男人为什么不想和你结婚？

　　nanrendouhuichuguiduibudui。zheishiyigebaoshouzhengyitaolundehuati，yinqiledazhongdejiaoliuhekexueyanjiu。youfenxirenwei，nanrendeshenglixuyaoheshehuixinliyinsushitamenhenrongyishoudaoyouhuo，zaochengchuguidegailvtisheng。danshi，haiyourenchifanguolaidejianjie，juedezheishiduinanrendeyizhongpianjian，hulveletadedandanghezhongshi。wulunguannianzenyang，zheizhongqingkuangyinqileduinanrenxinli、jiazhongguanxiheshehuiguandetansuo。genjuduizheiyihuatideguanzhulejie，yexukeyigenghaodilejierenmenguanxideduoyuanxing。

　　男人的出轨状况

　　nanrendouhuichuguiduibudui，jinxienian，nanrenchuguideqingkuangchengweileyigebeishouzhumudehuatitaolun。haowuyiwen，xianzaishehuidequecunzaiyibufennanrenzaiganqinghuoaiqingguanxizhongchuguidexianxiang。danshi，nengfoujiandandejiangzheigexianxiangguinawei“nanrendoushihuichugui”ni？

　　心理需要和外部诱惑

　　yifangmian，nanrendechuguigerenxingweihenyoukenengyuqishuoxinlixuyaoxiangguan。renleitianxingcushigerenzaizhuiqiubuyiyangganshouhemanzuyucitongshi，zhenduidanyiguanxidezhangshijiankekaoxingkenenghuichanshengyanfangan。zheileiyanfanganhenyoukenengyanshengchuzhenduixinxianganhecijideyouxikewang，kenenghuidaozhichuguigerenxingwei。lingyifangmian，dangjinshehuizhenduinanrendejiaosedingyihaihuijizijidailaiyouhuo。caifuziyou、xinxineirongduiwaikaifangjiqishejiaowangluodexingqi，gengduodekenengxingtiaojiancushinanrengengkenenghuiyudaowaijieyouhuo。danshi，bingbuyiweizhenanrenmeifaezhiyouhuohuoshiquanbunanrendoushihuishenxianchugui。

　　文化的特点与社会认同

　　wenhuadetedianheshehuirentonghaiduinanrendechuguizhuangkuangzaochengyingxiang。yixieshehuifazhanhuowenhuayishurengranzhenduinanrendechuguigerenxingweichizhebaoronghuoshifangrendexintai，juedezheishinanrentianxingdeyibufen。zheizhongguannianhuijinyibuzongrongnanrenchuguidejudong，rangtamenjuedechuguishiyizhongzhengchangdebingbeijienadegerenxingwei。

　　个人责任与价值观念

　　danshi，bukehushishizhi，wulunnanshihaishinvsheng，renrendouyouyiwulaiweihuyiduanpingwendeaiqingguanxi。zhongshiherenkeshisuoyouguanxidezhongyaoqianti。nanrenshibushichuguibingbuzhishizaiyushengliyuanyinhuowaijieyouhuo，gengzaiyugerendeguannianheshiminggan。youyixienanrenkeyijianliqizuorendedixianzunxunyuanze，shouweizijideqingxuguanxi，weihubaoyangzhehunyinshenghuodepingwenjiqibicizhijianxingfu。

　　人性的复杂性和思索

　　nanrenhuibuhuichuguishiyigefuzawenti，bunengyiweiyong“duibudui”laihuiying。meiyigerendoushiduligeti，shougezhongyinsuweihai。youyixienanrenhenyoukenengdequecezhongyuchugui，danyeyouyixienanrennengbaochizhongshiheshiminggan。womenyaogengduodeguanxinrendebenxingdeduoyanghuaheduoyuanxing，lejiedajiajiandeguanxiheguanlijuecebingbuzhishiyoulieduiyucuo，fanershishoudaoguangdayaosuzongheweihai。

　　结束语

　　nanrendouhuichuguiduibudui，nanrenchuguishibushiduibudui，shiluobuqingcaigeyousuoaiwenti。meiyigerenjianjiehegushigeyoubutong。zuizhongyaodeshi，womenyinggaigengjiashenrusisuozheigexianxiangshencengyuanyinyingxiang，tuidonggengjiankangpingwendeaiqingguanxi，jiqijiansheyigegengweigongpinghezunzhongduifangdeshehuili。