuedezijinulihezhongshibeibeipan，daozhileyizhongshenshendizibeixinlihecuobaigan。jieshoubulezheizhongbeipan，tamenduibanlvdebaofugerenxingweijuedegengweihaipa。

　　社会道德谴责和生存压力

　　chukaibanlvdebeipan，shehuidaodelideqianzeyijishehuigongzuoyalidoushichuguinanrenzuipadebaofuzhiyi。yidanwaiyudekeguanshishibeijiekaichuqu，tamenkenengmianlinlaiyuanyuzhenggeshehuigongkaipipinghezhize。haopengyou、qinrenhetongshimendexinhanyanguanghuitamenshenshangluoxialai，zheileishehuidaodelideshibaiganrangtamenwufataobi。jiaojiquandebianhuahelianxidefenliejiangshidetamenjuedewuchuduozang，xinlizhenduiduanzandeyunianbeipanertoururucipangdadechengben。

　　精神与情感上的外伤

　　chukaidaodeyushehuifangmianchanshengdeyingxiangwai，chuguinanrenyejiangzaoyuneixinshenchudejidatongkuyuzhengtuo。zhenduibeichuguidebanlveryan，zheileibeipanshiyizhongqueshianquanganxinlaidewaishang。nanshengzhidaozijiduibanlvzaochengdeshanghaishibukewanhui，danzheizhongzizekuijiuhuidaotamenxinliliuyoushenshendishangba。jingshenshangdezhemokenengzaochengqingxubenkuihexinlijiankangebian。tamenbuganmianduibanlvdeshanghenheduizishenweifaxingweidehouhuimojisuochanshengdeqingganyali。

　　将来的人际交往和信任问题

　　yidanwaiyudekeguanshishibeijiekai，chuguinanrenjiangmianlinjianglairenjijiaowanghexinrenwentidekunrao。bulunshihetamendebanlvhuoshiyubieren，tamendouhuizaodaozhangjiudegelihelengdan。bierenyehuiduiyutamendezhongshichanshengzhiyihemeiyouxinren，cushizhongxinjianlirenjijiaowangyuelaiyuejubuweijian。zheileiguduyubeijuhuijinyibujiashentadekongjuxinliheshibaigan，weiqiweilaishenghuochanshengzhangjiuerchenzhongfudan。

　　内在自身厌恶和后悔莫及

　　zuizhong，zheishizuizaisuonanmian，shichuguinanrenneizaizishenyanehehouhuimoji。yingduibanlvdebeipanjiqishehuidaodeyijishehuiqianze，tamenwufataobiduizishenweifaxingweideshenshendihouhuimoji。tamenyishidaoletamenduiyubanlvdebeipanyinggaishiganqingheduibiciguanliandesunhai，xinlichongchizhekuijiuyuneijiu。zheileiwujinhouhuimojiyuziwoqianzehuidaotadeneixinzhongliuyouyongjiuxingdeshangba，wufataotuo。

　　chuguidenanrenzuipashenmebaofu，zongeryanzhi，chuguinanrenzuipadebaofubudandanshiwuzhishangchufa，gengduodeshilaiyuanyuxinlizhemohezaijingshenshangjulietengtong。zhenduibanlvdebeipan、shehuidaodeqianzeyijishehuigongzuoyali，jiqineixinshenchudexinlichuangshanghehouhuimoji，douhuichengweichuguinanrenwufataobideemeng，shizhongjuedingzhetamendeweilai。