打造难忘约会技巧一：约会设计感

　　nanrenweishenmehuichuguini?yuanyinyounaxie?，weilenengyanjiunanrenchuguideyuanyin，womenyinggaiquanmianlejieqibeihoudeshenglixinlifabingyuanyin。zheizhongqingkuangyinqileguangfanjiaoliuheyiyi，yinweibutonggerenheqingjinghenyoukenengyouzhebutongdehuida。danshi，yixiechangjiandeyuanyinbaohanmanzuyuwang、zhuiqiucijihuoshenmigan、zizunxindefabingyuanyinjiqiyuairenzhijiandenanti。weiyoutongguoshenrufenxiherenshinanrendexintaiyuxingwei，dajiacainenggenghaodelijiebingjiejuezheigexianxiang。

　　weilenengjiekainanrenchuguideyituan，womenyinggaishenrufenxizheiqizhongdeyuanyin。nanrenchuguibeihouhenyoukenengcunzaifanzadeshenglixinlidongji。suiranmeiyigeziwodezhuangkuangbujinxiangtong，dannengcongyixiajifangmianlailijienanrenchuguideyuanyin。

　　探索新鲜感和刺激性

　　nanrenweishenmehuichuguini?yuanyinyounaxie?，youyixienanrenchuguikenengshiyouyuduidaihunyinerzhangqiganqingzhongderichangrichangshenghuogandaoyanfan。tamenqipanzhaodaoxindecijixingyujiqing，zheileibulizhiyehuidaozhitamenbingbuzhongchengairen。

　　达到本身冲动

　　nanrenchuguidelingyigeyuanyinkenengshibenrenneixindeyuwangposhi。zheizhongchongdongkenengshiyuxingyouguande，yekenengshizhenduiquanli、rongyuhuochengjiugandezhuixun。dangtamenfaxianzheixiechongdongmeifazaixianzaideguanxilihuodemanzushi，jiuyoukenengtanxunbiedefangshilaimanzuzijiyaoqiu。

　　身份认同和自尊心的难题

　　youyixienanrenchuguikenengshiweilenengmanzuzijizizunhuotigaozijideshenfenrentong。zaiyuairenzhijiandeguanxizhong，tamenyexujuedezijibushouzhongshihuobuzuguanjian，yinerxunzhaowaibuquerenhezanyang，yitigaozixinxinhexinxin。

　　缺少沟通和理解

　　hunyinshenghuohuolianghaogoutongzhongqianqueyouxiaogoutonghelijiedoushinanrenchuguideyigeyinsu。dangyudaokunnan、zhengchaohuobumanyishi，youyixienanrenhenyoukenengtiaoxuangenjuchuguilaiyangaihuojiejuezheiyangdekunhuo。queshaogoutonghelijiedeguanjianzaiyuzaochengchuguidezhongyaoyinsuzhiyi。

　　外界发病原因和机遇

　　nanrenchuguideyuanyinlihaiyouwaibufabingyuanyinhejiyu。zheijiangbaokuogongzuozhongdejiyu、jiaojiquanlideyinyouhuozheqitatedinghuanjingyaosu。zheizhongwaizaiyinsuhenyoukenengnengweinanrenjiyuchuguidehaojihui，bingshidetamengenghuixianruchuguixingweigerenxingwei。

　　nanrenweishenmehuichuguini?yuanyinyounaxie?，queshiyouhenduoyaosukenengzaochengnanrenchugui，danbingbushimeiyigenanrendoushihuitaruzheiyitiaochuguixingweizhitu。lijiezheizhongyuanyinnengbangzhuwomennenggougenghaodijiejueyufangchuguidechansheng。zhenduiairenhefumulaishuo，chuangjianshenxinjiankangdejiaoliu、fenxiangrenwuhejijizhudongzhijiandehudongshiweixiguanxipingwendeguanjianyinsu。yucitongshi，gerenziwofansiheqingganguanlishuipingdetigaoyeduiyuyufangchuguijubeizhongdadeyingxiang。zuizhuyaodeshi，congyuantoushangsuzaobicizhijianderentonghezhongshi，yichuangjianlaogudeguanlianjiben，zheiyeshifangzhichuguizuihaodefangshi。genjuduinanrenchuguiyuanyindetaolun，dajiakeyigenghaodeyishidaozheixiewentideduoyuanxing，bingqieyigengzhuanyedejiaoduquchulilijienanrenzaihunyinheganqingzhongdegerenxingweitiaoxuan。