分手挽回心态学：男生被挽回时心里都在想什么？

 fenshouwanhui shiyichangxintaizhan，zaiwanhuinanyouzhiqianyoubiyaolejieyixiananshengdexintai。xiamiancongfenshouwanhuixintaixuedejiaoduweidajiafenxiyixia，nanshengbeiwanhuideshihou，tamenxinlimiandaodizaixiangshenme？

fenshouwanhuixintaixue：nanshengbeiwanhuishixinlidouzaixiangshenme？

一、刚分手时男生的心态活动

 daduoshunvxingfenshouhoudouxiwangnengbeiwanhui，jiuhaoxiangdajiadouhuixiwangzijibeiyixingzhuiqiuyiyang，shilingyizhongduizishenmeilidekending，zheiyangdexintaifangzainanshengshenshangyiyangshiyong。

tamenhuijuedezijibeiwanhui，neibiaomingzijishiyoumeilide，erzaibeiwanhuideguochengzhongtamengengduodeshixiangshoubeiwanhuideganjue。

 zheiyeshinanshengyoulenvyouzhihouhaihuidaliqiannvyoudeyuanyin，bingbushitaduiqiannvyouhaiyouduoshaoganjue，ershineizhongbeirenjizhubeirenxuyaodeganjuenengrangtaneixinduizijigengyouzixin。

suoyiwomenzaiwanhuiqiannanyoudeshihou，yaozhuazhutaxinlidetongdianhexuqiudian，buranzhihuinongqiaochengzhuo。

二、被挽回初期男生的心态活动

 gangkaishibeiwanhuishi，“aojiao”shinanxingxintaizuizhibaidedaiyanci。fenshouhounanshengbingbuxiangnvshengneiyangririyileiximian，tamenbinvshenggengshanyuzhuanyizhuyili。fenshouhoudenanrenneixinchongmanledui“ziyou”dexiangwang，turanyinglaidanshenshenghuo，tamendeneixinjiuxiangxiaohaizidedaolexinyiyijiudewanju，qiannvyoujiushizuaitadedaowanjuderen。

 ruguonizheigeshihouquwanhuiqiannanyoujiuhuibeitakanzuoshiyizhongdarao，tongshiqianqijianlidehaoyinxiangyehuibeidapo，rangtajianliqixintaifangxian。suoyiwulunnimendelianqingchuyunazhongqingkuangpolie，fenshouhoujiulimawanhuidoushibumingzhidejudong。

 dewanhuiqishizaifenshou5~7tianzhihou，taduidanshenshenghuodereqingyijingyousuoxiajiangbingqiequxunzhaoqitayixinglaicijineixinduiqinggandeqipanshi，zheishiniyilingyizhongzitaichuxianzaitadeshenghuoli，tayebuhuiyoutaiduodepaichi，gengduodeshiyizhongkeyoukewudeganjue。

三、被挽回中期男生的心态活动

 henduonvshengbudong，weishenmefalezheimeduoxiaoxijiqiannanyou，tahaishibuliwoni？qishizheizhongqingkuangyezhengchang，yinwei“lengmo”shinanshengyingduiqiannvyouwanhuidechangtai，tamen“aojiao”guohousuiranbufangannidexiaoxi，danyebingbuxiangdalini。

 suoyizhengshiwanhuidedakaifangshihenzhongyao，shinizhudonglianxitahaishitongguoyixiefangshirangtazhudonglailianxini？ruguoshiniyaozhudonglianxita，yougaifashenmexiaoxini？yibanzaiwanhuizhiqian，yejiushifenshouzhihoudeneiduanshijian，jiuyaoweixianzaizheiyibudewanhuizuozhunbeile。biruxintaijianshe，pengyouquantishengdeng。

 dangranzainizhengshijinruwanhuishi，ruguoniqianrenyouleqitamubiaoduixiang，tazheishihoudexintainiyeshiyaobawozhude。zheishidewanhuijiushiganrao，tigongduibirangtachanshengxintailuocha。

很多女生在恋爱时，总是用尽自己的全部力量去爱一个人。所以，挽回对方时也总是会做出各种失格的举动，比如 跪舔 。danzaineizhiqian，niyidingyaolejienanrendexintairuodian：luochagan。

 bushisuoyoudefuchu，douhuipingkongxiaoshide。zheishijiehuibuhuiyoulingwaiyigenvhai，nenggouxiangnizheiyangwuweibuzhidiquzhenxindaita。yexuhui，danshijilvhenxiao。yinwei，yueshichengshudenianji，duiyuganqingjiuyueyilibilaihengliang。

 suoyizaiganshoudaobutongdedaiyuzhihou，tadexinliyidinghuichanshenghenqiangdeluochagan。zheijiushinijiexialaiwanhuideguanjianle，liyongtaxinzhongdeluochagan，bingqiefangdazheizhongganshou。daozuihou，takenenghuizhudonglaiwanhuini。

四、被挽回撤离后的心态活动

 fenshouhounanrenhenvrendouyouyigegongtongdian，jiushibuxiwangqianrenzaiduanshijianneiyouxindemubiaoduixiang。duitamenlaishuo，ruguoduanqineinijiuyouleqitaaimeideyixingtamenhuigandaotongku，shenzhijuedezheishiyizhongduitadefouding。

 suoyidewanhuijiushisongjinjiehe，jinanrenpaochuyigexiangfahezhuangtaizhihoujiukeyizanshichelile。yinweizheigeshihoudeturanchelishinvshengguanxibianjiedesuzao。nanshenghuijuedenituranchelile“wanhui”dezhuangtai，shizenmele？youxindeduixiangle？haishiwoyijingxiyinbulenile？

zheihuichengweitadexinjiebingqiezhaojihuixiangniqiuzheng，zheishinvshengkeyixuanzemolengliangkedehuida，shengxiadejiujiaojishijianle。

 wanhuiaiqingqishishiyichangxintaideboyi，lejienanshengbeiwanhuishidexintai，genjunanxingxintaidetedianshishiwanhuicelve，jiunengqingqingsongsongwanhuinanyoudexin。