怎么主动找喜欢的男生聊天

 yudaoxihuanderen，henduorenyouqishinvshengyishijianbiandebuzenmehuishuohuale。benlaishigekankanertanderen，naodailijingxiangbuchurenheyoumodeciju，shenzhiyemeiyoukeyijixu liaotian dehuati。keshixiangyaolajinguanxidedongdeshuohua。laikankanzenmezhudongzhaoxihuandenanshengquliaotiancaihaoba。

保持自信，微笑面对

 zixinshidashanliaotiandediyibu，wulunduiyunannvdouyiyang。nvshengqianwanbuyaobajinchihezibeidengtongqilai，erbuzuogaibian。dangnijinanshengdeganjueshizixinde，jijide。neinishoudaodefankuiyehuishilianghaode。fanzhi，zaitamianqianweiweinuonuo，danxinshuocuohua，zhihuirangliaotianbiandebushunchang。ruguoshizaiyouyuxintaijinzhangdaobuzhidaoshuoshenme，yeketongguoweixiaolaihuanjieganga，baochihaoqingxu，nanshengziranhuizhudongzhaohuatide。

（zenmezhudongzhaoxihuandenanshengliaotian？）

学会在他面前展现真实的自己

 henduonvshengzaizijixihuandenanshengmianqianhuibennengdejinxingweizhuang，litubazijisuzaochengyigeshifenwanmeideren，yaobujiushihuazhejingzhidezhuangrong，yaobujiushichuanzheguoyulongzhongdeyifu，jibierenyizhongyongliguomengdeganjue，zheiyangjinbuhuizengjinnimenzhijiandejuli，gengkenenghuizhijieyingxiangtaduinidediyiyinxiang，jianyizaishenghuozhongbaochiziwojiuhao，jizhuyijuhua，xihuannideren，nizaizenmelatadouxihuanni。

聊天的时候不要作

 youxienvshengzaichichidebudaoduifangdehuiyingxia，huikaishishiyongyixiejiandandexiaoshouduan，ruguyizaitademianqianbiaodazijiduiqitananshengdehaogan，xiwangkeyikandaotachicudemoyang，zheizhongjiqiaoouershiyongyicijiuhao，ruojingchangshiyongdehua，zhihuirangtazhenderenweinizhaotaliaotianzhishiweilebiedenansheng，zhihuirangtalinigengyuan。

学会勇敢表达

 youxienvshengbenlaishigekankanertanderen，danzaixihuanderenmianqian，quehuituranbiandebuzenmehuishuohuale，guigenjiedideyuanyinjiushitamenzaimianduizijixihuanderenshi，huibiandejinzhang，huidanxinzijishuodehuaduifangbuaitingdeng。jianyizaishenghuozhongyingxuehuibiaodaziji，yaozhidao，yuehaipayuebuhuishuo，yuebuhuishuoduifangyuehenimeideliao。

应对他有一个基本的了解

 youxienvshengduinanshengdehaoganwangwanglaidebijiaofuqian，kenengshitabujingyijiandeyigedongzuo，kenengshitawuyijiandeyijuguanxin，zongzhihuiyougezhonggeyangdeliyou，danhenduoshihouruowomenzhenxinxihuanyigeren，jiuyingduitadeshenghuoyouyigelejie，rugerenaihao，chuanyifenggedeng，bujinkeyirangnimenzaixiacijianmianshibiandeyouhuakeliao，haikeyizengjinnimendejuli。

提升自己的魅力值

 nvshengzuicongmingdefangfashixiyinnanshenglaidashanziji，rangduifangyoureqinglaihezijiliaotian。ruguonidemeicidashanshoudaodefankuishibugoujijide，neinijiuyaocongzheifangmiantishengle。yigezhongyaoxianshishi，zainanxingquntizhongtamengenghuibeiwaibiaoyouyidenvxingxiyin，yinweizheishitamenzuoweishengwudebenneng。ruguonixiangrangduifangzhudonglianxini，duinidehuiyinggoujiji，nixuyaodafudutishengzijideziwomeilizhi。meilizhilaizineizaihewaizai，biruyonggenghaodezhuangronglaixiushiziji，peiyangyuedudexiguan。dangnitishenglezheixiefangmianhuifaxian，nibizhiqianhaihuizixinhenduo。neishidenibingbuxuyaoduozhudongduifangyehuigengjiakanzhongnidejiazhi，gengyuanyiyuniliaotian。

给予对方发表建议的机会

 buyaoniyigerenshuodaotou，yaojitafabiaodejihui。ruguonihaipanimenzhijianmeihualiaoeryizhishuoyizhishuo，kenengtahuiyanfan。liaotianshilianggerendeshiqing，ruguonishuodetabuyuanyiting，ernihaijixushuo，zheiyangkenenghuirangtaxiayicibuyuanyiheniliaotaiduo。niyinggairangtashuo，liaonimengongtongdehuati。

学会适当的主动

 keyizhudongzhaotaliaotian，danshibuyaozongshinizhudong。taizhudongle，huirangtacongxinlijuedejiusuanbuzhaoniliaotian，niyehuizhudongzhaotade，tajiubuhuifeijingnaojindequsikaoyaozhaoniliaoxieshenme，yinweizheigewentiniyijingkaolvle。