过来人给女人婚姻的4个忠告

 hunyinmeiyoucaipai，cuolejiuwufahuitoule。suoyigangburuhunyindiantangdewomen，youbiyaokankanguolairenshizenme jingyinghunyin 。xiamianshiyiweiyihunnvrengenjuzijideshenghuojingyanzongjiede4gehunyinzhonggao，dajiabufangcankaoyixia。

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1、婚姻中的女人不要轻易试探男人的真心

 nvrenzaihunyinzhong，buyaoqingyishitannanrendezhenxin。ruguonizongshishitanyigenanrendezhenxin，neimehuizaochenglianggebuhaodejieguo，yishinizijibuhaoshou，ershinanrenyehuijuedebushufu，tahuijuedenibuxinrenta。

 dangnixiangyaoshitanyigenanrendeshihou，shuomingnibenshenyijingbugouxinrenta。jirannibuxinrenta，neimejiusuantabingmeiyouzuorenheduibuqinideshiqing，niyezongshinengcongtashenshangzhaochugezhonggeyangdemaobing。

 dangniquefaduiganqingdexinren，zheiduanganqingjiuhuibeidaoerchi，nanrenyehuiyinciliniyuelaiyueyuan。benlaihaoduanduandehunyin，yehuibeiniqinshouchaisan。

2、女人不要把所有精力都放在婚姻上

 nvrenyaojizhu，hunhounibuyaobasuoyoujingliheshijiandoufangzaihunyinshang。nibuyaobamuguangzhisuodingzainanrenshenshang。nibufangjiangshijianhejingligengduodifangzaizijishenshang。

 nikeyichoukongjizijibaoyigexingqubanhuojinengtishengban，duopeiyangyixiexingquaihao，huoshixuexiyimenjineng，rangzijibiandeyuelaiyueyouxiu，yuelaiyuechuse。

 niruguozaihunhouzhizhidaoguanxinnanren，congbuguanxinziji，neimenanrenyebuhuizhenzhengguanxinhezunzhongni。nanrenhuijuedeniduitadeaishiyizhongjudadeyalihefudan，nideaiduitaeryantaiguochenzhongheyayi，tahuiyincixiangyaotaolizheiduanhunyin。

 dangnibashijianhejingligengduodifangdaozijishenshang，nihuifaxianyigebuyiyangdeshijie，nijiangbuzaihuandehuanshi，nideshenghuohuibiandegengjiachongshi。nanrenyeyincidedaolejietuo，tahuijuedehenixiangchubulei。erqie，nidejinbuyuchengzhang，huirangnanrenduiniguamuxiangkan，tayehuiyuelaiyuezhongshini，yuelaiyuezhenxini。

3、女人婚后要保持经济独立

 wulunheshihedi，nvrendouyaobaochijingjiduli。nvrennapajiehunle，yebuyaoqingyicidiaogongzuo。niyaoyouzijidulidegongzuohuoshiye，niyaoquebaozijiyongyouwendingdejingjishouruhelaiyuan。

 nidangrankeyihuananrendeqian，danqiantishinizijiyeyaonengzhuanqian。zheiyangyilai，jiusuanmoutiannanrenshiyele，huoshitabuyuanyizaijiniqianhuale，niyekeyikaozijidebenshichifanhuoyanghuoziji。

 nixihuanshenmeyangdeyifu，nikeyizijihuaqianmai，bubikannanrendelianse。nixiangyaoqunalilvxing，nisuishikeyihuazijideqiandingjipiao，nibubikaonanrendeshishe。suoyi，nvrenjiehunhougengyaobaochijingjiduli。nibuyaozaiwuzhifangmianguoduodiyilainanren。

 zhiyoudangnibaochijingjiduli，nizaihunyinzhongcaihuigengyoudiqi。jishimoutianlihunle，niyebupa。yinweiniwanquankeyizijiyanghuoziji，bubidanxinyinweilihunerliuluojietou。

4、婚姻中有任何不满都要及时和男人沟通

 nvrenzaihunhou，yourenhebumandouyaojishihenanrengoutongyujiaoliu。nibuyaozaihunyinzhongweiquqiuquan。youdenvrenweilehaizi，weilelianmian，jishizaoshoulezaiduodeweiqu，tayebuhuiqingyibiaodachulai，ershixuanzemomodiyinren。

 youjuhuashuodehao，huikudehaiziyounaihe。nvrenyaojizhuyidian，dangnizaihunyinzhongyudaokunnanhuowenti，niduizheiduanhunyinyourenhebuman，nidouyaodiyishijianzhaonanrengoutongqingchu。niderangtazhidaonizhenshideganshouhexiangfa。niyaorangtamingbai，nibingbushitaqingdebaomu，tabunengwushinidecunzai。

 ruguonizaihunyinzhongtaiguoruanruo，rentaqifu，neimenikenenghuizaizheiduanhunyinzhonghuodetebiejiannanhexinku。nihuiyincichedishiquziwo。

 zongzhi，nvrenzaihunhou，jiyaotiliangnanrendenanchu，yeyaoxuehuihaohaoaiziji。nijibukeyitaizuo，yebunengwanquanmeiyoupiqihegexing。niyaoxuehuihenanrenbaochilianghaodegoutonghehudong。niderangtazhidao，nishiyinweiaita，suoyicaiyuanyimomodiweitafuchuyiqie。danshi，zheibingbuyiweizhetajiukeyisiwujidandishanghaini。

 yishangshiyiweiyihunnvrenzongjiede4gehunyinzhonggao，xiwangduigangburuhunyindefuqiyousuobangzhu，yexiwangdajianenggoujianshouhunyindeshiyan，haohaodijingyinghunyin，yizhixingfuxiaqu。