你是怎么发现自己是同性恋的

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你是怎么发现自己是同性恋的?这是一个寻找自我和爱的过程

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 gays of reddit, when did you know you were gay? what made you realize it? and how did that moment make you feel?

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（你是怎么发现自己是同性恋的？）

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