脱单的第一步：你的择偶标准是什么？

　　waibiaoyuelaoshidenanrenyuerongyichugui，waibiaoyuelaoshidenanrentongchangyunzangzhegengduoyinmi。tamenjirenyizhonganquanganzhidexinlaideyinxiang，danshiquehenyoukenengshibijiaorongyichuguideren。tamenbuhuizaochengqitarencaiyi，yinweitamenkanshangqubingbuxiangzheixiewankuzidihuoheixinhuaxinnan。danshi，zheizhishiyigexianxiang。zheizhongrongmaowenwandenanrenjuyougenghaodemengpianshuiping，keyiqingeryijudiweichiduozhongguanxi。zheigexianxianggaojiewomen，waibiaobingbushizongshinengtixianyigerenzhenzhengyiyishangdepinxinghemanyidu。

　　外表蒙骗的掩藏

　　waibiaoyuelaoshidenanrenyuerongyichugui，waibiaojingchangnengjiwomenyizhongzhiguandiyinxiang，danshi，zheileiyinxiangbingbuyidingshinenggouzhunqueditixianyigerendebenzhi。youqishiyixielaoshikexinlaidenanren，tadewaibiaotongchanghuishirenmenduiyutamendemanyiduchanshengwuhui，juedetamenbuhuichugui。danshi，zhenxiangquebingbushizheiyang。

　　思维方式：对老实男人的偏见

　　rangwomenxiansikaoyixia，weishenmeguangfanrenweiwaibiaolaoshidenanrenbuyichugui？zheiyexuhewomendui"laoshi"zheiyicihuidehanyixiangguan。womenchangchangjuedelaoshiderendoushikexinlai、zhongshihexiangduiwendingde。danshi，zheileipianjiantongchangrangwomenhushiletamenyeshiyouyuwangqingxuderen。

　　面罩背后真相

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　　心里强烈不满与冒险的引诱

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　　寻找自我肯定与达到

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　　结语

　　waibiaoyuelaoshidenanrenyuerongyichugui，waibiaolaoshidenanrenfeichangrongyichuguidexianxiangyigenairenxunweitaolundehuati。tagaojiewomen，bunengzhishipingzhewaibiaolaipanduanyigerendepinxingyuxingwei。meigerendouyouneixinshenchudefanzashenghuozhongdemaodun，dajiaxuyaodalianglejieyubaorongtamen。yucitongshi，zhenduizheixiebeiweizhuangnanren，womenyeyaotigaojingti，bimianbeitadeyizhanglaoshidemianpangsuomengbi。