henduonvrenjuede chulipoxiguanxi shiyijianlingrentoutengdeshiqing。ruguonvrenhunhounenggoutuoshanchulihaopoxiguanxi,neimetazaizheiduanhunyinzhongjianghuigengjiayourenyouyu。neimezenyangxiangchucainengrangpoxiguanxibianhao?zuoweixifudenixuyaozuohaozheijijianshi。
zenyangxiangchucainengrangpoxiguanxibianhao?
1、用甜言蜜语哄着婆婆
nvrenhepopoxiangchudeshihou,niyidingyaozuibatianyidian,niyaoduipoposhuoyixietianyanmiyu,hongpopokaixin。taxihuantingshenme,nijiuduitashuoshenme。youshihou,shanyidehuangyan,yekeyicujinpoxiguanxidegaishan。
dangran,niruguoyaokuapopo,niyidingkuadaodianshang,nibuyaokuadetailipu,fouzehuahubuchengfanleiquan,rongyidaozhipopodefangan。
biru,dangnifaxianpopozuoleyizhuodefancai,nibuyaoguangguzhechi,niyidingyaodalibiaoyangpopodechuyi,kuatazuodefancaitebiexiangtebiehaochi。zhiyouzheiyang,popocaihuijuedetadexinkumeiyoubaifei。
liangyanyijusandongnuan。niruguojingchangduipoposhuoyixiehaotingdehua,neimepopoyehuiduiniguamuxiangkan,tahuigengjiatengaini。
2、将心比心,多替婆婆着想
nvrenzaihunyinzhongyaoxuehuijiangxinbixin,hepopoxiangchudeshihou,bufangduotipopozhexiang。nifanshibuyaozongshihepopozhenfengxiangdui,zhiyaobushejidaoyuanzexingdewenti,ruguozhishiyixiejimaosuanpidexiaoshi,neimeniwanquankeyifangshourangpopoquzuo。nimeibiyaofeidegenpopozhenglungaoxiahuoshuying。
zhiyoudangnidongdehuanweisikao,duocongpopodejiaoduqusikaowenti,chulishiqing,nicainengzhenzhengyingdepopoduinideaiyuzunzhong。
tahuijuedenishiyigetebielijietaliangkuyongxindehaoerxifu。tayoushenmeshiqingyeyuanyihenishanglianghuogoutong。
bijing,renxindoushirouzhangde。jirannibatadangqinmayiyangduidai,yuanyichuchutitazhexiang,neimetongyangdi,popoyehuibanidangchengqinshengnveryiyangtengai。
3、对老公好点,别当着婆婆的面指责老公
nvrenqianwanbuyaodangzhepopodemianzhizelaogong,niyaoduilaogongwenrouyidian。yinweiniyidandangzhepopodemianchizelaogong,popohuijuedenishiyigebujianglidenvren。nisuiranshimatadeerzi,danshijishangnishizaidatadelian。
tiandixiameiyounagemuqinbutengaizijidehaizi。ruguonidangzhepopodemian,butingdishuluolaogong,shenzhiduilaogongquandajiaoti,neimepopokendinghuiyinciduinichongmanyuanhen。tahuijuedenibuaitadeerzi,nishizaiqifutadebaobeierzi。popoyehenkenengyincihenifashengzhengchao。
suoyi,congmingdenvrencongbuhuidangzhepopodemianhelaogongfashengrenhezhengzhi。tazaipopomianqianhuijinliangbanyanyigexianqiliangmudejiaose,duilaogongjiqiwenroutitie。yinweitabuxiangrangpopojuedetaduitadeerzibuzunzhong,butitie,jierduitabuhuaihaoyi。
4、以和为贵,尽量避免和婆婆发生正面冲突
hunyinjiangjiuyiheweigui。dangnihepopofashengzhengchaohuochongtudeshihou,nibufangrangzijibaochilengjing。niyaojinliangbimianhepopofashengzhengmianchongtu。
buguannanrenyouduoaini,yidannihepopofashengzhengmianchongtu,nanrendoubukenengwanquanzhandaonizheibian。tahuoduohuoshaohuizaihupopodeganshou,bijingneigehenizhengchaodenvrenshitadeqinma。suoyi,tajiyaokaolvnideganshou,tongshiyeyaokaolvpopodeganshou。
yigejiatingnengfouxingwang,guanjianzaiyuzheiyijiarenshifouhemuxiangchu。dangnirenbuzhuyaoduipopofahuo,nibufangshenhuxi,shidangzhuanyimubiao,rangzijilengjingxialai。
jiusuanniduipopoyouyijian,niyebuyaodangmianhepopotichulai,nikeyigaosulaogong,ranglaogongbangniquzuopopodesixianggongzuo。zheiyanghuiqidaoshibangongbeidexiaoguo。
5、平时多陪婆婆聊聊天,不要冷落婆婆
pingshimeishideshihou,nibufangduopeipopoliaoliaotian,buyaoqingyilengluopopo。buguannihunhoushibushihepopotongwuyigewuyanxia,nidouyaochoukongpeibanpopo,hepopochangkaixinfeidiliaoliaotian。
dangpopochongfenganshoudaoniduitadeaiyuzaihu,popocaihuibanidangchengqinshengnveryiyangtengaiyuduidai。yinweitacongnizheiliganshoudaolezhenchenghewennuan,suoyitayehuixiangyaojiyunigengduodeaiyuwennuan。
poxizhijianbingmeiyoushenmejiebukaidexinjie,zhiyaopoxizhijiannenggoutanchengxiangdai,suoyouwentidoujiangyingrenerjie。
suoyi,nvrenzaihunhouyaodongdehepopobaochilianghaodegoutongyujiaoliu,pingshiduoduipoposhuoyixietianyanmiyu,hongpopokaixin,jinliangbimianhepopofashengrenhezhengmianchongtu。zhiyouzheiyang,popocaihuidaxinyanlibanidangchengqinshengnveryiyangtengai。
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