shejiaokongjuzheng,youmingshejiaojiaolvzheng、jianrenkongbuzheng,shiyizhongduishejiaohuogongkaichanghegandaoqiangliekongjuhuoyoulvdejingshenjibing。neihuanyoushejiaojiaolvzhengyaozenmezhiliaoni?zhiliaoshejiaojiaolvzhengshiyouyaozhuyishenme?yixiashiwojidajiadeyixiejianyi。
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一、树立信心
huanzheyaoshuliqiangdadezixinxin。peiyangzijiqiangdadeneixinshijie。neixinshijiedeqiangdashiwomenzhanshengyiqiekunnanhecuozhedebibeifama。zenyangpeiyangni?keyicongshenghuozhongdexiaoshirushou,birumeitianjizijijijidexintaianshi,duizijishuo:woshizuibangde,woshiwurenkechaoyuede。
二、自我暗示
chulejijideziwoanshiwai,womenyeyaozhenzhengdezuodianshenmeyijileikeyirangwomenchongmanzixindeziben。ruduokanxieyouyiyideshu,duozuojicilvxing,qinfenyixie,jiangguoduodejinglitourudaogongzuozhongqudengdeng。
三、转移注意力
buyaoguofenguanzhu“kenenghuichuchou”“chuchouhouzenmeban”,jieshouzijidequedian,jieshouzijifanguodecuowu,buyaojizijihendayali,“woyidingyaozuohao”“wozheicibunengzaishibaile”zheiyangdetaiduwangwanghuidaozhixindeshibai;duohepengyou、qinrenjiaoliu。jijideyuyanjiaoliushizhanshengkongjudefabao。zaiwomenhebierendejiaoliuzhong,womenbujinkeyiyouxiaofangsongxinqing,haihuixuedaohenduoyixiangbudaodezhishi。
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四、树立目标
keyimeitianshedingyigejiaotandexiaomubiao。xiancongnishenbianderenkaishi,jiaren、pengyou、tongshi,shiqingkegongkesi,danshiniyaojinliangduoshuo,yanzhangzijidetanhuashijian,xiangshoutanhuahejiaoliudeguocheng。zhihou,nijiukeyiqurenshineixienixiangrenshideren,qugengengduoderenjiaowang;
五、相信自己
zhiliaojiaolvzhengbujinyaoxiangxinziji,haiyaoduocanjiashehuishijian,yongzijidexingdonggaibianzijidexintai,shenghuojiuhuiluchukeaidexiaorong,buyaokeqiuwanmei。haiyaoyongqingsongyoushandexintaiduidaizijihetaren,duojizijijijidexintaianshi,“nidangrankeyigenta/tazuopengyou”“yiqichuquchigefanduohao”,baniyuanyiyurenjiaowangdeniantoubiaodachulai,jieshineixienixiangjieshideren,pengyouhuirangnideshijiegengkaikuo。
五、鼓励自己
gulizijiqucanjiajuhui。jizijidezuidiyaoqiujiushichuxianzaineilijike,nijiuzhanshenglezijiyici。xiayicinikenengjiugenzuozaipangbiandeguniangjiaohuanledianhuahaoma,zheihuishihendajinbu。zaixiayici,yexuniyekeyidangzhongjianggexiaohuashenmede,gaogaoqifen。zheixiezhendebunan;
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六、学会倾听
zaizuoyigebiaodazhezhiqian,zuogehaodeqingtingzhe,huirangnidedaogengduorendehuanying,zaiqingtingbierendeguochengzhong,niyehuixuedaogengduodongxi,“yuanlaishiqingbingbushiwoxiangdeneiyang”“tadeyisiyuanlaishizheiyangde”,qingtinghuirangnigengjiakuanrong,huitiliang,baorongtaren。
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