第一次相亲 六个方面塑造好的印象

　　yidilianruhefenshoubushanghaiduifang，zaiyidilianzhong，danghunyinzoudaozuihou，fenshoubianchengnanyibimiandexuanzeshi，dajiayinggaijinliangbimianduilingyibanzaochengweihai。zenyangzuodaoni？diyi，goutongjiaoliushifenzhongyao，tanchengdibiaodaguandianhetihui，bubiyinmanzhenshiqingkuang。cizhi，zhongshibierendeganshou，jiyulijieyuzhichi，bingjinliangjianshaosunhaidefangfaheyanyu。yucitongshi，xuanzeshihezijideshijiandidiankaizhanfenshou，fangzhizaigonggongchangsuohuoteshurizizuochuzheigexuanze。zuizhong，jiyubicizhijianchongzudeshijianhekongjianquzhishang，bicizhufulingyifangkeyizhaodaoheshidexingfukuaile。yidilianfenshoubingfeiyishi，danwomenkeyitongguowenroudifangfawanbi，liuxiameihaodehuiyi。

　　段落一：勇敢的面对分手实际

　　yidilianruhefenshoubushanghaiduifang，yidilianzhongfenshoushiyigejianxinerbeishangdequeding，danshiyoushihoupobudeyijieshouxianshi。zaizheiyangyigetongkudeshishikeke，womenyinggaiyonggandequmianduifenshou，erfeiduobi。fenshoubingbudengyudajiabuxihuanlingyifang，zhishiyinweixianshishenghuodezulanshiwomenmeifayizhizouxiaqu。yiner，womenyinggairenqingzheigexuanze，bingxiangxintaduibicijinhoudefazhanshigenghaodexuanze。

　　段落二：温婉沟通交流传送情意

　　dangmianduifenshoudejuedingshi，goutongjiaoliushishifenzhongyaode。womenyaoyongwenwan、zhenxinshiyideyuyanbiaodazijineixinxiangfaheganshou。buduanqiangdiaoduifangdehaohezijineixinzhuanbian，nengrangduifanggengrongyijieshouwomendejueding。yucitongshi，jiyulingyifangchongzudeshijianhekongjianlaijieshouzheiyixiaoxi，bieqiangqiulingyifangmashangjienahuolejie，youyumeigerendouyinggaishijianguanliqingxu。

　　段落三：重视别人的感受

　　fenshoushiyizhongtongkudejingli，wulunshiduiyudajiahaishiduilingyiban。zaizheiguochengzhong，dajiayinggaizunzhongbierendeganshou，jiyulijieyuzhichi。jinliangjianshaozeguaihuohuxiangzhize，bubinengrangduifanggandaoxiukui、wunaihuobeishang。fanguolai，womenyaojililingyifang，gentamenshuowomenyijiuaixitamen，danshiyouyuxianshishenghuodexianding，womenyinggaizuochuzheigejueding。

　　段落四：选择适合自己的时长和方法

　　fenshoubushiyijianrongyideshiqing，womenyaoxuanzeshihezijideshizhanghefangfazuojiezheiduanganqing。fangzhizaibicipiqibaozaohuoteshurizizuochuzheigexuanze，zheiyangkeyibangzhuduifangnenggougenghaodijieshoubingjiejue。chucizhiwai，xuanzeheshidefangfa，nengshijiaoliugoutong、shipinliaotianhuozhangxin，yiweichizunzhongyuchengkendetaidu。

　　段落五：给予彼此之间充足的时间和空间

　　fenshouhou，womenyinggaijiyubicizhijianchongzudeshijianhekongjianquzhishang。zheiyiweizhewomenyingdangzunzhongduifangdejuece，buyaopinfandilianxitahuochangshizaicijifamingtiandexiwang。fanguolai，womenyaozhufuduifangkeyizhaodaoheshidexingfukuaile，jiduifanglijiehezhichi。zheileizouxiangchengshudadudexintai，keyibangzhuwomenshunlideanranduguojiankudefenshouquanguocheng。

　　段落六：留下美好的回忆

　　yidilianruhefenshoubushanghaiduifang，jibianshifenshou，dajiayebugaigaobieguoqudemeimiao。zhuiyishiwomengongtongcaifu，tamenkeyiyongyuanliuzaiwomenzijidexinli。zaiwanchengzheiduanganqingyiqian，womenkeyiyiqihuiwangzheixiemeihaodeshike，gongxiangganxiehexiyue，zheijianghuibangwomennenggougenghaodidaobie，bingjiyulingyifangyigenanwangdehuiyi。wanbiyiduanyidilianhenyoukenengshitongkude，danshiwomenyibanyongwenrouqiejingpeidefangfafenshou，jiyulingyifangshidudeguanaiyulijie，rangshuangfangkeyijixumaixiangmeihaodeweilai。