分手之前思考一下这段感情是否还能挽回？

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fenshouzhiqiansikaoyixiazheiduanganqingshifouhainengwanhui？

冷静分析理智思考

 ruguolianggerenzhendeyijianhennantongyi，suiranyifangjinliqianjiu，danshiduifangzongshibumanyi，huozhelianggerenduidaduoshushiqingdekanfadoushixiangzuo，erqiehuiganjuezaiyiqihenlei，shenzhibuzhidaogairuhexiangchu，neimeyaolengjingdefenxihelizhidesikao，faxianlianggerenzhendebuheshijiuguoduandetichufenshou。

他的缺点多还是优点多？

 batadeyoudianhequedianfenbieluoliechulai，kankanniyirannengjieshoudedaodiyouduoshao。dangaiqinghaizaideshihou，tadequedianyenengrangnijuedetakeaiwubi。erdangganqingbuzaideshihou，jishishiyoudian，niyehuijuedepingdanwuqi。ruguoniwufarongrentadequedian，shenzhitademeigexingweixiguannidoukanbuguan，neikenengjiuzhendeyaozhongxinkaolvyixianimenzhijiandeguanxile。

你有做到自己应做的那部分吗？

 aiqingshilianggerendehudong，yiduanganqingdeweichishixuyaoshuangfangqugongtongnulide。ruguonijuedenimenzhijiancunzaiwentidehua，chulepandiantadebushi，niyeyinggaiziwofanshengyixia，kankanzijishifouzuodaoleyingzuodeneibufen。youshihoucongzijishenshangquxunzhaoyuanyin，wangwangnenggenghaodizhengjiuyiduanguanxi。

双方还可以好好 沟通 、携手并进吗？

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 lianrenguanxidezhenzhengdeyiyihuoxujiushikeyixieshougongtongmianduikunnanhezhangaiba。zaiyudaoteshuqingkuangshi，ruguonanyoubunenghezijihaohaogoutongbingtichujianshexingdeyijiandehua，budanshuomingzheigerenbugoukekao，yeshuomingshuangfangbugouxinyixiangtong。zheizhongqingkuangxiahaishifenshouquxunzhaonenghezijiyiqijiejuewentiderengenghao。