我是gay 只有一个人知道的秘密

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【青岛新闻网 独家】

genhuzidiyicijianmian，jizhehaimeikaikoushuohua，taxianweixiaozheshuo：“wozhidaonikendingxiangwenwoshibushigay,woshi。”

虎子是青岛某医院的一名医生。他的 前男友 是一个IT工作者，年龄不大，1987年出生。虎子开玩笑说，自己“恋小”。他们是08年奥运会时相识，都是青岛赛区的志愿者。交往两年，对方迫于家庭和社会舆论压力，选择 分手 ，结婚。

虎子对他的选择表示理解，因为他也曾走过这条路。2009年，虎子和家里给安排的 相亲 对象 结婚，2010年 离婚  。yizhidaolihun，qianqidoubuzhidaotashitongxinglian。suiranlijie，danqingganshangrengbuyuanjieshou，heqiannanyoufenshouhou，takaishihuanshangqingdutongku，bazijiguanzaijializhengzhengyigeyue，chizhekangtongkuyao，tongbanmenkanjianta，shuotaneiduanshijianjianzhishale，yanshendoushidaizhide。

我不是先天同性恋者

 jizhecongwangshangchaxundezhi，tongxinglianxingchengdeyuanyintongchangyouliangzhong：yizhongshixiantianxingde，youjiyinjueding;lingyizhongshishouhoutianhuanjingcijiyingxiang。huzishuo，tashuyuhouzhe。

还在小学的时候，虎子清晰地记得当时非常喜欢一个女孩子，情窦初开那种单纯地喜欢。后来被他父亲知道后，狠狠地打了一顿。上初中后，他又和一个女生谈了 恋爱  。huzikaiwanxiaoshuo，dangshizijihaishihenshuaide，“bushaopiaoliangnvshengzhuiwo”。zheishihoulaibeifuqinzhidaohou，youyidunbaozou。huzishuo，zijijiazaijiaozhou，fumumeishenmewenhua，daqihaizilaishiyongzhenliqidade。

 zheiliangcijinglihoulaishenshenyingxiangzheta。shanggaozhonghou，takaishipaichinvsheng，yikanjiannvshengxinlimomingdihaipa，fanergengxihuanhenanhaiziyiqiwan。

huzishuo，bunengjueduidishuo，zijidetongxingqingxiangwanquanshiyoufuqindedamahejiatinghuanjingjuedingde，danzhishaoyingxiangtingda。

只有一个人知道的“秘密”

上大学后，因为学医，虎子有更多机会接触到精神病学方面的知识。当时，他还不愿承认自己是同性恋，或者说，极度抗拒。有一次，上精神病学课，正好讲到 性行为  qingxiangdehuati，laoshizaishangmianshuo，zaizheigeshijieshang，daduoshurendoushizhengchangde，nannvxianghuxihuan，danshijiushiyouneimexiegebiederen，xihuantongxing。laoshidaiyouxixuefangshidejiangkeyindexiamiandexueshenghongtangdaxiao。huzishuo，neiyiketalianshangshaodehen，tougenbenbugantai，tajuedelaoshishuodejiushita。

 tongguoshangwang，tarenshilebushaotongxinglianpengyou。danquecongbuchengrenzijidetongxinglianqingxiang。tashenzhihaizaiwangshangbutingdiquanqitaren，ganjinfangqizheigeniantou，yinggaibizijizhongxinzoushangzhenggui，zhengchangdelianaijiehunshengzi。

 suiranquanzhebieren，dandaxueshiqi，huziyijingshitongxinglianle。tabuxihuannvsheng，zhixihuanhenanshengzaiyiqi。danyinweimeiyouziworentonggan，tacongmeibazheige“mimi”gaosurenheren。yizhidaodaxuebiye，zheige“mimi”zhiyoutayigerenzhidao。

同性恋者一样可以传播正能量

 gayduozhinantong，yuanbenyisiwei“kuailede，xiyuede，wuyouwulvde”，ciyuanweigufayudancigai。danxianshizhongdaduoshugayqueguozhejiduyayi、chenmen、zibeideshenghuo。

虎子告诉记者，他一度非常痛苦，虽然很多国家同性恋 婚姻  yijinghefahua，shehuiduitongxingliandebaorongduyuelaiyuegao，danzhouweirenyiyangdeyanguang、shehuiyulun，laizijiatingdeyali，yijishenshendeziwoburentonggan，dourangtayidubengkui。zheiyeshixianshizhongdaduoshutongxinglianzhegongtongmianlindewenti。

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成立公益网站 正确认识艾滋病

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检测50人当中3人感染艾滋病毒 感染比例比较高

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申请到英国NGO专项基金

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