相亲总是失败的原因是什么

 xiangqinzongshishibaideyuanyinshishenme？xiangqindeshihoudouxiangjiduifangyigemeihaodediyiyinxiang，yifangmianyaozhidao xiangqindeshihouliaoshenmecaibuganga ，lingyifangmianyeyaobimianxiangqinzongshishibaideyuanyin，zheiyangdexiangqincaiyoukenengkaihuajieguo。

xiangqinzongshishibaideyuanyinshishenme

这三类人相亲总失败

1.自尊心非常强的人

 zizunxinyueqiangderen，qishijiuyuecuiruo。yueshiaimianzideren，jiuyuerongyishoudaji。yigerendezizunxinyueqiang，neimexiangqindeshihoujiuyuebunengchengshoushibai。zhiqianjiujiangguo，xiangqinshiyijianyanzhongcuoshangrenzixinxindeshiqing，jihumeiyoubiranchenggongyiciguodexiangqin。

 yejiushishuo，juedabufenrendouhuiyoushibaidexiangqinjingli。erjiuwomendetongjishujulaikan，pingjunmeigerenzhishaosancishibaicaikenengyouyicichenggongdelianai。erbijiaojipindegeliqishuliangjiumeishenmeshangxianle，jinianshangbaicixiangqinshibaidedoucengyouguo。

2.文艺情结严重的人

wenyinvqingnianhuozhewenyinanqingnianyebutaishihequxiangqin，chufeixiangqindeduixiangyetongyangshiwenyifengde。

 xiangqinshizhongliyiduibide，suoyizaixiangqinguochengli，yudaolingrenbukuaideshiqinggailvhengao。youxuduorenzaigangxiangqindeshihou，douhuiyudaoshanglaijiuwenxinshui，shanglaijiuwenshifouyoufangyouchede，lingrenfangan。

3.外表不佳且不愿意打理的人

 “waibiaobujia”zheisigezi，qishishidongtaide。jiandanlaishuo，ruguodajiadoushisuyandehua，nannannvnvzhizhongnengshuodeshangmeiyanjuesede，jibenshangdoujinleyulequan。erqitade，doushuyuputonghetinghaozhilei。zhenzhengshuochoude，qishiyebuduo。

yongwaibiaoxiyinrenbingbudiulian，ernvrenzijihaobuhaokanjuedingletadeshenmeishuizhun，yinweinvrenzijijiushizijidezuopin。

 ruguonizhendeduidabanzijimeixingqu，yebuxiangyiwaibiaoshiren，neiyemeibiyaoquxiangqin。jiurushangsuoshuo，xiangqinjiushiyigechuncuidewaimaoyouxi。

相亲技巧

1.相亲前的准备

不论是 相亲对象 shishousheijieshao，nizhishaoduiduifangyouzuiqimadelejie：shengao、nianling、jiating、hunyinjingli、gongzuo、zhuzhideng。

2.第一印象

 shoushi：bulunshifouxiangqin，douhenzhongyao，wuxuzhuishu。jianyizaixiangqinshinanfangtiqian10—15fenzhongdao，dianhaoyinliaochapin；nvfangtiqian3—5fenzhongdaozuiweiheshi。

zhezhuang：benzheniduiduifangdeshixianlejie，zaiyidingchengdushangchuanderangduifangxihuan。

3.谈话技巧

 zaixiangqinguochengzhong，90%yishangshinanfangzhanjuhuatizhudao，neimejianyinanfangshixianjingxinzhunbeijigeyoumoxiaohua，yongyidiaojieqifen。zaichujibijiaosimidehuatishi，yidingyaozhuyiyuqidehuanheheshikeerzhi。

4.开销问题

来说是男方支付更能显示绅士风度，也可以采用相亲AA制付费方式，这种方式多半发生在双方都拥有比较好的事业的基础上。这种方式，需要男女双方事先商量，不应该在相亲过程中来决定。如果没有事先商量，那么男孩子就打开你的钱包吧。