gongzhongchanghefayanhuijinzhangbuanjibenshangshimeiyigerendouhuiyoude“bing”,zheiqishishiyizhongbenneng,meigerenzaibeiyiqunrendingzhekanshidouhuijiqimeiyouanquangan,jianghuajinzhangyeshikeyilijiede。neizaigongzhongchanghefayantebierongyijinzhangzenmeban,xiamianjidajiayixiejianyi。
一、多练
suhuashuoshunengshengqiao,jianghuajinzhangdezuizhongyaobiaoxianjiushiwangci,naoziyipiankongbai。weishenme?bushulianbei。juyigejiandandelizi,meiyigelaoshidiyicishangjiangtaishidouhuijinzhangfadou,danjingguolenianfuyiniandejiaoxue,zhongdianshilaoshijiaodeneirongnianfuyiniandoushiyiyangde,manmandelaoshiliannageneirongzainabenshunayiyedenayiduandoujideqingqingchuchu,shangkezenmehaihuijinzhangbuanni?
zaijugelizi,xueyingyuderendouhuiyouyigebainianbubiandeshijinanti,beidanci。yibanshanggaozhonghoudajiajiufaxiansuizhecihuiliangdaliangzengduo,cihuiyuelaiyuenan,yiwanglvyeyuelaiyuegao,jingchangyouyizhongqingkuangjiushikandaoyigedancijuedechaojishujueduibeiguodanjiushixiangbuqilaishenmeyisi,huozhezaifanyideshihou“fuza”youhaojizhongfanyifangfa,nisihuojiujideyigecomplex,complicatedniyebeiguojiushixiangbuqilai。weishenme?yinweibushulian。danshixianghello、applezheiyangdejichucihuijishimeiyouxueguoyingyuderenyenengzhangkoujiulai,weishenme?yinweirichangshenghuozhongchuchudouzaishuo,shuoduolejiuchengleyizhongbenneng,jiuxiangchifanyiyang,nijinzhangdeshihouhuiwangjizenmechifanma,buhuia。
zenmezuo?henjiandan,qishibuzixinshiwomenzijineixinyizhijuedewohuichucuo,bafayangaoduobeijibian,daolenenggoudaobeiruliudejingjiejiubuhuipachucuo,jiuxiangrangnizaigongzhongmianqianbei“chuangqianmingyueguang”nihuijinzhangwangcima,mingxianbuhuia,weishenme,yinweiwomencongxiaojiubeizheishoushi,jianzhijiuxiangkezaiguzilile,genbenbupazijihuicuo。suoyidiyibujiushizuodaoduizijifayandeneirongjueduideshulian。
二、安全感的问题。
qishimeiyigerenzaiwanrenzhumudeqingkuangxiahuijinzhangbuandeyuanyinqishishilaiziyuwomenzaoqizuxianshenghuodehuanjing,dalieshiruguoganjuedaoshenbianyouwushudeyanjingkanzhezijihuibuhuijuedechaojinzhangchaomeiyouanquangan。suoyizheishimeigerendebenneng。
neitebierongyijinzhangzenmekefuni,henjiandan,mougeshoushuoguotachanggeshibaxiamianwushuguanzhongdangchengyigegeluobu,niduizheyitiandeluobuchanggejianghuanihuijinzhangma,buhuia。qishiwomenyoushihoushixuyaoziwoanweide,jiuxiangyanerdaolingdishuotamendoukanbudaowotingbudaowochanggeshuohua,zheilizhiyouwoyigerendeshihoushibushijiuhuifangsonghenduo。
三、出了错怎么办 。
jiusuanchaojishulianleyebunengbaozhengbaifenbaiwanmei,jiuxiangnichilezheimeduonianfanhaishiouerhuibeiyucikadaoduibudui。zheishihouqishishixuyaonidesuijiyingbiannengli。
heguihelaoshicengjuguotayiqianyanjiangdelizi,tazaigesongleifengdeshihougangjiangwandiyiduanjiutiaodaozuihouyiduanqule,zhutidoushenghuale,zishiyebaihaole,zheigewanfengangadeshunjian,helaoshishouyishou”rangwomenlaihuiyiyixialeifengdouzuolenaxiehaoshi“。
suoyidiyidian,chucuodeshihouyidingbunengziluanzhenjiao,xiamiansheiyebuzhidaoniyanjianggaoshangxiedeshisha,nizijiyiluandajiadouzhidaonicuole,xiangmibudejihuidoumeiyoule。keyiqukanyixiegongzhongrenwuzaichucuoshizenmeliwankuanglanwanhuijumiande。
四、练习失误。
bulunshizaishangchangqiandelianxihaishifawanyanhou,duishiwudoubuyaoqingyifangguo。
shangchangqiandelianxichuxianshiwushi,duolianxishiwudezheigedifang,qiejizhongtouzailai,tebielangfeishijianerqiejiqimeibiyao。
fayanhouzhongxinhuixiangyixiazijidefayan,shiwudedifanghuijiahouzhongxinlaiyibian,xiangyixiangxiacizenmejianghuigenghao。bupazheicishiwule,jiuxiangbeimayixianiyongyuanbuzhidaozijiyouduochun,zheicideshiwushixiacidejingyanzheizhonghuadajiayetingguohenduobianyinggaikeyidongde。
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