筛选好男人：男人穷，能嫁吗？

　　weishenmenanrendourongyichugui？zheizhongqingkuangqianshezherenmenduiyunanxingxinlizhuangtai、shengcunyali、xingyuwanghejiazhiguanniancuozongfuzadejiangjie。congchuantongdenanxingshehuijiaosedaoduiwaibuyouhuodezaoyu，zhongzhongyuanyindouhuibianchengnanrenchuguidefabingyuanyin。suiranbukeyibasuoyounanrenguidaoyilei，keshiqingganshangdelengmo、chengjiugandequeshi、xinrengandequeshidengdouyoukenengdaozhitamenshenxianwaiyudeyouhuo。lejiezheiyixianxiangjiangyouzhuyushencengcitansuonanxingshenglixinlizhangqibaochidehunlianguanxi。

　　男人的窘境：诱惑和压力

　　weishenmenanrendourongyichugui，nanrenfeichangrongyichugui，zheizhongqingkuangyinqiledajiadehaoqixintaolun。zaitansuonanrenchuguidezhuyaoyuanyinshi，dajiaxuyaokaolvtamensuoyudaodezhuduojiongjing。

　　zaixiandaishehuizhong，nanxingchangchangmianlingezhonggeyangwaijieyouhuo。zhuyaobaokuoshejiaowangluodexingqi、xiuxianhuodongdejingchangjiqichuruzhichangheshejiaoquanzilideyouhuo。zheizhongyouhuobudanlaiyuanyudazhongduinanxingdeqianbodianping，yeshilaiziyuduinanxingdequanyihequanlidexiangwang。buzhengdangguanxidexingcheng、duchushijiandezengjiajunweinanrendailailetanxunxinxianganhecijideyouxijiyu。zheiyeshidenanrenfeichangrongyichennizaiwaibudeyouhuozhong，zaochengchuguidequshi。

　　精神需求：缺少与冷漠

　　nanrenfeichangrongyichuguidelingyigezhuyaoyuanyinshitamenzaiganqingyaoqiulidequeshaohelengmo。suiranganqinghehunyinguanxiduinanreneryanyiyangzhongyao，keshitamenwangwangbuzhiruhebiaodazijideqingxuyuxuqiu。zheikenengshiyinweidazhongduinanxingdeqidai，ruwanqiang、dulihelixingdepinpaixingxiang，shidetamenhulveqingganshangdebiaoshuhejiaoliu。dangnanrendejingshenxuqiubingmeiyouhuodemanzushi，tamenhuixunzhaotawangyoudeguanzhuyuwennuan，jinerfeichangrongyicandaowaiyudequantao。

　　性欲望与乐趣的诱惑

　　xingyushinanxingfeichangrongyichuguidelingyigeyuangu。nanxingzaishenglifangmianchangchanghuiyougengnongliedexingkewang，ershehuifazhanzhenduinanxingdexingziyouheshifangxintaiyeshitamenhenrongyishoudaoxingyouhuochanshengdeyingxiang。ciwai，zhangshijiankekaoxingguanliankenengzaochengfuqishenghuodejiandanheqianquecijixing。zheiyeshidenanrenqipanxinxianganhereqing，jineryinqiwaiyudexiangfa。

　　信任感的向往

　　nanrenfeichangrongyichuguidelingyigexinlizhangaiyinggaishixinrengandexiangwang。nanrenwangwangxuyaobeijieshouherenke，erwaibuzanyanghetansuobianchengshejiaoquanzilidejujiaodian，zheileichongdongtongchangchaoguozijidepingwenguanlian。dangnanrenjuedeliangrendeguanxibuzulaoguhuobuhuibeilingyifanggaoduzhongshishi，tamenyexuxunzhaowaiburentongheguanai，jinermaijinchuguidelu。

　　自我反思与关联基本建设

　　suirannanrencunzaizhuduojiongjingheyouhuo，queyeburonghushimeiyigerentiaoxuanyuzeren。nanrenmenbixuziwofansi，lejiezijineixinyaoqiu，bingzhudongnulidazaowendingxinghechongshikuaileguanlian。chucizhiwai，airenzhijiandegoutongjiaoliu、lijieyuzhichiyefeichangzhongyao。bicinenggouyitongtansuoxindefangshiqutishengchuanqizhifuchengxubingmanzubicizhijiandexuyao，jinerjiansheyigelaogudeguanlian。

　　结束语

　　weishenmenanrendourongyichugui，weihenanrenfeichangrongyichugui？zheishiyigefuzawenti，qianshedaonanxingyuanyoudegexingyuxinlitezheng，jiqiwaibudezhuduoyouhuoyuyali。danshi，lejiezheiyixianxiangbingbushishiweilenanrenzuochutuoci，fanershitishinanrenmenbixugengjiashenketansuozijineixinhetanxunjiankangdeshenghuojiejuefangfa。weiyoutongguoziwofansiheguanlianjibenjianshe，nanrenmencaiburongyichugui，zhangqibaochihemeihaozhijiandeguanxi。