夫妻经常吵架，有必要继续下去吗？

 liangfuqijingchangchaojiazenmebanni？suiranfuqichaojiashichangyoudeshi，danshijingchangchaodehuajiurongyishanghaiganqing。jingchangchaojiadefuqiyoubiyaojixuxiaquma？zenmezuocainengxiufu fuqiguanxi ni？

fuqijingchangchaojia，youbiyaojixuxiaquma？

1.对方说狠话时不要当真

 chaojiadeshihouduifangshuolehenhuaqianwanbuyaodangzhen，xintaizhuanjiashuoguorenshengqideshihoushuochulaidehuadoushibukexinde，neishiqizaitoushangshuochudehuaerbushitadexinlihua。

 fuqikeyixianlengjingxialairenzhenditingduifangbahuashuowan，wuluntashifouyuanni，zheishiniyeyaochengrentashuodeshiduide，xianrentongtayibufenbiaoshiduitadezunzhong，cainengrangtayetongyangzunzhongni，jingxiaxinlaitingtingnidexiangfa。

2.无论吵得多凶都不要提离婚

wulunfuqichaojiachaodeduomexiong，yidingyaoshishikekejizhe：duifangshizijizuiaideren，qianwanbunengshuochu“lilihun”erzi。

 ruguoshuochulelihunzheilianggezi，neijiushizaizhemoduifang，yeshizaigenzijiguobuqu。yinweiyouhenduofuqiyinweiqibuguocaitichuyaolihunde，danshilengjingxialaiyihouniyidinghuihouhuide。

3.心情不好也要对爱人微笑

 xinqingbuguanyouduomebuhao，jiandaozijideairenshiyidingyaomiandaiweixiao。burantaganjuedaonixinqingbuhaoshi，yidinghuihuaiyishibushitanadianzuocuole，ranhoutadehaoxinqingyehuichaxialai。

lianggexinqingbuhaoderendaizaiyiqihuihenrongyifashengyixiexiaomaodun，yushilianggerenyoukaishichaojiale。

4.吵架后要向对方好好道歉

 heduifangchaojiahou，wulunzijigangcaiyouduomexiongyeyaohaohaoxiangduifangdaoqian。ruguoduifangbudayingjiuyizhidaoqiandaoduifangyuanliangniweizhi。

 youxiefuqichaowanjiahou，weilezijideyidianmianziyizhibukendaliduifang，ranhouzijinanshourangduifangyenanshouzhe。qishihenduofuqichaowanjiahou，douhuijiaojibuandidengduifanglaigenzijidaoqian。jiranzheiyang，hebufangxiarenxingdejiazizhudonghehaoni？

5.对方气走了要谅解

 fuqichaojiadeshihou，qizhongyifangqizoushichangyoudeshiqing。danshihenduoshihouhuiyiweiduifangzoukaishibuliziji，qishizheigexiangfashibuduide。zoudeyifangkenengshichuyuqifen，yeyoudeshizanshihuibiburangduifangshengqi。dangshijieshishenmedoumeiyouyong，yifanghuibiyeshihuanjiemaodundehenhaodefangfa。

 shijizouchuqudeyifanglengjinghouhuifansihedanxin、dianjiduifangde。ruguozoudeneifanghuilaigennishuohaohuale，nihaishiqixiongxiongde，neikejiushinidebuduile。yinweiduifangbushengqishibuhuizoukaide。

 fuqijingchangchaojiahuibayuanyinguijieweixinggebuhe，qishimeiyouxinggehebuhedelianggeren，zhishinimenbudongdejingyinghunyineryi。lianggerenchaojialedouyouzeren，buyaomaiyuanrenheren，zhiyaonizuochurangbuhaohaodiheduifangxiangchu，duifangyehuiliangjienidefuchu。