fuqitongzhuzaiyiqikendingmianbulexiaochaoxiaonao,danshicongmingdenvrendongderuhezaichaojiadangzhongdapojiangju,rangfuqiganqingbiandegenghao。xiamianyiqilaikankan fuqichaojia deshihou,congmingdenvrendoushizenyangquzuode。
fuqichaojiacongmingnvrendezuofa
1、吵架的时候不要互相揭旧伤疤或翻旧账
fuqizhijianchaojiadeshihou,buyaozongshihuxiangjiejiushangbahuofanjiuzhang。youxiechennianjiushi,gaiguoqudejiurangtahaohaoguoqu,buyaojiushizhongti,pianlichaojiadezhuti。chaojiadeshihou,yaojiushilunshi。nimenbuyaochaozhechaozhejiubaguoqudeyixieshiqingfanchulaizaichaoyibian。
youdenvrenzaihenanrenfashengzhengchaodeshihou,zongshirenbuzhubahaojinianqiannanrenbuxiaoxinzuocuodemoujianshiqingzhongxinfanchulai,jiangnanrenshuluoyibian。zheiyangchaojiazhendemeiyoushenmeyisi。niruguolaoshifanjiuzhang,huoshijiekaiduifangdeshangba,zhihuirangduifangjuedenibukeliyu。
2、吵架的时候要注意分寸要适可而止
chaojiadeshihou,yaozhuyifencun,deraorenchuqieraoren,yaoshikeerzhi。ruguonihebanlvchaojiadeshihou,bufenchanghe,yebufenshijianhedidian,xiangchaojiuchao,neimebanlvhuiyinciduinichongmanleqiangliedefangan。
fuqizhijianchaojiadeshihou,yeyaozhuyichangheheshiji。zairenduodechanghe,niyaoxuehuishidangkezhizijideqingxu,buyaozaidatingguangzhongzhixiarangbanlvnankan。zhiyoudangnixuehuijibanlvliuzumianzi,banlvcaihuizhenxindaini。
ruguonihebanlvchaojiadeshihou,chaodetianfandifu,congbaitianchaodaoheiye,wuxiuwuzhi,neimezheiyangdechaojiahuibahunyinzhijiechaosan。
3、吵架之后不要持续冷战
fuqichaojiazhihou,buyaochixulengzhan,yaoxuehuixianghujiduifangtaijiexia。yejiushishuo,dangnimenfashengzhengchaozhihou,yaoshidangjieshuzheichangzhengchao,buyaoyigerenshengmenqi。
youdenvrenhenanrenchaowanjiazhihou,chichibukenfangxia,yiranduichaojiazheijianshiqinggenggengyuhuai,menmenbule,zheiduizijideshenxinjiankangbuli,tongshiyehuirangnanrenjuedenixinyantaixiao。chaojiayidanjieshu,nijiuyaoxuehuishidangfangxiahegeshe。buyaorangzhiqiandechaojiayingxiangdaonimenzhengchangdehunyinshenghuo。
4、要通过吵架解决问题和促进感情
fuqichaojiadeshihou,buyaobeilichaojiadechuzhong。chaojiadeshihou,nimenyaolaojiyidian,chaojiabushiweilejiangmaodunjinyibujihuahuoehua,ershijiangsuoyouwentifftdoutandaotaimianshangjieshiqingchu。jishichaojia,yeyaochaodemingmingbaibai,qingqingchuchu。
chaojiashiweilegenghaodijiejuewenti,erbushizengtianfannaohemaodun,gengbushijiangfuqizhijiandeliehenyuechaoyueda。chaojiashiweilegenghaodicujinfuqiganqing,erbushijiangfuqiganqingchaodexiangyipansanshayiyang。
youdefuqisuiranyehuiyouzhengchao,danshitamenchaojiadeshihou,huijinmiweiraozhongxinwentilaizhankaizhengchao,congbuhuipianlizhongxinsixiang。yidansuoyouwentidoutongguochaojiadeyijiejue,tamenbianhuiyanqixigu,buhuichaogemeiwanmeile。
5、吵架要保持必要的理智和清醒
chaojiadeshihou,yaobaochibiyaodelizhiheqingxing,youqibuyaojinxingrenshengongji。fuqichaojiazuijihuidejiushijiangyuanbenzhimasuanpidexiaoshi,yuenaoyueda。fuqizhijianyaoxuehuibaochibiyaodeqingxing。dangnijuedinghebanlvchaojiazhiqian,nixuyaorangzijixianbaochilengjing。
ruguoniyinweibanlvdemouxiexingweihuoyantangandaoshengqihuofennu,nixianghebanlvchaojia,cishi,nibufangxianzhaogedifangduchu,rangzijishenhuxi,huifuneixindepingjing。
dangnimanmanlengjingxialaizhihou,nihuifaxianzhiqianshengqihuofennudeqingxuzaojiuyanxiaoyunsan。nihebanlvchaojiazhiqian,bufangduozhongwenbanlvcengjingjiyunideneixieaiyuwennuan。dangnizhongwenbanlvzhiqianjiyunidewuweibuzhideguanai,yexu,nihuiyinciyuanliangbanlv,buhuixiangyaojixuhebanlvchaoxiaqule。
zongzhi,fuqichaojiayeshiyimenxuewen。zhengchaodeshihou,yaoxuehuibaochibiyaodeqingxinghelizhi,buyaorangchaojiaguoye。nimenyaotongguochaojiacujinganqingdeshengwen,erbushijiangyuanbenmeihaoxingfudeganqingchaodesifenwulie。
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