女人被相亲男当备胎的表现

　　duiyuyixieqinglvlaijiang，yichaojiajiuxiangfenshoujihuchengleyizhongchangtaihua。zaiyudaowentizhengchaoshi，tamenduiaiqingderenshouyujianchihaoxiangyuelaiyuebuzu。bulunshizaiqingganshangdebodongzhonghaishizaoyushenghuozhongdeyalishi，tamenxiguanjiangfenshouzuoweijiejuewentifangshi。danshi，zheileisuijierlaidexuanzequewangwanghulveleqingganshangdechengnuohebicigoutongdeyiyi，cushiaiqingderuobujinfengzhixianbiandegengjiamingan。fenshouyingdangshizuihoudejueding，erfeiyichaojiajiufangshouderenzouchaliang。

　　爱和争吵：摆动的爱情边沿

　　感性和理性的比拼

　　zhengchaoshiyiduanlianqingzhongzaisuonanmianzhuangkuang，danshidangzhengchaobianchengyichaojiajiuxiangfenshoudedaohuosuoshi，aiqinghaoxiangyuelaiyueyouyubuding。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，ganxinghelixingzhongjianzhankaileyichangjuliedejiaofeng。keguangaojiewomen，zhengchaozhishiyishideqingxuxuanxie，danzhenzhengdeaiqingbixujingliguofengyucaikeyijiangu。danshi，lixingquerangwomenchenjinyuqingxudebodongzhong，rangyishidebukaixinmengzhuledajiabicizhijianshenqinghouyiderenzhi。yiner，zenyangzaizhengchaozhongbaochishendusikao，shiaiqingyunyingzhongdezhongyao。

　　情绪宣泄与后悔背驰

　　yichaojiajiuxiangfenshoutongchangshiqingxuxuanxieshidaidechanwu。zaizhengchaodeyishunjian，dajiakenenghuiyinnaonuhuonanguoershuochuyixieshanghaitarendeyanyu，chuandachuyizhonghuibihefangshoudexintai。danshi，yidanpingjingxialai，wojiuhuirenshidaozijideguojifanyingqishibingbushidajiazhenshixiangfa。rangwomenyiqilaihouhuidangchusuibianjiangchufenshoudejuece，youyuwomenshenzhi，aiqingdegoujianxuyaoshijianheqinfen，bukeyouyuyishidexinfuqizaoersuiyifangqi。

　　沟通的意义与疏远代价

　　zhengchaosuodailaidelengmoshuyuanjinyibujiajuleyichaojiajiuxiangfenshoudexiangfa。zaizhengchaozhihou，bicikenengdouyouyiduanshijiandelengqueqi，cikeqiahaoshigoutongjiaoliudezhongyaoshike。danshi，yinweixintaiwufabeiqiadangyuyanhelingting，youshihouwomenxuanlechenmowuyanheshengshu。zheileishuyuanjiangjinyibuxiaoruoaiqingdeqiaoliang，bingqieweifenshoudailailemiaochuang。yiner，weibaochiaiqingdewendingxinghechixufazhan，dajiaxuyaoxuehuimiqiegoutong，lingtingyulijiebierendexiangfayuganshou。

　　困境转折与关联提升

　　yingduiyichaojiajiuxiangfenshoudekunjing，dajiahaikeyixuanzeshizhiweiyizhongzhuanzhe。zhengchaonenggouyerangwomenlejieduifangdedixianheminganqu，yekeyicushidajiashenshizijipianjiyantanjuzhi。zaiwomentiaoxuanmiqiegoutonghexunqiujiejuefanganshi，womenjiangyinglailianxidetishengyuchengzhang。genjuzhengchao，womennenggengjiashenkedilejiebicizhijian，suzaogengqiangderentonghejinquxin，congershideaiqinggengwendinghezhangjiu。

　　汇总

　　yichaojiajiuxiangfenshoudexiangfasuirannengshuominggerenqingxudecuiruomeiyouyilidequshi，danshi，yejiushizaizhengchaozhongwomenbunanfaxiancunzaidewenti，jiashenlejiehetigaoqingxu。zaiwomennenggoulejieganxinghelixingpingheng，tongguogoutonghebaorongrangaiqingdedaofazhan，womenjiangyaonenggoukefuyichaojiajiuxiangfenshouxianjing，chuangjiangengjiajiankangyulaogudeguanlian。