异性约会，男人很嫌弃女人这4种行为

　　ganghenvyouquerenguanxijiutichufenshou，zaiaiqingdeguidaozhong，youshihoucashenerguoyishunjian，huiyinfalingrenfeiyisuosizuizhongdejieju。jiuzaineitamenganggangquerenguanxishi，turanyoujichulefenshou。zheiyijiujiabuguidejuece，yexushiyouguoqudemaodunjidian，yexushiyouneixinshenchudemangranzaodongbuansuoqushi。bulunshishenmeyangdeyuangu，zheiyiduanaiqingzaiyunyudeyucitongshijijiangyinglaicubujifangdejieshu，budeburangrensisuoaiqingdebianhuanmoceherenxincuiruo。danyexu，zhengshizheiyangdeguiyidechuanyuezhongsheng，nenggourangrengengjiashenkedilejieaiqingdexiweiyumingyundezhuxingwuchang。

　　幸福快乐稍纵即逝

　　yiqian，tamenjuedezijizhaodaozhenzhengdekuaile，liangxinjinmijiehe，bicizhijianfuwuchengnuozhexiangbanyongyuan。danshi，bujiuqianquerenguanxideneiyike，keshitajichulefenshou。zheituruqilaidequeding，rangqitongchexinfei，wufajieshouzheituruqilaideyiwai。tadexingweisihushiyijimengji，shitayuanbenmeihaodexingfushuranfensui。taganjuemimang、wunai，fangongzisheng，aiqingchengnuoshenmeshihoubiandezheimemingan？

　　困惑与矛盾

　　yexu，fenshouquedingbeihouyinzangzhemouleimaodundechuxian。kenengzaiquerenguanxiyiqian，tamenbingmeiyouwanquanlejiebici。yurizhouzengdezhengchaohemaodunmanmanxianxianchuliangrenzhijiandegoutongbudaoweihesixiangdebuhe。yexushisanguanbuhe，huozhebicizhijiandelinianyousuochuru，zheizhongmaodunzuihoujidianbianchengwufadiaohedeliefeng。danzaiquerenguanxiyihou，tamenbudebumianduizheixiewenti，bingpobudeyizuochujiannandejueze。

　　心理斗争与茫然

　　zhenduimingquetichufenshoudeyifangeryan，xinlidouzhengyumangranyoukenengshigengweizhongyaodeyuangu。huoxutamenfajuezijibingmeiyourucishenaizheziji，huozhetamenrenshengguihuayumubiaofashenglebianhua。zhenduiaiqingdegainian，zhenduizijineixin，tamenyuelaiyuemimang。fenshouchengletamenweilenengxunqiudaandeyizhongfangshi，huoxushiweilezaicizuohuiziji，zhongxinshenshizijiduixingfudedingyi。

　　爱情的细微与命运的诸行无常

　　aiqingbingbushizhiyoutianmeiyuhuanle，erqieyeshixiweierfuzade，chongmanzhewufayuzhidegaibian。ganghenvyouquerenguanxijiutichufenshoudexianxiang，kenengzhishiyigesuoying。aiqingdelubingbuyidingshiyifanfengshun，zaiqizhongchongmanzhekaoyanhejiannankunku。tarangwomenlejiedaorenxinbianhuanmoce，yerangdajiaganwudaorenshengmingyunxuanzhiyouxuanhenanyizhuomo。yexu，aiguotongguozheizhongyiwai，cainengzhenzhengdegengjiashenkedilejiehezhenxiaiqingdezhengui。

　　重新思考与成长

　　ganghenvyouquerenguanxijiutichufenshou，fenshoubingbudengyuchedishiqu，ershiyigezhongxinshenshizijiheguanxideyike。zhongxinsikaoguoqudezhuduo，zhaodaocunzaidewenti，jizijigenduifangtanxungengjiahaodefazhanfangxiang。zheiyeshiyigechengzhangdejingli，genjutongkudejingli，nenggougengjiaqingxidijiandaozijideyaoqiuhexinyuan，dongdenenggougenghaodiyurenxiangchu。huoxu，zhengshizheizhongdaobiejiangchengweiwomenshengmingzhongdeyigezhuanzhedian，dailingtamenmaixianggengchengshuyuxingfudelu。