现代夫妻三大心态误区 你中了几个？

　　nanrenchuguidewudazhengzhaoshimeiyigenvrendouyinglejiebingdangxinde，tamendoushizhenduifuqiguanxideyizhongpanbianshujuxinhao。zheizhongzhengzhaojiangbaokuogerenxingweishangdegaibian，liruhuranduiwaibubijiaoganxingquhuoshijingchangchumen；jingshencengmiandegenggai，rubuhuizaiguanzhujiazhonghuoduiyuhunyinbuhuizaizijintouru；jiqigoutonglidegejue，rushoujidianhuaxinxidebaomixingdeng。youyuzheixiezhengzhaobingbushiyidingyiweizhewaiyu，danshitamenyeshixuyaozaochengjingtiheshencengcigoutongdezhengzhao。weiyoutongguolijidefenxihegoutong，cainenggenghaodeweichihunyinshenghuodexingfukuailezhangqiwending。

　　nanrenhunhouchuguidejudongyizhishilingrenwanxideshi。danshi，zaidaduoshuqingkuangxia，waiyudezhengzhaoqueshicunzai，jinjinwomenyinggaidongdequjianbie。zixiguanchaherenshi，dajiakeyigenghaodefangfanhejiejuezheiyiwenti。jiexialaijiangxiangxijieshaonanrenchuguidewudazhengzhao，bingtigongyixieyingduicuoshi。

　　1. 情绪疏远：夫妻关系越来越冷漠

　　dangyigenanrenwaiyushi，takendinghuimanmanshuyuanfuqiguanxi，biaoxianchulelengmodeqingxu。tayexubuhuizaiguanzhujiatingwenti，buhuizhudonghebanlvgoutongjiaoliu，shenzhishiduibanlvzhanshichufangandexintai。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，banlvbixubijiaomingandifajuezheiyibianhua，bingshizheheduifangkaizhangoutong，zhangwozaiqizhongyuangu，xunzhaojiejuefangan。

　　2. 交际圈更改：持续与新的朋友相处

　　waiyudenanrenhuijingchanggenggaijiaojiquan，bingshifenguanzhuyunanshengdexiangchu。tayexuzhujiancanjiayixieduziyirenqianquhuodong，yuxinrenshiyixingpengyouweichipinfandeguanlian。jiarubanlvkandaolezheixiebianhua，yingtigaojingjue，jijitanxunlingyifangcanjiazheiyangdehuodongdongji，jiqiyubierenjiaowangmudi。

　　3. 时间管理转变：经常出门且回家了迟

　　nanrenwaiyushi，takendinghuijingchangchumen，bingyanchishijianhuiqudeshizhang。tayexuzhaodaogezhongliyou，lirujiabanjiadian、xiuxianhuodonghuozheqitashiwuguanli，yongyuzhegaitahelianrendeyouhui。jiarubanlvfajuezijidelingyibanshijianguanliyoulehendadezhuanbian，yingdangzhujianrenzhenguancha，bingtanxungengduozhijiezhengjulaiquedingshifouqueshicunzaiwaiyudegailv。

　　4. 电子通信信息保密：删掉信息、掩藏语音通话

　　xiandaikexuejishuweiwaiyutigonglegengduobianjie。nanrenhenyoukenengzhujianshandiaotongxunjilu、xinxiweixinliaotianjilu，huoshiyonggerendianziyouxiangyulianrenbaochilianluo。tahenyoukenengjingchangxiugaimima，yibaozhengbanlvweihuoquyulianrendetongxinjutineirong。dangbanlvfajuezheileixinxibaomizhuangkuangshi，liyingdangxinbinghelingyifanggoutong，shizhezhangwoyinzangyuangubingchuliwenti。

　　5. 心里矛盾：情绪犹豫不定

　　waiyudenanrenxinlijingchangshenxianmaodundangzhong，duibanlvheqingrenzhijiandetiaoxuanjuedekunhuo。tayexubiaoxianchulemaodundeqingxu，yihuieryunnu、yihuierneijiu，biaodaleduihunyinhechuguideneixinzhengzha。banlvyingyongxinqingting，lejietadexinlitongchu，binggongtongxunzhaoduice。

　　nanrenchuguidewudazhengzhao，tishibanlvmen，zhishangjinjinshiyixiekenengxingdezhengzhao，bingbudaibiaonanrenyidingzaoyiwaiyu。yaozhunquejianbienanrenshibushiwaiyu，yaojinxingchixubuduandeguancha、goutongyulijie。keyishizhefuqizhijiandeneixingoutong，xunzhaojishuzhuanyedezhichi，shenzhifuqizhijiandehunyinfudao，yijiaqianghunyinshenghuodelaoguhemeihao。yucitongshi，banlvyidingyaobaochiziyidedanduhemeili，fazhanqushigerenxingquaihao，tigaozijidefengcai，jinergoujianyigegengjiajiankang、junhengdefuqiguanxi。jilao，hunyinjiushibixubicigongtongfendouweichidejingshencaifu。