2020春节相亲特辑：相亲女生要注意什么

 xiangqinshiniandiderenaoshi，zongyourenshuoxiangqinzuinannaniedeshigaijinhaishigaitui？niandixiangqinnvshengyaozhuyishenme？huazhenqingganjintianjiulaigaosudajianiandixiangqindezhuyishixiang。

一、不要太过热情

 dangniduichucijianmiandeduixiangchanshenghaogan、xiwangjinyibufazhandeshihou，yidingyaorangzijixianlengjingxialai，qiejiguofenreqinghepaoleduifang。rangduifangyiyouweijin，caihuigouqitatanmideyuwang，nijiuzaijiadengzheduifangzhudongyuenichulaiba。

二、平常心态期望值不要太高

 xiangqindiyicijianmian，hennandechuyigewanmeidejieguo。buyaoduidiyicixiangqinyuehuideqiwangzhitaigao，buyaojiasheduifangwanquanlijienvsheng，wanquanfuhenideyaoqiu。

 jiangdiqiwangzhihou，nimendediyicijianmianyexuhuiyoujingxi。kenengduifangshiyigetebieyouquderen，tebienenggenniliao。zheiduiyunieryanjiushigeyiwaidejingxige！

 shijieshangmeiyoushenmewanmeizhiren，renrendouyouzheiyanghuoneiyangdequedian。henshaoyourennenggouwanquan，fuhelingwaiyigerendeyaoqiu。suoyishidangjiangdiqiwangzhi，kenengnimenjiunengzaiyiqile。

三、平淡看待相亲

 xiangqinshilianggerendeshiqing，buyaoyiweidirangduifangqujuedingnimendeyuehuishijiandidian。zuohaoxintaizhunbei，buyaotaiguogaoleng，duiduifangbuzhudong，duanzhejiazi。

 ruguozainimendiyicixiangqinyuehuishi，nibiaoxianchuyifubuyuanyiduotandeyangzi，duifangkenengrenweinibumanyi。zaiyuehuiqian，zuohaoxintaizhunbei，buyaoxiangpingchanggongzuoshiyifuwujingdacaideyangzi，yanshenpiaohubuding，dongzhangxiwang。

四、不要太过于被动

 xiangtongguoxiangqinyuehuirenshiyigeren，quedingshifoukeyiyuduifangzaiyiqiyuduifangjiehun。jiuyaodongdeshidangzhudong，zhudongbiaodazijideganqingxuqiu，caiyoushuangfangjixulejiedekeneng。

一味矜持和被动不利于相亲的继续发展，对方会认为你对他不感兴趣，或者认为你不太好相处，这些都不利于脱单。