21个分手理由教你看穿男人，其实你不用挽回他！

 henduonvshengbiaoshifenshouhoukuku wanhuinanyou ，weishenmeyueshifuchutayueyaoyuanlini？qishishiyinweinibulejienanrenyebuzhidaonanrentichufenshoudeyuanyinshishenme，suoyicaihuiwanhuishibaide。xiamianzhei21geliyoukankannanrenfenshouyuanyinshishenme，lejiezheixiezhihouyexugenbenjiubuyongwanhuita。

21gefenshouliyoujiaonikanchuannanren，qishinibuyongwanhuita！

1.“我们不合适还是分手吧！”

 yinweibuheshierfenshoudehua，niyidingyaotingtingtadeliyou，shinalibushihe？ruguoshihenxiadeliyou，biaoshineibingbushizhenzhengdeliyou，erzhenzhengdeliyouyoukenenghuishanghaini（birunizhangdechouyouqiongyouzuodeng），huozhehuirangtachengweihuairen（birutabianxinle），erzheiliangzhonghouguotadoubuxiangmiandui，suoyizheizhongnanrenzhendebuyongwanhui。

2.“对不起，我变心了爱上别的女人了。”

 ruguotahentanranchengrentabianxinle，suirankeedanshitiaohanzi。suirandangxiahennanguodanshizizunbuyunxuzijijixuquwanhuiyigebuaizijideren，suoyifenshoushizuikuaidejiejuefangfa。yigebuainiderenwulunnizenmejiuchantahaishibuhuiainide，yexuxinhuanyebushinidezhenai，youyexushiguoxinhuanzhihoufaxianzuihouaiderenshizijini！

3.“我爱你的是真的，但是我不确定自己最后会和你结婚。”

 ruguotazhendechengshigaosuni，taduinideaishizhende，danshitahaixuyaoqujiaowangkankanqitaduixiang。neimenigengshiyaofangshourangtaqushigetongkuai，dangranniyebieshadezaineibiankushou，niyeyaozhongxinchufaquxunzhaozijidezhenai。

4.“你会找到一个更好的人的。”

 youxienvrenjuedefenshouhouzhiyaohuodebiqianrenhao，tajiuhuihouhuijiuhuihuitouzhaoziji。jianlizaifenshouhoutameiyouxunsulingjiexinhuan，erqiexinhuanzuodebinigenghao，rangtawanquanxiangbudaoniyourenheqiangxiangnengyaguoxinhuan。ruguotadeyixingyuanzhendehenhao，jishiwanhuizheigenanrenle，nihaishiguodehendayalihenmeiyouanquangan，bushima？

5.“因为你不够好，所有我想分手。”

 ruguonanrenyinibugouhaozhileideliyouyaogennifenshou，erqietashizhenxinzheimerenwei，neimenikeyitishengziji，danbuyaoshiweilewanhuitaershiyaoyangmeituqirangtazhidaoniyekeyihenyouxiu。zhiyouzhenzhengrangzijibiandeyouxiubiandeqiangda，nicaiyongyougengdadexuanzequan。

6.“我跟你只是玩玩的，我们分手吧！”

 ruguotashigeyitiandaowanhuannvyou，nilejiuhuitifenshoudewanjia，neijiuyaoganxietameiyoulangfeinigengduoshijiana！huizuozheizhongshiderentongchanggexingyebijiaoyouzhi，yexutaguogesanwunianhuikaiqiao，danshitaxianzaijiushihaimeikaiqiaoa！nimeibiyaoweilezheizhongnanrenlangfeizijideqingchu，yemeibiyaoxiaohaozijiquwanhuita。

7.男友动不动就提分手

 ruguotashiqingxuqifubudingxinqingbushuangjiuaitifenshoudehua，jiugengjiabuyongwanhuile。zheigenanrenqingxukongzhinenglidiluo，erqiemeishijiuaishuaiguo，zhendeshigentazaiyiqiduoyimiaodouxianduo。genzheizhongnanrenxiangchujiushibixubuduananfutadeqingxu、buduanziwogaijin、buduanchengrenzijizuocuo，jiulenihuiyuelaiyuebuaiziji。zheizhongnanrenyaofenshoudehuajiurangtazouba。

