花镇导师解读：姐弟恋婚姻如何长久？

 judiaochabaogaoxianxianshi， jiedilian zhandaolehunlianzongshude4cheng。huazhenqingganzixunshibiaoshisuiranrujinjiedilianhunyinbiliyijingtigaolebushao，danhaishiyouhenduojiedilianqinglvzoubudaohunyinneiyibu，neimejiedilianqinglvruhecainengzhangjiuni？jiedilianhunyinruhebaoxianni？

huazhendaoshijiedu：jiedilianhunyinruhezhangjiu？

首先，姐弟恋婚姻不要过于在意外界评价。

 huazhenqingganzixunshirenwei，dang“jiedilian”qinglvgongtongchuxianzaigongzhongmianqian，wangwangwairenduitamendediyipingjia，huishiguanyutamendewaibiaohebiaoxian，suoyijiedilianjiuchengweilezuiyishougongjidezuhe。

 jiediliankenenghuizaodaopangrendefeiyi，shenzhiyoukenengdebudaopengyouheqinrendelijieyuzhichi，danshijiranailejiuyidingyaobicitanchengyonggan，bietaizaiyipangrentoushenmeyanguang。

 aishishuangfangdeshiqing，wuxulihuidisanzhedeyanshen。ruguotaizaihuzheixiewaijiepingjia，shibihuijijiediliandailaigengduodexintaiyali，yidanzheixiexintaiyalijiyazaixinzhong，jiuhuiyanbianweijiedilianzhijianxiangchudemaodun，xueruoduilianqingdezixinxin。

其次，姐弟恋婚姻要保持良好的沟通与互动。

 huazhenqingganzixunshibiaoshi，yaoxiangweixiyiduanqinggan，ruguoshuangfangquefabicilianghaodegoutongyuhudong，wuyiyuziqumiewang。huanyanzhi，zhiyoulianaishuangfangdongdebiciqingsuyuqingting，zheiduanganqingcaiyoukenengchijiu。

 jiedilianyouqiyaozhuyizheiyidian。henduoshihou，jiejiekenenghushididideganshou，taiguoqiangshi，zheiyanghuiduididizaochengwuxingdexintaiyaliyufudan；tongyangde，didiyouxinshiyebuzhudongxiangjiejieqingsu，liangrenzhijiandejuliyeyinciyuelaiyueyuan。zhangciyiwang，jiediliandeqingganyehuiyuelaiyuedan，zhidaoxiaoshiyuwuxing。

最后，姐弟恋婚姻谈得来”比“长得美”更重要。

 huazhenqingganzixunshirenwei，zaijiedilianhunyinzhong，tandelai”bi“zhangdemei”gengzhongyao。henduojiedilianzhongdenvrenmeilenianqingdeyouzhi，nanrenyemeiyouleshourufenghoudeyoushi。zheishi，lianggerendexiangchufanergengjiachuncui，haiyuanweigoutongdexuyao，qinggandexuyao。

 neime，“tandelai”bidingshiliangrennengzoudaoyiqideshouyaotiaojian。wulunshi“jiejie”dexinzhiyouzhiyehao，“didi”xinggelaochengyehao，sixiangchuyutongyishuipingcaihaojiaoliu。