第一次相亲避免尴尬 聊天应该由浅入深

　　zaiyidilianzhong，dangyigerenxiangyaowanbizheifenganqingshi，cunzaidekunnantongchanglingrengandaobuzhisuozhong。yidilianxiangfenshouzenmeban？fenshoudejuecezhengqueyufou？zenyangheduifanggoutongjiaoliu，yijinliangbimiansunhai？zheizhongwentikunraozherenmen。fenshoushiyigejianxinertongkudeguocheng，bixuzhenchengyuzunzhong，tongshihaixuyaoguanxinbicizhijiandetiyan。dangmianduiyidiliandefenshoukunjingshi，shenzhongkaolv，heduifangshenrujiaoliu，yexunengzhaodaoyizhonggengweilijiehejieshoudefangshiquwanbizheiduanganqing，shizijigenduifangdoukeyijixuqianjin。

　　远距离的间距，内心连接的担心

　　yidilianxiangfenshouzenmeban，zaiyidilianzhong，dangyifangzaochengfenshoudexiangfashi，yingduifenshouzenyangchuli，bianchengyidaonanti。zhongjiu，zhangjulidailaidezhongzhongkunnanyukebianxing，rangliangrenzhijiandeganqingzaoyuzhongyaodetiaozhan。danwulunzenyang，fenshoudoushiyigejiannandejueze，bixushensishulv，jiqishenzhongxuanzeshihezijidefangfalaijiejue。

　　思考和沟通：探寻真实心里想法

　　zaiyidilianxiangfenshoushi，shouxianjinxingshenrudesikao。sisuofenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin，shibushishiyouyuxianghuzhijiandejuliwentidaozhidebushihe？haishiqitadeqinggankunhuohuogerenfazhanqushidechabiesuodaozhide？duizijiyuduifangxinlixiangfakaizhanzhenzhengyiyishangdesikaoyutansuo，cainengfaxiangenghaodejiejuefangan。

　　yidanyoulequeding，neijiuxuyaojiandingdiheduifangjinxingjiaoliu。yaotanchengdibiaodazijideganshouyuxiangfa，tongshiyezunzhongbierendeganshou。genjuzhenzhidegoutongjiaoliu，lianggerennenggougenghaodilejiebicizhijiandelichanghezhengtuo，huoxuzuizhongnenggoudachengyizhi，jinxinghelidequeding。

　　尊重和接受：给对方留下美好的回忆

　　bulunshiyifenshouyiranjianchijianchixiaqu，zunzhongyujieshoudoushixiangdangzhongyaode。ruguojuedingfenshou，neimejiuyaoyaobaochipingjingdexintai，bubixianghuzhijianzhizehuoshanghaitaren。buguanshiyishidegongchuhuoshichijiudezhuiyi，yaobicizhijianxincunganen，zaicinengrangduifangzaijiyililiuxiameihaohenji。

　　寻找适用:意识到独立自由成长的意义

　　fenshoubujinjinshilianggerenzhijiandeshier，yeshiyigerenmenzaisikaoyufazhandeyike。zaizheigehuanjiezhong，xunzhaowaibudezhichihelijieshihenzhongyaode。yuyaohaodepengyouyujiarengoutongjiaoliutihui，xunzhaotamendejianyiyuzhichi，nenggoubangzhunigenghaodiyingduifenshouqingxuyutiaozhan。

　　tongyangzhongyaodeshi，yaoyishidaofenshouyeshiyizhongjiyu。zheishiyigezhongxinshenshizijidehaojihui，yeshiyigechongjingweilaidehaojihui。yaoxuehuizili，fazhanqushizijideaihaohegongzuo，xingchengzijideshejiaoquanzihewangluoshejiao。zaizheigehuanjiezhongmanmanbaituoshiwangyutongku，zhaodaoshuyuzijidexingfu。

　　翻过艰险:往前迈开坚定不移的一步

　　yidilianxiangfenshouzenmeban，dangyidilianzhongdeyifangxuyaofenshoushi，neixinshenchudejiujiehefenqishiwufabimiande。danbuguanquedingzenyang，zuihoujiushiweiletanxunzijideaiqingyuchengzhang。mianduikunjing，shizhongbaochiyujianqiangjiandingbuyi，xiangxinshijianhuidaoweilaizhilushangzhengmingyiqiezhengquehemeihao。wulunxuanzeshenmeshihou，yiwangwuqian，baochilianghaodexintaiwangqianmaikaijiandingbuyideyibu，tanxunzijizhenzhengdexingfuyumanzu。