无痛分手更易挽回！如何分手减少伤害？

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wutongfenshougengyiwanhui！ruhefenshoujianshaoshanghai？

第一，不要逼对方先分手

 tuixiezerenshixiaorendexingwei，gengshiyizhongbuchengshudejudong，yourenyinweiganqingshengbianhuozheaishangqitaren，danshiquebuyuanyizuoneigezhudongtichufenshouderen，yushiyongjingezhongdefangfalaiposhiduifangzhudongtichufenshou。yilaitajiuwuxuchengdanlianqingjieshudezeren，erlaichenggongdezaiwairenmianqianbaoliuleshouhaizhedexingxiang。jizhu，zheizhongxingweishizairangrenbuchi。

第二，面对面的提出分手

 xianzaishehuikejidefada，gezhongdeliaotianruanjian、shouji、duanxindengdeng，ranghenduorenlianfenshoudoujuedewuxumianduimian。yeyourenjuededangmiantichutaishangren，yincixuanzezheixiefangshilaitaobi。danshishishishangmianduimianfenshoucaishizuizhengquedefangshi，zheiyangdejiaoliufangshikeyiweinitigongjiaoliu、anfudegongneng，qitafangshidouhuibuzijuedefachuyizhong“qishiniwuzuqingzhong”deyiwei。

 lingwaibudangmianfenshourongyijiduifangliuxiaxintaichuangshang，dangnidebudaorenhedejieshideshihounijiuhuihuahenduodexinsiqusikaozijijiujingzuocuoleshenmeni？erzheixiejiujiexiangfayoukenenghuizaochengtongku，queshaozhijiedejiechu，shilianyehuitebiedetongku。

第三，记得维护对方自尊

 fenshounanmianhuiyouyifandezhengzhi，nanmianqingxubiandejidong，yincixuyaotiqianyufangzijikouchuyuanyan，jiweihulelianrendezunyan，yeweihulezijidezunyan。niyinggaijiduifangyigetanchengdejieshi，gaosuduifangweishenmebunengjixuxiaqule，fenshoushuo“nibushiwoyaozhaoderen”，zheiyangjibiaodazugoudeqingchuyebuhuianshiduifangyoucuowuhuozhequexian。

第四，切勿分手还是朋友

 fenshouhaishipengyou，shijishangbingbushiyijianhaoshi，kenengyidingchengdushangkeyirangtichufenshoudeyifangjianqingzijideneijiu，danshiduiyubeishuaiderenlaishuoshizaishiyijiantongkudeshiqing。zheiyangdexingweirongyirangtamenyihouhaiyoufuhedejihui，gengnanzouchuzheiyangganqing。weilejiakuaicongshilianzhongkangfu，shuangfangfenshouzhihoubuyaozaijinxingrenhedejiechu，baokuotongxin、dianhuadengdeng。

第五，不要想着报复

 jiaruduifangbingbutongyifenshou，yidinghuiyousuozhengbian，zhengchaobingbunengdedaoyizhi，yewufashunlidechulifenshou。duifangfanyingguojidehua，yaozhuyibaohuziji，wulunshenmeshihourenshenanquanyongyuandouyinggaifangzaidiyiwei。lingwaibuyaoxiangzhebaofu，budanlangfeizijidejingli，gengrongyirangniduiduifangchanshenggengduodeliulian，zhongyaodeshiweileyigebuaiderenerchufanfalv，bingbuzhide。