曾经说爱我一辈子的男人出轨了，我还能相信婚姻吗？

　　yinweizijidewuliqunaofenshoulezenmeban，zaiwomenyouyuzijidewuliqunaozaochengfenshoushi，wubirenqingzheigexianshi，erqieyingyongjieshouxianshi。xiamian，womenyinggaifansiziyideguoshi，xunzhaoyuanyin，bingbuduannulijiuzhengtamendexingwei。zheishihou，heduifangkaizhanzhenzhidegoutongzhiguanzhongyao，lingtingbierendeganshouyuxiangfa，xunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa。yucitongshi，womenyeyaozhuyizijideneixinquanqiu，kaizhanziwofansiyuchengzhang，yibimianleisicuowuzaicichuxian。buguanzuizhongjieguozenmeyang，zhencheng、zhongshihekuanrongdoushizhongyaodejiazhiguan，nengbangzhuwomennenggougenghaodijiejuefenshoudexianxiang，yincimaixianggengmeihaodeweilai。

　　反省与反思

　　yinweizijidewuliqunaofenshoulezenmeban，fenshouhou，dajiashouxianjiuyaofanshenghefansi。huiwangtamendexingwei，tanrandipingdingzijishibushiwuliqunaozaochenglefenshoudedaodejieguo。zheijiuxuyaojiandingdimianduizishendequedianhekunhuo，jienazijidewentibingfuzeren。fansinengbangzhuwomenyishidaozijidebugouheyouhuadedifang，duiweilaifazhanyuxiufuguanxiyouweizhongyao。

　　积极主动更改和成长

　　renshidaozijidewuliqunaozaochengfenshouhou，womenyinggaijijidigaibianxianzhuangdexingweifangshi。zheijiuxuyaofuzhunuliquxueyufazhanjijizhudongdexingweimoshihewentijiejuenengli。tanxunmeiti、yueduwenzhangxinlixuedeshuhuoshixunqiubangzhuzhuanyerenyuan，dounengbangzhuwomengenghaodilejiezishen，peiyangqingshanghechongtuchulishuiping，yibimianleisicuowuzaicichuxian。

　　诚挚沟通与聆听

　　chengzhigoutongshixiufuguanxidezhongyaoyibu。zaiwomenyishidaozijidecuowushi，yaojijigenduifangtanchengdigoutong，biaoshuneixindefansiheqianjiu。lingtingduifangganshouhexiangfa，lijieduifangdejianyi，bingchangshichuangjianxianghujianderentonghelejie。tongguoyouxiaodegoutong，shuangfangkeyihuiyingwuhui，xunzhaogongtongdejiejuefangan，weifujianguanliandiandingjichu。

　　关心内心与自我提升

　　fenshouhou，womenyeyinggaizhuyizijideneixinxianshihegerentisheng。zheishiyigefansihezhonggoudejieduan。genjuneixindeshijiantansuoheziwofansi，womenkeyiyishidaozijidexuqiuyujiazhiguan，bingzhubuxunzhaoshenfenrentongheziwoyuyue。yikaozhichizhedexiezhu，keyijiasuziwochengzhangdeguocheng，yigenghaodiyingduileisiqingkuang。

　　尊重和包容的价值观

　　zuizhong，buguanfenshouhoudezuizhongjieguozenyang，dajiayaoshizhongjianchizunzhongyubaorongdejiazhiguan。zheijiuyiweizhebudanyaolijieduifangdejuecehetihui，yexuyaodongdezunzhongdeneixin，fangzhizhizehechize。kuanrongshijizijigenduifangjiyuxindejiyuyugailv，suzaorenjiguanxiconghui，bingweichixinlingdepingjingheningjing。zhiyouyizhongshihekuanrongweizaiti，cainengzhenzhengdemaixianggengmeihaodeweilai。

　　yinweizijidewuliqunaofenshoulezenmeban，buguanjinglileshenmeyangdewuliqunaozaochengfenshou，dajiadounenggoucongzhongxuexibingfazhan。genjufanshengyufansi，jijizhudonggenggaihechengzhang，chengzhigoutongyulingting，guanxinneixinyuziwotisheng，jiqijianchibuxiezunzhonghebaorongdejiazhiguan，womennengzhongxinshenshizijidejudongerqiezhaodaoxiufuguanxideluxian。genjufuchuhenuli，dajiayoujihuizaicuoguodexingfuzhongfujianmeihaoguanlian，erqiemaijingengjiachongshihemeimandejianglai。