中年男人出轨的心态分析

　　yichaojiajiutifenshoudenanren，zheishiguanyuyizhongteshuzhongleinanrendejianshu——neixieqingganchongtuzhongxuanzeyongfenshouweijiejuefangandenanren。wulunchaojiadeshuipingzenyang，zheizhongnanrenzongshijiangfenshouzuoweitaolixianshihejiejuewentifeichangjiandanfangfa。tamenquefazhenchenghechengdanzerendanliang，jingchangduobimianduikunjingshenghuozhongdemaodun。zheileixingweifangshishenshendiyanzhongyingxiangliangrendeguanxikekaoxinghejiaoliupinzhi，shizhimeifachuangjianshenxinjiankang、zhangjiudeaiqinglianjie。yiner，zhangwozheiyitezhengzhenduibuyaohezheizhongnanrenchuangjianbuwenguanlianyouweizhongyao。

　　男人的情感不稳与冲突解决方法

　　chaojiashifuqiganqingzhongnanmianchuxiandechongtufangshi。danshi，youyixienanrenyiranzaimeiyicichaojialidoujiqiemingquetichufenshou，buyuanmianduifenqi。zheixierenzaiqingganshangkanqilaijiqibuwen，qianquejiejuechongtudenengliheqingxudiaojiejiqiao。zheiyileixingdenanrenzaiqingganguanxiliyinfaleyixilienanti，jinerduizijihetadeairendaozhilebukehushiweihai。

　　回避问题的自我防御机制

　　dangyichaojiajiutifenshoudenanrenyingduichongtushi，tamendediyifanyingshihuibiwenti。tamenbuxiangzhanshengkunnan，qianquejiejuewentidanliang。yiner，tamenyikaofenshouzheiyijiduanhuafangshilaiyangaichongtu，linshiraokaishiji。zheizhongzuofazhagenyuziwofangyujizhi，bangzhuqidiaojieqingxuhebimianyingduineixinshenchudebuanhehaipa。

　　缺少沟通和情感表述技巧

　　yichaojiajiutifenshoudenanrentongchangmeiyouhenhaodegoutongdejiqiao。tamenwufachongzubiaodazijiqingganheyijian，butaidongdelingtingyulijieduifangdexuqiu。zheishidetamennanyijiejuechongtu，zhinengyikaofenshoulaiduanzanxingfangzhifenqi。qianquelizhidegoutongyuqingganbiaodashoufa，shitamenmeifachuangjianpingwen、jiankangdeshenghuoguanlianjiben。

　　不够成熟情绪处理能力

　　yichaojiajiutifenshoudenanrenyibanbiaoxianchulepiqibaozaoyuchulinenglibugouchengshu。tamenguoduyilaixintailaituidonggerenxingwei，qianquelixingsikaoyuziwodiaokong。dangreqinggaozhangshi，tamenwufalizhidibianbiexianshiyuxintaizhijiandechabie，feichangrongyizuochujuliedequeding。zheileibugouchengshuqingxuchulifangfashidetamenshenxianqingganzuoguoshanche，yucitongshiduilingyibandaozhilebubiyaodeshanghaihebuandinggan。

　　建立稳定的关联必须自我提升

　　zhenduiyichaojiajiutifenshoudenanreneryan，jianliwendingdeguanlianyaojinxingziwotishengziwogaibian。tamenyaoxuexiqingxukongzhihegoutongdejiqiao，tigaozijideqingshanghejiejuewentinengli。yucitongshi，tamenhaixuyaoyishidaoduobibingbushichuliwenti，fanershijiazhongguanliandebuquedingxing。genjuxunqiuzhuanyexinlishudaohuocanyuqingxuguanlipeixun，tamenkeyizhubuyangchenglianghaodeqingganchulifangfa，chuangjianwendingershenxinjiankangdeaiqinglianjie。

　　结束语

　　yichaojiajiutifenshoudenanrenzaiqingganwendingxinghechongtuchulicengmiancunzaimingxiandenanti。tadeziwofangyujizhi、goutongdejiqiaoheqingxuchulinenglijidaigaijin。genjuziwotishengyuzhuanyeshiyong，tamenyouxiwangfujianpingwen、jiankangdeshenghuoguanlianjiben，yitishengzijiyubanlvzhongjiandexingfuganhemanyilv。