8.“我对你没感觉了，我们分手吧！”

 nanrenzaiganjueshangshibinvrenchengshihenduo，meiganjuezhendemianqiangbulaide。dangranganqingzheizhongshiqingshihuiyoubianhuade，birunibianmeiletadeganjuejiuhuihuilai，youshihounijiaolexinnanyoutadeganjueyehuihuilai，huozhegentazhibuguojinianmeijian，tajuedenibuyiyangle，ganjueyehuihuilai……danzheixieqingxingdouzaiyutameiganjuedeshihounidelikai！huanxingnanrendeganjuebixuyaorangtaermuyixinerbushijiuchanwanhuita。

9.“我现在没办法承诺你什么，但是我也不想分手。”

 ruguotabunengjinichengnuoyoubuyuanyifangnizou，haihuibafenshouxuanzequandiuhuijinvfang，ziyiweitiliangdeshuo：“yaoshinijuedebuxiangjiandaowo，woyehuizunzhongnidejueding。”henduoshihounvshengbushixiangfenshouzhiyaoyigeshenfeneryi。zheishihoubijiaohaodechulifangshishizainizhongyurenshoubuleaimeishitanpai，jitayiduanshijiansikaoqingchu。suoyiduifangtifenshoubuyaoquwanhui，bajuedingquanpaohuijiduifang。

10.不能确定关系的恋人

 ruguonijitayiduanshijiansikaoliangrendaodisuanbusuannannvpengyou？tayechengnuohuihaohaoxiangxiang，jideyaoxiandingyigeshijian。ranhouzaiyuehaodeshijianqianjinkenengxiaoshizaitadeshengmingzhong，zhihoushijiandaolenikeyizhudongxunwentadeyixiang。neiwulunchengbainidougaixinshangtadeyoudandang，zhishaotayuanyichulaigennishuoqingchujiangmingbai，ruguonishouweishoudepiaoliang，yihouyaojieqilaiyebijiaorongyi！

11.“不想耽误你的青春”

 ruguotatifenshoudeliyoushibuxiangdanwunideqingchun，ernidequebuxiangzaibeidanwudehua，jieshoutadehaoyiba！yaoshizheinanrengongzuoyouyidameiyida，xianxiansansanhunchidengsiqueganjiehundehua，qishitabijiaohuipianxiangkaonvren，huoshijuedejiehunbuheshidabulelihuna！zheizhongrenniganjiawohaizhenpeifu！

12.“我想去出国留学不想耽误你的青春”

 ruguoyinweitayaodangbinghuozhechuguoliuxuedengzhongdashijiantifenshoudehua，tahaisuanyouliangxindenanren，shihuizaizijizaodaogudishifangnvrenzou，yinweitayilaibuxiangrangxinaidenvrenkandaotaluopoliaodao，erlaibuxiwangnvrenpeizhetachiku。suoyizhendeainiyouliangxindenanren，fanershihuizaitazuizaodeshihougannizou！yaoshinimeixinxingentazouxiaqudehua，neiyemeibiyaowanhuile。

13.“分手是被你逼的！”

 zaitajiaotoulaneshibipota，huirangnanrenbudebutifenshou。qishihenbuxinshangnvrenzheimebushidati。ruguonanrenbeinizuodeshihuale，xiangwanhuiyehennanle。

14.“对不起你不是少女，所以还是分手吧。”

 tayinifeishaonv、huoshijiaoguotaiduonanyoudeliyoutifenshou。suoweichubushaonv，huizaiyiderenjiushihuizaiyi。yaoshiniyudaoyigenansheng，tashuotafeishaonvbuyao，neinimomozoukai，yinweifeishaonvbuyaozaixintaiyinsushanghaibaokuotaduizijimeizixinpabeibijiao，huoshitayoujiepi，eryouzheixiegexingdenanrenwodoujuedexiangchushangchizaochuwenti，hebizhaozijimafanni？

