未婚先孕感情不牢如何维系感情

 xianshizhongweihunxianyundeganqingdaduodouquefalejie，jintianhedajiafenxiangyigeqinggananli——weihunxianyunganqingbulaoruheweixiganqing。

一、情感咨询

 ta23，chuzhongbiye，wo23，dasanzaixiaosheng，xiaohai4sui，nainaidai，womengaosanzaiyiqi，18suishengrifashengguanxi，taconglaibudaitao，haijingchanghetapengyouwangwoxuexiaosongbiyunyao，zuijinjianchidulengaiwenzhangcaiyishidao，tawangwoxuexiaosongyaoshiweilezaitapengyoumianqiandesetabawojishuile。

wozuijinwenta，taqueshuo：sheirangwopengyoutiantianzaiwomianqianchuitahenagenagenvdezenmeyangle。

 fashengguanxilianggeyuehouwohuaiyunle，tameiqianjiejuezheigewenti，wogenwofumutanbaihou，fumuzhaoshangtajiabingjuedingbuyaohaizideneiyike，tazhanzailoudingjianchiyaoliuxiahaizi，fouzetiaoxiaqu。

 woyizhiku，womayebiaoshixiangliujiuliuxialaiba，xianxiuxue，shengwanxiaohaizaihuiqu。liangjiashanglianghaozhihou，tajiajilecaili17w，wozhujinletajia。

 huaiyunsigeyuehouwohetayiqilaidaoshenzhen，tabaitianshuidaozhongwuchifan，xiawuqilaizhaogongzuo，zhaozhezhaozhejiupaowangbadaidaowanshangbadian，keyishuoshiqiongdaomeiqianchifandeneizhong。

 quyiyuanjianchayishengshuoyingyangbuliangxuyaoguashui，zhihoutagenzhewoquzhaowobama，wodaizhetazaiwobamagongsiyiqishangban，zheishihouwomenkaishitiantianchaojia。

 tachenmiyudubo，yaobushitamajiele3000kuaiqianlaikenengwojiuyaozaijiazijizhuchanle。kanbudaoxiwang，fudukaoshangdaxuehouwojiulikailejia，meigeyuehuiqupeihaizi5tian。

 wozaixiaoqijian，tazuiduoyinianshanglianggeyueban，yifagongzijiucizhiqudu。wodexuefeiheshenghuofeidoushiyouwozijichengdan，xiaohainaifenyirenfuzeyinian，lundaotadeneiyinianxiaohaijiuduannaifenle，xiaohaixuefeitafuzeleyinianban。

 zaiyiqi5niantagongzuoguoyinian，qunianxiaohaishanghuwomenlinglezheng，xianglihunkeshipataxunsimihuo，gengpatabahaizidiudiao，zaimeibiyeqianwomeinenglidaihaizi，kenengyeyiweizhemeinenglilihun。

二、情感解答

zheishiyidaofeichangdianxingde「shengmujuying」ti。

jiangzheigegushifangchulai，yifangmian，xiangjizheigenvzhujiaoyixieqifahebangzhu。

lingyifangmian，womenzheigewendalanmuzuizhongyaodeyiyizhiyi，shibabierendegushidangzuozhongyaodeanliqufupan。

 jiuxiangxiaqiyiyang，yigexiaqigaoshou，chuleshizhan，haibixuyanjiuqipu，yanjiulishishangdezhumingqijushizenyangyanbiande，zenmeyangxiazuizhonghuishu。

shide，henduorenyanjiudeqishibushiying，ershizenyangbimianshu。

 henduoshihou，womenjidajiachengxiangezhonggeyangdegushi，yeshiyaogaosudajia，buyaozouzheiyangdewanlu，buyaozuocuozheiyangdecuoshi，zheiyeshijintianzheigegushideyiyizhiyi。

neigushilidenvshengshizenmeshudeni？

 diyi，congtamenxiangyudediyikedaoxianzai，meiyigejiediantadoukeyishuo“bu”，dantameiyigejiediandoumeiyou，jiuzheiyangyibuyibuzouxiangleshenyuan，zuihouchengleyigerenshengwanquanbeitaolaodezhuangtai。

zuichu，liangrenzhijianxueliyouneimedadechayi，yexunvshengyikaishijiumeiyouxiangzhenzhenggenduifangzaiyiqi。

ranhou，yinweixingguanxituoxie；

因为怀孕妥协；

yinweibushengxiahaizi，duifangyaotiaoloutuoxie；

xianzai，xianglihunyouyinweihaizituoxie。

jiushizheiyangyibuyouyibudetuoxieshi，zhuchenglezheibutaolaoshi。

suoyi，yaobimianzheiyangdejieju，zuizhongyaodeshiqingshigaosuziji：

什么时候应该止损？

shenmeshihouyinggaishuo“bu”？

shenmeshihouyinggaitingxialai？

dier，suoyoushengmu，biaomiankanqilaishizaidanxin，haipaduifangxunsimihuo，gengzhongyaodeneihe，qishishiyizhongzilian。

tongsudishuo，jiushizijijuedezijinenglidadaolenenggoujuedingbierenshengsidedibu。

zheibenlaishiyichangyiwaihuaiyun，tayouzhongzhidequanli。danweishenmetameiyouquzhongzhini？

biaomianshangkanqilaishishuoyinweiduifangxiangyaotiaolou。

shijishanggengshencengcideyuanyinshishenme？

shi“wodexingwei，keyijuedingbierendeshengyusi”。

zheishiyigeshengmuzuigenbendedongli。

tabiaomiankanqilaishiyigeshouhaizhe，dantongshiyeshiguodubazijideyingxiangwuxianfangdale。

disan，duifangshiyigeshenmeyangderen？

tashiyigewufawutian，wuguizederen，zuorenheshiqingdoubukaolvtarenganshou。

congtabubiyunkaishi，daosuoweitiaolouyaobazheigehaiziliuxialai，zaidaoxiangbushangbanjiubushangban，suibianqudubo。

tajiuxiangyigexiaohai，queshi，tayejiushiyigejudadehaizi，haimeiyouxuehuiduizijiderenshengfuzeren。

 suoyi，zheiyangyigebuweizijirenshengfuzerendexiaohai，jiuhuizhaodaoyigewuxianduibierenfuzerendemuqin，lianggerenjiehezaiyiqi。

benzhishang，zheilianggerendoumeiyouchengzhangweiyigekeyipingdengduidaitarendechengnianrendeshenghuozhuangtai，zheijiushizheiyiqiebeijudegenyuan。

我们同情这位姑娘，也祝福她早日从这种困境中走出来。