冷爱：不要轻易答应急着结婚的男生

　　nanrenchuguidebiaoxian，tongchangshiyixilieshenxianzuieshenyuandejixiang。tamenyexujianjianbiandepiqibaozao，duijiatingchengyuanguanxiyuelaiyuelengmo。tamenchangchangcuxindayilaopoyuhaizidebixu，jingchangyebuguisuhuoshimomingqimiaoquezhenjiatingjucan。chucizhiwai，chuguidenanrenyehuibiaoxianchuheyiwangbutongleixingderenjihudong，rujingchangyuqitayixingjiaowang，tebieshiandiliweichihunyinguanxi。tamenyeyoukenengzhujianduiwaibuduizishendeyouhuolibiaoxianchuguoduguanxin，gengjiazhongshirongmaoheyizhe。zheizhongjixiangdoushinanxingzaoyitaruchuguixingweizhilujinggao。

　　出轨的提醒讯号

　　chuguixingweihechuguishijinjinianjiatingchengyuanguanxizhongjingchangkaolvdewenti，zaiqizhongnanshengchuguichangchangbianchengjujiaodian。danshi，nanrenchuguidebiaoxianbingbushiyichengbubian，suizhierlaideshiyixiliezairichangshenghuozhongshiyanzhongyaodejiaosedejixiang。zaizheipianwenzhangzhong，womenjiangyaotaolunnanshengchuguidetixingxunhao，bangzhuwomennenggougenghaodifaxianbingjiejuezheileipohuaixingxingwei。

　　消失的时间

　　yidannanshengzhujianchugui，tamentongchanghuipinfandebeijinglixiangyewenhuoxiaoshi。turanzhijian，zijidegongzuobiandegengjiafanmangqiebukekangli，changchangzhaoliyouwandaohuotizaoliqu。zheileixiaoshideshijianfeiyisuosi，bianchengtamenchuguidebiaoxianzhiyi。tamenyexuyishejiaomeitijuhuihuodonghuojiaojiweiliyou，yuqitanvshiweichibuzhengdangguanxi，huozhepinfandehetongshihuojiuqingrenyuehui。zheileixiaotuigerenxingweiyoukenengshichuguidetixingxunhao。

　　心态的改变

　　nanxingzaichuguideshihoujingchangbiaoxianchukendingdiqingxubodong。tamenyexuyuelaiyuepiqibaozao，yihuierlengdan、yihuierlengchaorefeng。tamenduijiarendeguanzhujiangdi，buhuizaiguanzhulingyibandeyaoqiuhetihui。tamenduiyujiatinghuodongcanyuqizhongbiandegengjiashao，suirancengshijiazhongrichangshenghuodezhongyaojiaose。gezhongqingxudegaibianshichuguideyigexianzhujixiang。

　　过度关心外部

　　chuguidenanshengtongchangzhujianduizishenderongmaoheyizheguoduguanxin。tamenhaofeidaliangshijianhejinglizaixingxiangshang，biaoxianzaifuzhuang、touxing、danxiangshuidengduogefangmian。zheileiguoduguanxinwaibudegerenxingweihenyoukenenglaiyuanyutamenxiangzaibiedenvshiyanqianbiaoxianchuyouhuoli。chuguizhezhujianmanbaozheizhongqinfen，buranyehuiyinqilaopodecaiyi。zheileigenggaiguanzhudiandoushichuguiwentizhongyaotixing。

　　频繁地谎言

　　bansuizhechuguiweifaxingweidejiazhong，nanshengtongchanghuipinfandesahuang。tamenchixubianzhihuangyan，manbaoziyidechuguixingweibiaoxianbiedeyucixiangguandeshier。zheizhonghuangyanhuishejigongzuojihua、xiuxianhuodong、jiaotongchuxingdeng。tamenbiandegengjiaxianshu，erqiebuduanshenruhuangyan，yizulanlaopofajueshiqing。pinfandihuangyanshinanxingchuguidelingyigexianzhujixiang。

　　再次拉近关系

　　yidanfaxianchuguidejixiang，duirenheyiduifuqieryan，zhongjianxinrendoushiyigemanzhangjiannandequanguocheng。yaojinxingzhenchengdeduitanhejijizhudongdefuqigoutong，yiquedingwentidebenzhi，bingzhaodaojiejuefangfa。yucitongshi，shoushangyifangyeyaojiyulingyifangyigejihuiqumibuguocuo，bingqieduizhongjianxinrendeguochengjinxingchixubuduandejianguanhelingting。

　　zaiqinziguanxizhong，nanrenchuguidebiaoxianhenyoukenengjubeixingshiduoyang。bulunshixiaoshideshijian、xintaidegaibian、guoduguanxinwaibuhuoshipinfandihuangyan，zheizhongjixiangdouhuiyiweizhechuguigerenxingwei。weiyoutongguoduizheizhongjinggaoxinhaodegonglvjuechadaoheyouxiaogoutong，fuqijiancainenggenghaodejiejue、chulibingfujianyigejiatingderentonghehemu。