怀疑老公出轨怎么处理才是正确的？

 zuijinyouweinvxinglaifangzhexianghuazhenqinggandaoshiqingsuqingganwenti，tahuaiyi laogongchugui danshiyouchabuchuzhengju。kaimenjianshanwenlaogongyouxiandebuxinrentakuangqiehaimeizhengju，buwennixinliyoubiedehuang！xiangxinyouguoleisizaoyudepengyoudounenglijiezheiweilaifangzhedeganshou。dangnihuaiyilaogongchuguishibiezhejihuangxianzuohaozheijijianshi：

huaiyilaogongchuguizenmechulicaishizhengquede？

第一件：记住怀疑和猜忌解决不了问题

 zaihaimeiyouzhaodaozhengjudeshihoushouxianyaogaosuzijizheizhishizijidehuaiyieryi，huaiyihezhenxiangyexushiliangmashi。xianbaizhengzijidexintairizihaiyaoguo，bieyinweizheixiehaimeigouchengshishideshiqingyingxiangxinqing。

第二件：不要过度质疑他

 jiusuanzaihuaiyiyebuyaojiangzheizhongqingxubiaoxiandetaimingxianbuyaoguodudangmianzhiyitadexingwei，sheidoubuxihuanzhengtianbeizijidebanlvshuotaruheruhebeipanta。jiranneimexiangzhidaozhenxiangniyinggaizuodeshiqiaowushengxidichazheng，zheiyangjiusuantazhendeyiqingerbaiyebuzhiyupohuainimenfuqizhijiandexinrengan。

第三件：真相还没出来不要和别人讲

 youxiepengyouyidanfaxianlaogongnaxiefanchangdebiaoxiannaxieyisichuguideqingkuang，jiuzhaoguimipengyouqingsuzhaorenlianshoujianglaogongchageshuiluoshichu。bijinghaimeizhengjuzhenxianghaimeichulai，zheizhongshiqinghaishijinliangbuyaogenbierenjiang。

第四件：转移注意力让自己忙碌起来

 bagengduoxinsifangzaigongzuohuoxingqushangrangzijimangliuqilai，zhuanyizhuyi，tigaozixinbierangzijizhengtianhusiluanxiang。wanyitazhendegaolehunwaiqing，rangzijiyouxinxinyunenglimianduiweilaideshenghuo。

第五件：委婉沟通试探他的反应

 keyidadacabianqiujietifahui，birukandianshizhenghaokandaonanrenchuguideyimukeyiweiwandiwenwentahuibuhuibeipannimendeganqinghehunyin，tongshiyebiaodazijiduihunyinchuguidekanfa，rangtashikeerzhijishizhisunjinzaohuiguijiating。

第六件：与老公坦诚你内心的不安

 ruguonibubaneixindebuanheyihuoshuochulai，neimeshijianjiulezheizhongbuanganhuiyuelaiyueqianglie，zuihouhuitongguonidexingweibiaoxianchulai，fuqizhijianchanshengdemaodunyehuiyuelaiyueduo。yuqibuduandecaiyihaiburuzhijieledangdegaosuduifangnidedanxinhebuan。

 buguoyaozhuyideshi，genlaogongshuochuzijibuandeshihouqianwanbuyaoquzebeiduifangchugui，zhinengbiaodazuijinzijizuijindesuokunraodeshiqing。ruguolaogongmeiyouchuguineimetayidinghuilaianfunibingrangnianxin。jishishichuguileneimetayehuizhongxinbazhuyilizhuanyidaojiatingshang。

第七件：请求第三方机构帮助判定老公是否出轨

 zaihunyinliyibandoushi“pangguanzheqing，dangjuzhemi。”zaiganqingdexuanwoliyoushihouhennanqupandingsheishisheifei。suoyizuimingzhidezuofashiqingqiudisanfangjigoudebangzhulaipandinglaogongshifouzhendecunzaihunwaiqing。yekeyizixunxiangguandeqingganzhuanjiatingtingtamendeyixiejianyixuexiyixiejingyinghunyindefangfahejiqiao，duifuqiguanxidezengjinyouhendabangzhu。