挽回前男友之如何创建交集？

　　faxianlaogongchuguihouzhengquedechulifangshi，zaiwomenfajuelaogongchuguishi，zhengquechulifangshiyouweizhongyao。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，womenyinggaipingjingxialai，baochilixingheqingxingdesisuo。zuixian，womenyaozhimianxianshi，jinxingquanfangweidejiaoliu，qingtingbicizhijiandejianjiehetihui。cizhi，lajinguanxihezhongshideqiantishizhongyao，zheijiuxuyaobicizhenxinchengyitaolunnanti，zhidingjutiguidinghejiexian。chucizhiwai，anshixunzhaojishuzhuanyehunyinzixunguwenhuohunyinpeixunjigoudezhichi，youliyuchuliwentihexiufufuqiganqingdejiankanghepingwen。zuizhuyaodeshi，jinliangbuyaojihen，danshiyebuyaoduizishenguoyubaorong，weichizizunxinheziwojiazhi，zuochukeyirangzijihejiatinghemudejuece。tongguozheigezhengquechulifangshi，dajiakeyizaikunjingzhongxunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa，fujianhunyinbingshiqixingfukuaile。

　　面对出轨，保持理性

　　faxianlaogongchuguihouzhengquedechulifangshi，zaiwomenbeijufajuelaogongchuguishi，duiyuzheiyangdekeguanshishi，zijidexinlingyidinghuigandaojingya、naonu、xinhanyutongku。danshi，zaizheiyangyigekunjingzhong，baochilixingshishifenzhongyaodediyibu。womenyinggaidiaozhenghaozijidexintai，biechongdongdizuochuqueding，yifanghouhuimoji。lengjingfenxinengbangzhuwomennenggougenghaodijiejuenanti，xunzhaozhengquechulifangshi。

　　对外开放而诚信的对谈

　　zaiduidailaogongchuguiwentishi，kaifanghechengxindeduitanshishifenzhongyaode。dajiayidingyaozhaodaoshidudeshijianduanhechangsuo，yuairenyichengxiangdai。yuqishuogenjudikanghezhizelaijiejuemaodun，bibushangjijiqingtinghelejieduifangdelichanghetihui。xianghujiandeqingtuhejiaoliu，youliyuchuangjiangengjinmihelaogudehunyinguanlian。

　　倾听心里要求

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　　寻找技术专业协助

　　zaiwomenjiejuelaogongchuguiwentishi，henduoshihoukenengbunengduziyirenjiejue。zheishihou，xunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhushizhengquedexuanze。gengzhuanyedehunyinzixunguwenhuohunyinpeixunjigounenggoutigongzhuanyedejianyiheyindao，bangwomenchulikunjing，xiufufuqiganqingdejiankanghepingwen。tamennenggoutigongzhonglidexiangfahefangshi，bangwomennenggougenghaodiyingduihechulishiqing，shiwomenbaituokunjing。

　　维护自尊心和自我价值

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　　做出适合自己确定

　　zaijinglileleyixiliedesisuo、goutongyuqiuzhuhou，womenyinggaizuochushihezijiqueding。youshihou，zheijiuyiweizhekuanronghefujian，weilenenghunyinhejiatingxingfuerzaijiezaili。youshihou，zheiyejiuyiweizhewanbizheiyiduanbuzhengchangdeguanlian，jizijizaicixunzhaoxingfudefangxiang。buguanzenyang，zijideaiqingheshenxinjiankangshizuiguanjiandekaolv，bixujiandingdilaimianduiyuzhuiqiu。

　　faxianlaogongchuguihouzhengquedechulifangshi，dangmianduilaogongchuguidekunjingshi，womenyinggailizhi、duiwaikaifang、qingting、qiuzhu，weihuzizunxinheziwojiazhi，jinerzuochushihezijiqueding。neiyang，cainengzhenzhengdezaikunjingzhongxunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa，jizijiyujiatingchuangzaoxingfuhemeihaodemingtian。