我讨厌男生对我太好，该如何调整心态顺利脱单？

　　zheishiyigeweirao“laogongjingchangkaizhongdianfangbuchengrenchugui”zheiyixianxiangjinxingdexiaogushi。zhujiaofaxianzijizhangfujingchangjinchuzhongdianfang，danshitameicidoushifoudingchuguideshishi。zaizheiyangyigegushili，womenjiangyaoqinyankandaozhujiaozenmemianduizheiyibukehushishiji，jiqitahezhangfuzhijiandeguanxizaiyigemimizhongshifounengweichiyuanxiandewendingxinghexingfukuaile。genjushenrufenxizheiyixianxiang，womenjiangyaojieluchuzheiliangrendeguanxiheyigemimibeihouzhenxiang。

　　1. 发觉丈夫的真相

　　laogongjingchangkaizhongdianfangbuchengrenchugui，zheishiyigeyouguanyiweiqiziruheshibietazhangfudemimidegushi。zheimingqizizhujianjuechazhangfuzongshibugaozhidongxiang，ertazaitadeshoujilikandaoletonghuashujujiluxinxi，anshizhetachangchangguanglinzhongdianfang。danshi，zhangfuyizhibuchengrenchuguideshishi，rangqizixianrugulvhecaixiangdangzhong。

　　2. 揭露隐秘背后真相

　　qizixinxinjiekaizhangfubeihoudezhenxiang，taandilikaochaletadezhutihuodong，genzongtaquguodedifangzhongdianfang，binghebiedeqizijiaoliutantaotamenzheiyangdejingli。manmandi，tamanmanyanzhenglezhangfudechuguigerenxingwei，danyiranxuyaogengduozhijiezhengjuqumianduizhangfubingjielushiqing。

　　3. 应对丈夫的否定

　　dangqizixiangzhangfujielutafaxianhou，zhangfuyiranbuchengrenchugui，naizhixiangfanzeguaiqizibuxinren。qizijuedeshiwanghexinhan，tayiduhuaiyitamendeganqingshibushihaiyouxiwang，bingqieduizijidexiangfashuipingchanshengzhiyi。

　　4. 妻子的决策和不良影响

　　jingguoyifansikaoyuneixinzhengzha，qizizuihouzuochuleyigejiannandejueding。yushijuedingliquzhangfubingzhuixunzijideaiqing，buhuizaichengshoubeiqipianhefoudingdekuchu。zheigexuanzeduitahetazhangfudeshenghuoxingchenglezhongdadeyingxiang，womenbixuyingduifenlichulaidailaideshanghai，ranhoujinxingsikaoyufazhan。

　　5. 复建生活和寻求答案

　　liquzhangfuhou，qizizhujianfujianziyideshenghuo。taxunzhaojishuzhuanyezhichiheguli，yongshijianzhishang，xunqiudaanranhouzhaodaoneixindeningjing。zaizheiguochengzhong，tadongdelezaicidanduherenke，chedigaibiantadeyishengheduiaideqidai。

　　6. 汇总与启发

　　laogongjingchangkaizhongdianfangbuchengrenchugui，zheipiangushijieluleyigeshijishenghuozhongchangjiandexianxiang：lingyibanbuchengrenchugui。talunshuleqizizenyangzaoyuzheiyikaoyan，tanxunzhenxiangbingjichujiannandexuanze。genjuzheipiangushi，dajiakeyikandaojiazhongganqingzhongdebukeyucexingheduoyuanxing，chongfenlejiedaozaizheimejiannandeqingxingxia，fujianziyideshenghuoshikenengxingde。zuizhuyaodeshi，womenyaoaixizhenzhihechengshishouxinzaiganqingzhongdezuoyong，yucitongshixuehuilijiebaohubicizhijiandequanli。