后悔分手想挽回男友怎么办？

 wohenanyouyidilian7nianle，qijianfenshouguohenduoci。zuijinwomenyinweicailideshiqingnaodebuyukuai，erqiezheiciwoyetilefenshou。shihouhouhuixiangwanhuita，dannanyouduiwohenlengmoshenzhibuxiangzaifuhele，wogaizenmebanni？

houhuifenshouxiangwanhuinanyouzenmeban？

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附照片和2张聊天记录截图诉求：遭遇男友 冷暴力 ，zijitifenshouhouxiangwanhui，nanyouquebuxiangjixu，shinanyoubianxinle？zheiduanaiqinghaiyouwanhuiyudima？

花镇情感咨询师 花镇 回复：

一、分手原因不是男友变心而是被你作死。

nimenfenshoudeyuanyin，bushinanyoubianxinle，ershiniyanyiledaxiede“zuosi”。

你经常提分手但内心其实又不想分，就是在压榨对方的 情绪价值  ，xiangjieyou“fenshou”dayaheweixienanyou，qituposhitayongnixiangyaodefangshiduinigenghaofuchugengduo。erfenfenhehe7nian，yong“lesuoqingxujiazhi”zheigecidoubuweiguole。

二、为什么男友能够忍受你频频作死7年呢？

 henkenengshiyinweinimenxiangshiyuweishi，kaishiyuxiaoyuandeqingselianqingzidaidipu，suoyijilenimenzheiduanganqingdepuzhiyigehendidejishu。

三、为什么男友现在不想再忍你，坚决要分手呢？

 yidilianshiganqingzhongde“kunnan”moshi，benjiuxuyaogengjiayongxinjingying，niqueyizhigaopu。zaididejishuyejingbuqihouqidefeisuzengzhang。7nianlainibutingditichufenshou，puchixuchuyugaowei，suoyinimendeganqingzaojiujinrulezhangzeyichang。

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对你而言 二次吸引  dechenggonglvbugao，erqieyinidexinggeduanqineijiangpuxiaoguobuhuihenmingxian，suoyiwanhuidekenengxingbuda。ruguonizhendexiangwanhuiduifang，neimejiuhaohaodigaiyixiazijidepiqi，jiangdipuhouzaikankanshifounenggouwanhuiduifang。