同性恋人：我只想找到一个爱的人

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同性恋人：我只想找到一个爱的人，仅此而已!

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nizhidaome，woqishiyoudianhaipa，danwogengbuxiangshiquta。

（tongxinglianren：wozhixiangzhaodaoyigeaideren！）

dabufentongxingliandepengyouzai12-16suizhijianhuiduizijidexingquxiangyousuorenzhierhouzhujianquedingxialai。

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“后来呢?

“buxiangcuoguo。nizhidaome，woqishiyoudianhaipa，danwogengbuxiangshiquta。”

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 “woxihuanta，shiyinweitazheigerenbenshen。woshiyigetongxinglian，danwomeibiyaodaochuqushuozijixihuantongxing，jiuxiangyixinglianyebuhuishuozijixihuanyixingde。

womendouzaizhengchangdelianai，zheiyoucuome?”

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tafaleyizhanghezijilianrenqianshoudezhaopianshuo，“zheishijieyemeixiangxiangdeneimezao。”

1973nian，meiguoxintaixuexiehuihemeiguojingshenyixuehui，jiangtongxingliancongjibingfenleixitongzhongquchu。

 1990nian，shijieweishengzuzhizhengshijiangtongxingliancongjibingmingcezhongquchu，renweitongxingxingqingxiangnairenleixingqingxiangdeqizhongyizhongzhengchangleibie，tongxinglianbushiyizhongjibinghuobuzhengchang，qiewuxujieshourenhexingshidezhiliao。

 2001nian，《zhongguojingshenzhangaifenleiyuzhenduanbiaozhun》disanbanchuban，zaizhenduanbiaozhunzhongzhuming：tongxingliandexinghuodongbingfeiyidingshixintaiyichang。

zicizhihou，tongxinglianzaiwoguocaibuzaibeitonghuaweibingtai。

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 erzheiyiqiedoubeiailioudefuqinkanzaileyanli，aolifulikaiyidalihou，ailioutongkunanai，erfuqinduitashuo：“nimenhenxingyundiyujianbici，yinweitahenshanliang，niyehenshanliang......ruheduguoyishengshinizijideshiqing，nizhiyaojizhu，shangtianciyuwomendexinlinghenshentizhiyouyici，buyaoshituwangquenixianzaibeishangdeganjue，yinweimeikaishiyiduanxindeganqing，womennengjiyudebianyueshao。”

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