冷爱：国内婚姻家庭咨询业应借鉴美国的产业化运作，成立全国性协会

　　zaixiandaishehui，hunwailianhejingshenchuguibianchenghunyinlideyinanwenti。danshi，weilezhengjiuhunyinbingfujianxinren，womenyinggaitanxunzuilixiangdefangshi。zhilaogongjingshenchuguizuihaodebanfashiyoushulilianghaodegoutongyulijie，tishengfuqijiandeganqingqiaoliang。ciwai，tishengfuqidegongtongaihao，fuchugengduoshijianheguanxinzaiyujiatinghunyinshang，doushifujianxinrenzuiyouxiaofangshi。chixubuduandenuliyuxianghufuchijiangbangzhufuqifujianxingfukuailedehunyin，tongshibimianjingshenchuguidechansheng。

　　创建夫妻间的信任和交流：

　　zhilaogongjingshenchuguizuihaodebanfa，youzheyouxiaodegoutonghechuangjianfuqijiandexinrenkeyijiejuejingshenchuguinantidezhongyaoqianti。genjuzhenxinchengyilingtinglingyifangdeyaoqiuhetihui，lejiebicizhijiandeneixinshenchu，nenggoubangzhufuqinenggougenghaodijiejuejiongjing。fuqijiandejiaoliubujinjinshibiaomiandegoutongjiaoliu，gengweiguanjiandeshizhenzhenzhengzhenglejieduifang，yaojinkenengdadaolingyifangdexuyao。dangqingkuangchuxianshi，lijizhenchengdigoutongjiaoliu，yitongxunzhaojiejuefangfa，keyigaishanfuqiguanlian。

　　关心夫妻间的感情要求：

　　jiejuejingshenchuguinantidelingyigeguanjianzaiyutishengfuqijiandeganqingqiaoliang。fuqijiandeaiqingxuyaobuduansuzaoyuweihu。weilefangzhifuqijiandeganqingshuyuan，biciyingtishenggongtongdegerenaihao，yiqicanyuhuodong，zaojiunanwangdehuiyihejiaoliumeihaodeshiguang。chucizhiwai，jiduifanggengduoguanzhuyuzunzhong，biaoshiaiyiherenke，nengrangduifangjuedetamenbeizhenxihezhongyaodeyibufen。

　　夫妻间空间和时间：

　　weilefangzhijingshenchugui，fuqijiankongjianheshijiandefenpaiyouweizhongyao。fanmangshenghuohegongzuogongzuoyalikenenghuishifuqizhijiandeguanxiyuelaiyuebaochijuli，weilefangzhizheiyangdeshiqingfasheng，fuqiyingdangzhidingxiangyingderichenganpai，baozhengyougengduodeshijiangongchu。zheijiuyiweizhebicizhijianxuyousirenkongjian，tongshihaiyaoxunzhaogongtongdeshizhang，qieweichigoutongjiaoliuyuhudong。fenpeiyouguilvdeyouhui，yiqicanyujiatinghuodong，weifuqiguanlianyinrushenmigan，fangzhixianghuzhijiandeshuligan。

　　寻找技术专业支持和婚姻指导：

　　dangjingshenchuguinantibunengtongguofuqizijidenulichulishi，xunzhaojishuzhuanyezhichihehunyinzhidaoshiyigezhengquedexuanze。jishuzhuanyehunyinzixunguwenhuoxinlizixunshinenggoutigongzhonglidexiangfahejutizhidao，xiezhufuqigenghaodelejiebicizhijian，bingtigongyouxiaojiejuefangfa。tamenkeyibangzhufuqichuangjianjiankangdeshenghuoyuyangoutongjiqiaoheyingduicuoshi，fujianhunyinbingfangzhijingshenchuguizaicichuxian。

　　夫妻间的信任复建：

　　quanyuhunyinzhongjingshenchuguidetongkuxuyaoyiduanshijiannaixin。xiufufuqijiandexinrenshiyigexunxujianjindeliucheng，bixufuqibicigongtongfendou。tongguoyanxingyizhi、weichichengxinheyanxingyizhi，fuqijiandexinrencaikeyizaicijianliqi。bicidouyaozhanxianchengxinheduilishiweifaxingweidehuiguo，bingjiduifangjiyubiaoxianzijizhidewomenxinren。manmanqinshenjinglixinrendezheiyixianguangming，fuqizhijiandeguanxijiangdedaofujian，binggengweilaogu。

　　结束语：

　　zhilaogongjingshenchuguizuihaodebanfa，yizhifuqijianjingshenchuguinantifangfayouhenduo，danhexinneirongshitigaofuqijiandexinren、tishengqingganniudai、heliguihuashijianyukongjianjiqixunzhaojishuzhuanyezhichihehunyinzhidao。hunyinbixufuqibicizhijiandegongtongfendouhezhangjiudepinbo，weiyoutongguoxianghuzhijiandelejie、guanxinzhichi，caikeyichuangjianyigejiankang、yuanmandehunyinguanlian，bikaijingshenchuguidekunjing。