如何判断他是不是渣男？渣男的5大特质

　　dangshenghuodefanzaheyalilingrenshenxinpibeishi，youshihouwomenyehuixianruyizhongfanzadexintaijiongjing——"haoxiangchuguiyiciyoupalaogongzhidao"。zheiduanhuazhenhanleneixindekunhuoheyuwangdezhengzha。henduorendouhuicaiyizijiderenxing，danyoudanxinpanbiandekuchubuliangyingxiang。zheizhongxintaidanxinbujinshiduijiatingyalidejiaolv，yeshiduineixinyuwangdexiangwang。zaizheiyangyigeshunxiwanbiandeshehuishang，womenyinggaishenzhongkaolv，xunzhaojunheng，zhongguiyuneixindeshijiyuzhencheng。

　　zheishiyigeneixinzhengzhagushi。

　　茫然和思考

　　dangshenghuoyalizhubujidian，danggongzuoyujiatingdemangliulingrenchuanbuguoqishi，tajiukaishijuedeyizhongwuyiyanbiaodemangran。neiyigechoumeibuzhandexiangfazhujianzaitanaohaili，yizhongfanpandeyuwangyingxiangzhetaneixin。

　　引诱与忧虑

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　　责任与拘束

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　　挣扎与管理决策

　　tajiukaishikaizhanneixindezhengzha，zuopangguanzheziyideyuwangyulixingdekangzheng。tayishidaole，zheiyangdexiangfabingfeilaiyuanyuaidehuangmiu，fanershilaiyuanyutaqipan，duishenghuodejiqingheziworenkedezhonggou。takaishikaolv，zenmenenggoujunhengxianshiyuneixindexuqiu。

　　改变自我的探索

　　yushijuedingfangmanjiaobu，chenjingxialai。tajianjiandongde，taxuyaozhaodaozijidefangwei，zhongxinsikaotaneixinyaoqiu，bingjijixunzhaojiejuefangan，hezhangfuzhenxinchengyigoutongjiaoliu，gongtongfendouweihunyinshenghuozhuruxinxianhuomiao。tagaoqingchuwaiyubingfeijiejuewentiweiyitujing，ershiyongtansuozishenneixinyinmideqipan，yuairenchuangjiangengqiangdexinrenhegongmingdian。

　　真诚和成长

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　　走出迷茫故事

　　zheishiyigeneixinzhengzhagushi，yigecongyuwangdaochengzhangdejingli。tahaoxiangchuguiyiciyoupalaogongzhidao，danshizuizhongtaxuanzeleyonggandequmianduiziyideneixin，zaizhenxinshiyihegoutongzhongwanchenglezishenyuhunyindefazhan。zheiyigushiyouguanxianshiyulixiangpingheng，guanyuzerenyusuixinsuoyudetansuo。dajiameigerendouzaoyumangranyuzhengzha，danshizhiyougenjujijizhudongdesikaoyuxingdong，caikeyizhaodaoshuyuzijidefazhanfangxiang。