怀疑老公出轨不要慌张，先做好这5件事！

 dangnvrenhuaiyi laogongchugui deshihouhuihenhuangzhang，husiluanxiangyidaduihaipazaoyulaogongbeipanhepaoqi。ruguozhijiezhiwenlaogongdehuayoupaduifangshuobuxinren，kuangqiehaiyoumeiyoushizhixingdechuguizhengjuni！dangnvrenhuaiyilaogongchuguideshihou，yaolengjingbuyaohuangzhang，zuohaoxiamianzhei5jianshizaiquchulilaogongchuguidewenti。

huaiyilaogongchuguibuyaohuangzhang，xianzuohaozhei5jianshi！

一、告诉自己这只是怀疑不是事实

 zaihaimeiyouzhaodaolaogongchuguidezhengjuzhiqian，shouxianyaogaosuzijizheizhishihuaiyieryi，bingbushichuguideshishi。fuqizhijianyaozuodaohuxiangxinren，cainenghaohaodishenghuoxiaqu。ruguozongshihuaiyilaogongdongbudongjiuzhiwenduifang，neimenimendehunyinshiwufaweichixiaqude。

suoyinishouxianyaobaizhengzijidexintai，buyaobashiqingdemaodundiankuoda。bieyinweizheixiehaimeigouchengshishideshiqingyingxiangxinqing。

二、不要过度质疑老公出轨

 nvrenyudaowentixihuanzuanniujiaojian，faxianyixiewentijiuhuixianghenduo。jiusuanzaihuaiyiduifangchugui，niyebuyaojiangzheizhongqingxubiaoxiandetaimingxian，buyaoguodudangmianzhiyitadexingwei。

 sheidoubuxihuanzhengtianbeizijidebanlvshuotaruheruhebeipanta，tebieshiaimianzidenanren。ruguotazhendechuguile，tiantianbeinizhiwenyehuiyaneni。ruguotameiyouchuguijiugengjiabuyaozhiyita。

 ruguonizhendehenxiangzhidaozhenxiang，niyinggaiqiaowushengxidichazheng。yangjiusuantazhendeyiqingerbai，yebuzhiyupohuainimenfuqizhijiandexinrengan。

三、没有找到出轨证据之前不要对别人说这件事

youxienvrenyidanhuaiyilaogongchuguijiuhuigenzijidepengyouhuozhejiarenqingsu，shenzhihuiqingqiubierenbangmangdiaochalaogong。

 zheiyangchuliwentishixiangdangbumingzhide，zanqiebushuotachuguishibushizhende，jishishizhende，nanrendechuguixingweibeishenbiandeqinpenghaoyoudouzhidaole，tazuihouhuinaoxiuchengnugancuihenilihunsuanle。

四、转移注意力让自己忙碌起来

 bagengduoxinsifangzaigongzuohuoxingqushangrangzijimangliuqilai，zhuanyizhuyilitigaozixin，bierangzijizhengtianhusiluanxiang。wanyitazhendegaolehunwaiqing，rangzijiyouxinxinyunenglimianduiweilaideshenghuo。

五、委婉沟通试探他的反应

 keyidadacabianqiujietifahui，birukandianshizhenghaokandaonanrenchuguideyimu，keyiweiwandiwenwentahuibuhuibeipannimendeganqinghehunyin，tongshiyebiaodazijiduihunyinchuguidekanfa，rangtashikeerzhi，jishizhisun，jinzaohuiguijiating