分手以后想复合怎么办？怎么挽回分手的恋人？

 henduoqinglvzaichaojiadeshihouyishichongdongtichufenshou，danshifenshouzhihouquehennanshouxiangheqianrenfuhe。neimefenshouzhihouzenmewanhuifenshoudelianrenni？xiamianjiaodajiajizhaoqiaomiaodi wanhuiaiqing 。

fenshouyihouxiangfuhezenmeban？zenmewanhuifenshoudelianren？

1.先考虑复合的几率

 ruguoshiyinweichongdongerfenshoudelianggeren，zhijianyemeiyoushenmeyanzhongdewenti，neimegongxini，ruguoduifangxianzaitiaojianyunxu，henrongyijiukeyifuhedee！

2.如果确实放不下他不妨主动挽回

 ruguoyijingquedingfangbuxiata，yuqidengtalaizhaoni，bufangfangxiashenduanzhudongchuji，guanbierenzenmekan，zhiyaozuozijixiangzuodeshi，buhouhuijiuxing。xuyaozhuyideshi，shangkouxuyaomanmanyuhe，guoyujizao，huishideqifan，yekenenghuidaozhizaicifenshou，laosibuxiangwanglai。suoyi，yidingyaomanmanlai，dengshuangfangdoulengjingxialaizaichuji。

3.找出分手的原因解决后再谈复合

 yinweifumufanduierfenshoudelianren，zhiyaonenggounulilongluoduifangfumudexin，xiaochuwujie，neimehenrongyijiunengzhongxinzoudaoyiqi。

 yinweiduifangchuguierfenshou，hequhecongjiuyaokanbeipituideyifangle。jiusuanfuhezhihou，kenengyexuyaoyiduanshijianliaoshang。shoushanghaideyifangxinlihuibiandeyichangcuiruo，chongmanhuaiyi。ruguodaizhezheifenbuanjixujiaowangdehua，yezhishishishuangfangtongku。ruguocongxinliwufayuanliangduifang，neihaishibuyaofuheweihao。

 ruguolianrenzhijianzhendeshiyinweihuanjingyinsupobudeyifenkai，neimexiangyaofuhe，xiaobianrenweizuizhuyaodejiushiyaoxiangbanfakefuhuanjingyinsu。biruyidilian，ruguobicizhendehaixiangai，renweihaiyouzaiyiqidebiyao，neimewanquankeyipaokaizheigechengshideyiqie，qutasuozaideneigechengshi。

4.主动联系前任

 ruguoqueshixiangfuhe，niyidingyaozhudongchuji，keyijiduifangfageduanxinhuoqugedianhua，danshiqianwanbieyishangqujiupaimapi，nizhixuyaozhaogeliyouyuetachulai，yongshangliangdeyuqi。zongzhigenjutadexinggejizhiyeyoushi，zhaodaorangtachulaideliyou。danzaizheiyibuqianwanbuyaogaoaimei，dangranyebiesibi。

 biaoxiandesuiyiyidian：jinliangzaiwufanhuozhexiawuchadeshihouyueta，buyaorangtajuedeniyoushenmebiedeqitu。xiangputongpengyouyiyangliaotianjiugoule。

5.找共同的朋友帮忙

 keyirangpengyouchumianyuetachulai，zaizhuangchuyifubuzhiqingdeyangzi。zheiqijian，yidingyaobushidizaitayanqianzhuan，jinkenengdixiyintazhuyi。shijidaole，jiuzhaogewurendedifanggentajiangqingchu。

6.提升自己

 zhidaofenshoudeyuanyinhou，yidingyaozhaozijidebuzu，zaixiangbanfatishengziji。zaiwanhuideguochengzhongyeyaobuduanqutishengzishendejiazhi，baokuoneizaijiazhi，fujiajiazhi，lianaijingyandengdeng。yaobazijibiandegengjiayouxiu，gengjiaxiyinren。