男女第一次约会，应该谁来买单

 yuehui doushixuyaochengbende，gengbieshuoxiangqinyaoyongjinqianpudian。aiqingyujinqianyuanbenjiushiwufafengededongxi，langmanyexuyaowuzhidezhicheng。xiangqinyourujingying，youdegaotourugaochanchu;youdequeshiditouzigaohuibao;nannvchucixiangqinyuehuixiaofeizhihouruhefuzhangdequeshigeshuangfangdouxuyaotantaodewenti。

nannvdiyiciyuehui，yinggaisheilaimaidan

女人：买单的心情很微妙

 zainvxingyishirijiantigaodejintian，nvrenkeyihenanrenyiyangchizhazhichang，yiyangmaifangmaicheshenzhibinanrenzhuandegengduo。nanrenyoudenvrenyiyangbuque，keshixiangfan，nvrenfengfudeshenmeiqingquhechaoqiangkangxuanyunnengli，nanrenqueweibiyongyou。

 youxienanrenshibuyuanrangnvrenzhudongmaidande，neixieweihunnanzibazijimaidankanzuoshixiangzijixihuandenvrendaxianyinqindezuijiashiji。zaimouxiechangheruguonvrenzhudongmaidan，ernanrenhaowubiaoshidehua，nvrenshihuishiwangde。yiweituixiaobaoxiandexiaojieshuo，henankehuquchifan，ruguoyaowozhudongmaidandehua，neijueduishi“laominshangcai”le，zheiyibishengyikendingzuobuxiaqule。fanzhiruguoduifangzhengzhemaidan，neishiyoubajiuchengshi。

AB制是啥？

 xianzaihaiyouyizhongxindefuzhangfangshiyingyunersheng，neijiushiabzhi。suowei“abzhi”jishizhizaixiaofeishiyounanxingzhifudabufenfeiyongernvxingchuxiaobufenfeiyong。

 suiranbushaorenhuanyingdanyeyoujianjuefanduizhe。wangyouxiaoliangzeduiabzhihenyihuo：zheiahebdejutibilidaodizenmequedinga?jiarumeicimaidanshihoudousuanlaisuanqude，neigaiduomafana，erqiekenenghaihuiyinqigengduowenti。yeyouwangyourenweizaifuzhangshangmeibiyaozheimejiaozhen，youqishinannvxiangqinyuehui。ruguoguanxiyoukenengjinyibufazhan，neimeyewusuoweizheiyidianqiansheichusheibuchu，youjiujieshou，meiyouyebujijiao，duiganqingmeishenmeyingxiang。haiyourenfanwen：“huaqianxiaofeiyaoganliuxingma?hekuangnanrengongzishibushiyeyidingbinvrengaoa?zheibujiushitichangnannvbupingdengma?”

 “qishimaidanbumaidan，guanjianzaiyuduibuduideshangyan。”yigewangyoujieshidao：“zhiyaoshuangfangduideshangyan，jishinanfangjingjitiaojianbuzenmeyang，tayeleyimaidan;ernvfangshuobudingyehuikaolvdaojianglaiderizi，erweinanfangjianfu。ruguoshuangfangduibushangyan，zaifuyouderenyeweibixinganqingyuanqumaidan。ernvfangshuobudingyehuiyongmaidanyufoulaihengliangzheigenanrendaodidafangbudafang。”