15.“我父母反对我们在一起。”

 fumufanduifenshouqinglvhenduo，ruguozhendewufagaibiandehuachizaoyaofenshou。henduoshihouzheizhongtifenshouzhishijiekoubale，tabamabuxihuanniyoukenengzhenxiangshi「tameiyouneimexihuanni」，yinweizhenzhengdeyuanyinbushitabama，shitameiyouhanweiganqingdeyongqi，huoshi----taqishimeiyouneimeaini。

16.“你不顾及我的感受，分手吧！”

 tashixiaokelian，juedeshounilengluoshijiuhuiyifenshoulaiqingganlesuo，tahuirenweiyidanwomengentazaiyiqi，yinggaifangxiasuoyoudeshiqingquguanzhutadeqingxutadefanying，zheizhongnanrenxuyaohenduodeanquangan、zhaogu、guanxin，erqietamentongchanghenlinyufuchu，jiuxianggeheidongbuduanboduozhewomendejingliyunengliang。

17.你们分隔两地，他觉得太寂寞了提出分手。

 ruonanfangyiyuanjuliweiyou，bianxinhuotichufenshou，zheizhishiyigezhaoyin，quebushizhenxiang；jintiantahuiyinweinibuzaishenbianjiubianxin，yihouyehuiyougengduodeyuanyinbianxin。renshouyuanjulibushiyijuchengnuojiubaozhengbandedaodeshi，shuangfangdoubixuhenyouchengyi，gexingyouyaodouhendulicaixing。

18.“我有过一段失败的感情，所以不敢再恋爱了。”

 tayouguoshibaideganqingjingyan，juedemeiyouyongqiquairen，huoshiyitahuishanghainizhileideouxiangjuliyoutifenshou：qishizheigeliyoutingqilaizuixiangshijiekou，tongchanghuizheimeshuodenanren，bushishoushangtaishen，jiushiduizijiguodumeizixin，huoshixiangtaobizeren；erchuleshoushangtaishenqueshixuyaoshijianfuyuanwai，juedezijimeiyounengliairen、jinvrenxingfu，youkenengzhishixiangweizijidebushangjinzhaogetaijiexia，fanzhengtajiushibuxiangleijijingjishili、zhaogewendinggongzuo、huoshigaishanguguaipiqijiuduile，caihuiduinishuo：「wowufajinixingfu。」

19.“你很烦，分手吧！”

 tajuedenihaofan，guandongguanxi，taiguoyilaiertichufenshou，nvrenbeitifenshoushizhibajiudoushiyinweizheige。zheiyixiangzhuyaoshiruguonihenfanrenyouguandongguanxiguanhenkuan，taiguoyilaihaiqingxuhuameianquangan，neimeniyitianbugaixixing，tazongyouyitianbushishoubulenitifenshou，jiushihuibianxinhuolengdanbinizijilikai。

20.你本身出了严重问题，他不想面对而提出分手。

 meigerenjiazhiguanbuyiyang，ganqingzhongdeyuanzedixiandangranyebujinxiangtong，lianaishiqidailingyifangwanquanrentongzijidejiazhiguan，benshenjiushichixinwangxiang，duifangnengzunzhongbuqugaibiannijiubucuole，yaorentongshenzhijieshoutanherongyi？qingjizhu，yidinghuiyouneigenenggoujieshounidewentibaorongnidequexiandeduixiang，danniyaoshibuxianfangkaicuode，duidejiubuhuijinlai，yuqibaoyuanduifangweihejiushibunengmianduinidewenti，haiburutanranfangshouba。

21.分手连个理由都没有

 tajiuzheimerenjianzhengfashizongle，huoshiliangeliyoudoubuji：woxiangzheishihenduonvrenxinzhongdeyiwen，youbushiyanhanju，taqishishidelejuezhengburenxinshanghaiwomenerbugaoerbiela！

 youshihounanrenfenshoutichudeliyoudoushiyinweibuaihuozhebugouai，ruguoaidebugoujiandingganqingshihennanjixuxiaqude，suoyiyudaoyishangzhei21gefenshouliyoudenanren，yejiubuyongquwanhuile