婚姻怎么维持才会幸福？

　　nanrenchuguishijianyuezhangyuedongganqing，nanshengchuguishijianyuejiu，tamentongchanghuiyulaiyuganqingyongshi，manmanxianruqizhong。zaiyiduanhunyinhuolianghaogoutongzhong，dangyigenanrenlikaizhongshidelumian，tamenkeyitongguoyuqingganenyuandeshijianlaiduixindelianaichuangjiangengjianonghoudeqingganlianluo。zhuyaoshiyinweichuguideshijianyuejiu，tamenhelingyifangdehudongheyiqijinglimanmanqianghualeliangrenzhijiandeganqingniudai，shidetamengengjiarongyizaochengqingganyikaoheduilingyifangdeqingyizijintouru。ganqingkenenghuizaichuguizhongwenshi，zheilingchuguinanshengxianruyigejirangrentaozuiyoupanghuangbujuedechujing。

　　nanshengchuguishiyizhongpanbiangerenxingwei，qianshedaohunyinhebanlvguanxidexinrenwenti。danshi，yidannanrenzaichuguizhonghaofeilehenzhangshijian，tamentongchanghuimanmanzaochengdongqingdeqinggan。zheileiyoushijiansuoyinfadeaiqingzhuanbiankenenghuishoudaoduozhongduoyangtiaojiandexianzhi，biruyudisanfangdehunyinguanxi、yiqijinglidemeihaohuiyi，naizhiyinggaishineixindeziworentong。benwentaolunnanrenchuguishijianyuezhangyuedongganqingdezhuyaoyuanyinyuweihai。

　　对焦情感共鸣点

　　dangnanrenzaichuguizhongzhengzhagengduoshijianshi，hetamenxiangchudeduixianghenyoukenenggengyouxiyinli，kenengshiyinweigengduoqinggangongmingdian。zaiganqinghuolianghaogoutongzhong，jingliguodeshijianyuejiu，ganqingyegengjiadefanza。nanrenzaichuguizhongcezhongyuyuqitanenglijietamendeneixinyaoqiu、hetamenyishixingtailingyuxiangqihederensuzaoshencengcideqingganlianluo。zheileigongmingdianwuxingzhizhongzengqiangletamenneixinshenchudeqingganqudongli，bingcushiqiduiyigexindeairenfuchugengduoqinggan。

　　情感满足引诱

　　lingyigezainanshengchuguishijianzengjiashidailaideyingxiangshiqingganmanzuyinyou。bansuizheshijiandebianhua，nanshengyuchuguimubiaojiandexianghulianjieyulaiyumiqie，tamenyexujingliguogengduohudongheyiqijingli。zheizhonghudongheqinshenjinglizaifuheqinggandetongshi，yerangdajiagengweitourudaolezheifenganqingdangzhong。kenengjiushiyinweihuodelegengduoguanzhu、tiexinyulijie，nanrenzaichuguishijianzengjiazhihougengrongyichuxianguanyuxinlingyibandeqingganyikao，shenzhishiduihunyinlideairenzaochengbumanyiheyanfan。

　　自我认同的改造

　　nanrenzaizhangshijianchuguihuanjiezhong，henyoukenenghuimanmangoujianqiyizhongxindeziworentong。zheileiziworentonghexinlingyibandeguanlianjianguxiangjie，bingtongguozheifenganqinglaizhaoxundadao。chuguibianchengletaconghunyinlizhenshiziworenkehemanzufangfa。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，shijianyuelaiyuezhiguanzhongyao，suizhexianzaishijiandebianhua，nanshenghenyoukenenghuibazishenyuelaiyueduodeyuzheiyiduanchuguiguanlianshenfenguanlianzaiyiqi，jinermanmansheqiduiyuhunyinhechushiguanliantouru。

　　情感误入歧途与思考

　　danshi，nanshengchuguishijianyuejiuzeyiweizhetamenyexugenghuixianruneixinshenchudeqingganyihuo。zhangshijiandechuguigerenxingweihuijizijidailaibeiwajiehejuewangdetongchu，congerzaochengduizishenweifaxingweidesikao。zheileiqingganwuruqitukenengzaochengneixindechongtu，shidetamenwufazuochujuece，jinyibujiajuqinggandewaiqu。

　　nanrenchuguishijianyuezhangyuedongganqing，zongeryanzhi，nanshengchuguishijianyuejiu，tamentongchanghuiyueganqingyongshi。zheishiyinweiyuchuguimubiaohutongdeqinggangongmingdian、qingganmanzuyinyou、ziworentongdegaizaojiqiqingganwuruqituyusikaodengduozhongyinsulianhezuoyongdedaodejieguo。danshi，zheileichuguigerenxingweibudanqianshedaoduichushiguanlianzaochengdeshanghai，yeyoukenengshinanshengshenxianqinggandejiongjingzhong。