挽回前男友的3个前提条件

 fenshouhouyaoxiangchenggongwanhuinanyouzhongshiaiqing，youyixiefangmiannibixuzhixiao，zheiyangcainenggoulengjingxialai，rangqingxuanwengengyouliyusikaohefansheng，caibuhuimangmudefuzhuxingdong。xiamianxianlailejie wanhuiqiannanyou de3geqiantitiaojian。

一、正视分手这个事实。

 wanhuinanyoushouxianyaozhengshifenshouzheigeshishi，niyaomingbaifenshouyiranfasheng，jibiannixinbuganqingbuyuanquebixuchengrenzheigeshishi，huoxunihuibaoyuantaduinidewuqing，nineimeaitaquebeihenxindepaoqi，keshifenshoudeyuanyinwangwangbushinibugounulifuchu，ershitaganjuedaonidemouxiefangmianlingtawufarenshou，daozhinideaibianchenglecaozongbainong、yalibipodengdeng。

 tahuoxuzhidaoniweitahao，danshihuixiang“taiguofenle，wojianzhikuaiyaozhixi”，suoyibuyaoyiweinisuoweideaihefuchujiuhuiyoushouhuo。

 tatifenshoukendingjingguoleshensishulv，wokaolvqingchule，zhiyoufenshouyitiaolukezou。erniruguobunenglengjingmiandui，jiuhuidaozhiyuejiuchancijitapaodeyuekuai，yinweizhangqidexiangchutayijingzaimouxiefangmianwufarenshourongnani，nandaohuiyinweinijijuhuajiuzaicijieshouma？suoyiniyueshibidejin，tayueshihuijuedetazhendetaifanrenle。

二、找出自身缺点，提高自我认知。

 quedianshixiangduilaishuode，nihuoxurenweizijihenhuopokeai，keshitaquexihuananjingneilian，huixiang“weishenmetazongshizheimefengdianguozaode”，nijuedezijihenanjingduanzhuang，takenenghuixiang“tataineixianglebushihewo”。

 suoyiwanhuinanyoudehua，nigaizhengdefangmianyidingyaofuheduifangdeneixinganshouhexuqiu，dongdetishengziworenzhihefanshengnengli，jiunengcongtapingshideyanxingjucuodangzhongfaxianyixiebumanhuofangandeduanni，yejiumingbaitabuxihuannineiyang。

 suoyishuonimenfenshoudeyuanyinhuoxuzhishiyinweinibingweizourutadeneixin，tajingchangzaixiang“taweishenmezongneizheiyanga，haoxiangwanquanbuzaihuwodeganshou，bulejiewodexinsi”，neinizaitaxinzhongjiushitaiguoziwo。

三、努力尝试了解他，改变自己。

 wanhuiqiannanyouzuizhongyaodeyigetiaojianshi，niyaochangshigaibianziji。birutabenjiubuairenao，niquebizhetajiaoji，shuoshiyouliyurenmaiweitazhexiang，nidechufadianshihaode，danshitaquehuixiang“zhenshiduoguanxianshi”，taganjuezijibeiniqiangpozuobuyuanyideshiqing，jibianzuishangbushuo，xinliquehenbushufu。

 dangleisideqingkuangyierzaidefashengzhishi，tahuishoubuleerhenifenshou，biaomianshangkannidequemeicuo，danshiniquecuole，yinweinimeiyouyongxinqulejieta，budongdetaxiguanleanjingdesikao，bingbushanyantanyebuaicourenao。

 dangnizuodaowanquandelejietadexiangfaheganshou，jiuhuizirandexiangdaoqugaibianzijiyiwangdeziyiweishi，yitadefanganheyaneweiqierudianqurencuozhicuogaicuo，tacaihuixiang“tahenaiwo，kenweiwobianhao”。

wanhuiqiannanyoubixuyaozunxunyishang3geqiantitiaojian，zuohaoyishangzheixieshiqing，nicainengchenggongdiwanhuinanyoudexin。