相亲中最重要的是什么？这3点很重要

 xiangqinzhongzuizhongyaodeshishenme？zhei3dianhenzhongyao。xiangyaoxiangqingengchenggong，jiuyaomingbaixiangqinheziyoulianaidequbie。mingbaixiangqinzuizhongyaodeshishenme。

相亲最重要的是什么。

 ruguonishitongguoxiangqinlaixunzhaoxingfu，niyaozhidaoxiangqinzhenzhengzhongyaodeshishenme。shuobaile，xiangqinguochengqishijiushiyigexinxijiaoliudeguocheng。lianggebuzhimingdenannv，tongguobuduandexinxijiaoliuheziwochengxian，huxiangxiyin，zuizhongyizhitongyijianliqinmiguanxi。danshihenduoliaotianyouwentidenansheng，yudaozheizhongshijiubuzhisuocuo。tamenbuzhidaogaishuoshenme，gaizuoshenme。jieguowangwangshizishizhizhongdechenmo。laishuoshuoxiangqinguochengzhongxuyaozhuyidejidian:

提前准备题目。

 tiqianzhunbeitimushinijinruxiangqinzhanchangqiandezhunbeizhiyi。nijisuile?nishizuoshenmede?nishidushengzima...zheixiedoubushihuati。zheixiedoushinidegulv。dajiadouyouxingqu，yedouliaoleqilai。

相亲找对象不等于找劣质。

 buyaowuyiweixiangqinshiwomenqiyurendouhuixuanzedefangshi，buyaowuyiweixiangqinduixiangjingguoyilunshehuishaixuanjiubeitaotaile?zheizhongfumianqingxuwangwanghennanrangrenxiangxin。fumuanpaixiangqin，buyaobaozhedichuxinliquwancheng，wangwangzaizhangbeiyoulechubulejiezhihou。

 shouxian，nvfangjiatingbuhuitaicha。fumuhuiweihaizianpaicuowuhunyinma?qici，nvshengzaizhangbeiquanziliyidingyaoyouyidingdehaoping，fouzebuhuijinrunifumudeyanli，suoyizhishaoyaozuoyige“xiaoshunderen”;disandian，yeshizuizhongyaodeyidian，jiranshifumutuijiande，erqietamenanpailexiangqin，neinijinruguanxi，congyikaishijiuxiangdangyu“dedaoleshuangfangfumudezhichi”。

掌握相亲对象的正确心态。

 buyaoyiweixiangqinjiuyidingyaoquta。zaichongshangziyoulianaidedangjinshehui，bijingxiangqinzhishiweihunnannvhuxianglejiedeyigejihui。benlaijiushiyigeshuangxiangxuanzedeguocheng，zounatiaoluwanquanyoulianggerenjueding。dangran，ruguozhendebuheshi，keyizuopengyou，buzuolianren。bijing，nvrenxiangyaoyigechengshuerbupianzhidenanpengyou。

 zhiyoumingqueyishangsandian，cainengzhengqueduidaixiangqin，cainengzaixiangqinzhongzhengquezhanxianziji。yuehuijieshuhou，wojihuaxiayiciyuehui，erbushidanxinwozuodehaobuhao，tashifouxihuanwo。