男人提分手后，女人千万别去主动挽回！

dangnvshengfenshouhouxiangwanhuinanyoudeshihou，henduorendouquanshuobuyaozhudongquwanhui。weishenmenanrentifenshoubunengzhudongquwanhuini？yibannanrentifenshoushijingguoshensishulvkaolvguode，tashirenzhenxiangyaohenifenshoude。neime，ruhexiangyaowanhuinanyou，zhengquedewanhuifangfayinggaishizenyangdeni？

nanrentifenshouhou，nvrenqianwanbiequzhudongwanhui！

01给彼此一段冷静期

younannvdeshenglijiegoubutongzaochengde，xiangduieryan，nanshengpianlixing，nvshengpianganxing。dangnanshengtichufenshouhou，tahuiyouyiduansikaoqi，sikaodezhongdianjiushihuiyiguowangdeganqingjingli，biru：tazuoduiguonaxiezuocuoguonaxie，nizuoduiguonaxiezuocuoguonaxie，zaiciqianshouhounengfouxingfu。

suoyi，zainanshengtichufenshouhoudeneiduanshiqi，feichangxuyaonvshengbuqudaraota，jitashijianqusikao，lengjinghefansheng。

dangran，zaitalengjingdezheiduanshiqi，nvshengyebushishenmedoubuzuo，dengzhetalaizhaonifuhe。qishizheiduanshijiannvshengyaozuodeyouhenduo，biru：fanshengnimenfenshoudeyuanyin，zishenkeyizuochunaxiegaibianhetisheng，zhenduitishengxuyaozuochunaxienuli。

zhaochudaozhifenshoudeguanjianwenti，ranhouzuochugaibianhetisheng，dengnizaicichuxianzaitamianqianshi，jitayanqianyiliangdeganjue，neime，tayuanyigennifuhedejilvjiuhuidahenduo。

02尝试断联

qieji，tazaigangfenshoushidalaiguanxinnishixiangzhidaonihaobuhao，bushiyaogennifuhe，suoyinidetaidubunenghuanhuqueyue，yaokeqilengmodehuiying。

ruguonimenzaigongshishangyoulianluoxuqiu，nizhixugongshigongban，gaijiaodaidejiaodaiqingchujiuhao，sishitabuwen，niyijuyebuyaoti。buguanniduoxiangnianta、duoxiangjianta，shenzhiyouyiduzidehuaxianggentashuoxiangyaowenta，qiejiyaoren！

zaishijichengshuqian，jiusuantazhudonglaidian，nizhinengpingdanyoukeqidexiangying，yaojianduanbingqiezhudongjieshutanhua。zheimezuodexiaoguoshirangtazhidaoniyijingjieshoufenshoushishiqiekaishixinshenghuo。

nanrenzheizhongshengwua，tongchangyaochechedididetiwudaoniyijingbuzaishuyutashi，caihuikaishixiangwanhui。

yaoshinifenshouhouyizhifanta，yigezhonghelibuhelideliyoujiejinta，gaodezijixianggenzongkuangyiyangdeyirancunzaiyutadezhouwei，neimetayouruhehuixiangyaogennifuhe？

suoyishuochediqiege、duanjuelianxijiuxiandefeichangzhongyao，zhiqiannimenyueshinongqingmiyi，tayueshihuibuxiguan。tazaishenghuoshangyueyilaini，yueshihuifaxiandaonidebuketidai。

nijiusuancengjingrenxingbudongshi、butiliangta，danshininengchengshumianduifenshoubujiuchandexingwei，youhuirangtahuainianqinikeaideyimian。

当然了，你这段期间要做的事情主要还是把所有精力放在提升自我上面，毕竟 二次吸引 shiyiqiewanhuideqianti，tongshikeyitongguogezhongfangshirangtazhidaonirujindejingcaishenghuohejinkuang。

03保持良好的心态

kaitewangfeigenweilianwangzideaiqinggushi，dajiayinggaidouzhidaoba。

qizhongzuilingwoyinxiangshenkedejiushiliangrenzaigangfenshoudejieduan，kaitewangfeimeiyouzhaizaijiaziyuanziai，ershihuashangmeimeidezhuangrong，shencaiyiyidicanjiagezhonghuodong。likaiweilianwangzidetasihumeiyoushoudaorenheyingxiang，fanerguodebiyiqianjingcai。

jiasheyixia，ruguomeitijizhepaidaodeshikaitewangfeipengtougoumian，chourongmanmiandehuamian，jieguohuiruhe？

qishiweilianwangzizaigenkaitewangfeifenshoujieduan，zhaolexinhuan。danneiyouzenyang，haibushilaizhaokaitewangfeifuhema，erqiefuhehoujiuxunsudinglehun。

suoyi，zaiwanhuitazhiqian，qingxianzhaohuiziji。wulunyoutahaishimeita，zhiyourangzijiguodejingcai，tacaihuizhidao，tacuoguodeshishenme。

04复合谈判技巧

yinweifenshouhounimendeguanximeiyounaojiang，suirantameiyourenzhenxiangguofuhe，danshidequehuainianqinimenzaiyiqideganjuele。

hekuangnijiugendangnianyiyanghaishineimejiaoqiaomiren，youzengtianlenanyiyanyudeshenmigan，suizhenimendehudonglianxizengjia，tacongyanyushangdedaqingmaqiao、bianchenghuibujingyipengpengnidadanaonao。

 zheiqijiannanfangyiqietaiyuejudexingweichuxianshinijiuyaolikezhizhi，tongchangshiqudenanrencishijiuhuicaishache，bingqieneixinananweinaidejinshoufenjigandaojingpei。zheibudanhuirangtaduinimenfenshouhoudejiaowangzhuangtaifangxin，yehuikaishibubanidangzuokenengdexingbanlvrenxuan。

zhihoutahuoxuhuiyinweichilebimengengduanzanshiqulianxi，danshitaqishixinlizhengzaipinggugennifuhedeyiyuan。yinci，niyaoyounaixin，guoyizhenzinifangxin，tahuiyoudongzuode。

zhongyu，zuizhongtanpandeshijilaile！

tayinggaihaihuichangshidanduyaoyuenai，nikeyidayingyaoyuebingqiezhanxianchuzuimeihaodeziji，ranhouniyaomingbaibiaoshunidelichang，yejitaxuanzedequanli。zongzhiniyaorangtalejiedao，yaogenniyouqinglvbandehudong，jiudeshimingzhengyanshuncaixing。

dajiazhidaozuihouguantoudetanpanyishugenjiqiaozainalima？jiushinanrendoubuxihuanbeikongzhi、bipo、yaoxie，yincibunengyongtanpaidefangshiyifanliangdengyandeyaotalikexiajueding。

qianwanbuyaowentadaodizenmexiangde，shibushigenbenjiumeiyouxiangguofuhe，jiranbufuhe，neijiuyihoubuyaozailianxihaolezhilei。zheiyangzhihuirangnanfangrenweinizheiyiqiedouzhishizaicehuata，niyuejiqiedeyaoqiutajichugemingquelichang，tajiuyuebuqingyidafuyuni。

niyaoxuepangqiaoceji，piru，biaoshiyouzhuiqiuzheyihuojialiyaoqiuxiangqinzhilei，rangduifangshengchuweijigan。ranhouruwuyiwaidehua，nidetahuizhudongbiaotai。nimenyejiushunlichengzhangdefuhechenggongle。