和他发生关系后，我才知道自己被第三者

　　nanrenchuguihouhaihuipengyuanpeima，nanrenchuguizhihou，shibushihaihuijixuyuyuanpeiweichihunyinguanxi？zheiyiwentiyizhibeishoutantao。zaiwaiyushijiandefasheng，youyixienanrenxuanquyuyuanpeilakaijuli，eryoudezeqinfenxiuhuzhijiandeguanxi。gezhongyuanyincushinanrendetiaoxuangebuxiangtong，runeixinshenchudeneijiu、shiminggan、quehandeng。danshi，yeshiyounanrenduiyuanpeidezhongshibingmeiyoushouyingxiang，tamenleguanmianduinanti，bingbuduanfujianbiciderenkehegoutong。yiner，nanrenzaichuguizhihoushibushihaihuipengyuanpei，zaiyugerendeguannian、chengshuqingkuangjiqiqingxudanliang。

　　nanrenzaichuguizhihou，shibushihaihuiyuyuanpeichixubaochimiqiexiangguan，zheiyiwentiyizhibaoshouzhengyiyucaixiang。xiabianjiangconggegeshijiaotaolunzheiyihuati。

　　内心深处的纠结与追悔莫及

　　nanrenchuguihouhaihuipengyuanpeima，chuguitongchangrangnanrenshenxianneixinshenchudezhengtuohezhuihuimojidangzhong。tamenyexushenganneijiuhezhendeduibuqiyuanpei，xiwangyongweichihunyinguanxilaipeichangziyideguoshi。zheishi，nanrenhenyoukenengjijichupengyuanpei，shituxiufuliekaidehunyin，zhongxinhuidaocongqiandepeihemoqihewennuandangzhong。

　　使命感与对家人的服务承诺

　　youyixienanrenchuguizhihou，huiyishidaojiatingdezhongyaoxingyuzeren。tamengaoqingchu，yuanpeishibenrenyishougoujiandeyigejiatingdehexinyuzhichi，yineryehuizhudongqinmiyuanpei，shizhefujianbicizhijiandexinrenheaiqing。tamenbuyuanfangqijiazhong，qinfenmibucuowu，yitigaohunyindewendinghemanzugan。

　　心寒与关于新刺激的游戏追寻

　　danshi，youyixienanrenchuguizhihouquezhuixunyigexindedecijijuligan。tamenyexuyiduiyuanpeigandaoyanfan，huozheshiduihunyincunzaidewentigandaowuligenggai。zheishihou，tamenwangwanghuixuanzeyuyuanpeilakaijuli，paoxiayuanxiandehunyinguanxi，tansuoxindecijixingbingmanzu。duiyuzheileinanrenlaijiang，zaiciyuyuanpeichupengchengweileyizhongyalihuoxianzhi。

　　外界条件的限制与自我觉醒

　　youshihou，waizaiyinsuyehuiyingxiangdaonanrenduiyuanpeidetiaoxuan。tamenkenenghuishoudaozhouweirendechizeyudaodeshenli，huoshiyishidaotazaiweichihunyinlideyiwu。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，yixienanrenyehuizhudongzhongguiyuanpei，mianduikunnan，xunzhaoyigejiatingdehemuhexingfu。

　　自我反省与婚姻改革创新

　　chuguishijianyenengchengweinanrenziwofanshenghehunyingaigechuangxindejihui。dangnanrenyishidaoziyidechuguiduihunyindaozhilesunhaishi，takenenghuiqinfengaibianxianzhuang，qianghuaduiyuanpeideguanaiyubaorong。genjujijizhudongdejiaoliuherangbu，nanrenkeyiheyuanpeichuangjiangengweilaoguyujiankangzhijiandeguanxi。

　　nanrenchuguihouhaihuipengyuanpeima，zainanrenchuguizhihou，shibushihaihuizaiciheyuanpeiweichihunyinguanxi，zaiyuhenduofangmian，baohanneixinshenchudejiujieyuzhuihuimoji、shimingganyuduijiarendefuwuchengnuo、xinhanyuguanyuxincijideyouxizhuixun、waijietiaojiandexianzhiyuziwojuexing，jiqiziwofanshengyuhunyingaigechuangxin。meiyigerenzhuangkuangdouyousuobutong，yinerjielunyewufayigaierlun。zuihou，nanrenyuanbuyuanyiheyuanpeichixubaochimiqiexiangguan，zaiyutamenduiyuhunyinyujiatingdeguannian、chengshuqingkuangjiqiduiaiqingdedanlianghefuchu。