婚后遭恶劣对待 如何离婚才能保障自身

　　laogongchuchazenmezhidaochuguimeichugui，dangwomenlaogongchuchashi，henduorendouhuihaipatahuibuhuichugui。danshi，yinggaizenmejutidizhidaoshibushizhendepaoqilewomenni？zheizhongqingkuangkunraozhehenduoren。zaibenwen，womenjiangyaotaolunyixiekeyongyufenbianlaogongchuchaqineishibushichuguidefangshihejixiang。zixiguanchatamendexingwei、zhuzhongxijie，womenhuoxunengzhaodaoyixieanjianxiansuo，congergenghaodizhidaotademanyidu。

　　chuchapanbiandegulv：zenyangxunzhaozhengju

　　关心个人行为转变

　　laogongchuchazenmezhidaochuguimeichugui，zailaogongchuchaqinei，renmentongchangnenggouganshoudaoyixiegerenxingweidegaibian，zheiyinggaishichuguiqianzaijixiang。biru，tadeshoujiyixiazibiandexinxibaomi，duizijidewentitaobihuozheqianqueduiyunideguanzhu。tayexuzhujianjingchangshangyebanhuoshiyixiazibiandetaiguozhongshirongmao。zheizhongxingweidebianhuanenggouchengweidajiayiweitashibushichuguizhongyaoxiansuo。

　　注意日常会话

　　womenkeyigenjuxizhiruweidexizhiguanchayixiehanxudeduitanlaifajuechuguidejixiang。zaiwomensuibiantidaotadechucha，liuyiduifangshifoujiaolvbuanhuoshengyingdihuifu。tayexuchangshiyangaiyixiemimi，fangzhitantaoxiangguanchuchataolundehuati。chucizhiwai，tadeyanyukenengliuluchuyixiebutongxunchangdexinxijimaodundedifang，zheixiedoushiwomenkeyibuhuozhongyaoxiansuo。

　　调研迹象

　　jiaruwomencaiyilaogongzaichuchaqineichugui，womenkeyiandilijinxingyixiediaoyanlaiquedingwomenzijidecaice。guanchataderichengjihuahexingji，shifoucunzaibuhelicuolouhuomaodundedifang。genjuchaxuntadeshouji、diannaoheshejiaowangluozhanghu，dajiahuoxujiunengzhaodaoyixiebutaiduixiangguanzhengju。danshi，zaizhankaidiaochashi，womenyinggaijinshenxingshi，lijieduifangdegerenyinsi，fangzhisichuanghuohuihuaixinlai。

　　夫妻之间的沟通交流

　　jiaruwomenduizhangfudechuchazhongshibushichuguiyiranxincunyilv，zuizhongyaodeyidianshizhenchengdiyutagoutongjiaoliu。genjuzuoxiajianghua，gongxiangwomenzijidetihuihedanxin，womenkeyianweitaduichuchajieduandegongzuojinxingqingxidudebiaoshu，jiechuwomenzijidekunhuo。jiaoliushichuangjianshenxinjiankangguanliandezhongyaoqianti，genjuchengxindeduitan，womenkeyinenggougenghaodixianghuzhichi，tigaoxinlai。

　　加强关联，提高友好度

　　zuoweifufu，womenyaorichangweihutishenglianggerendeguanxi。danglaogongchuchashi，womenkeyitongguodianhua、dianhuahuoshipinliaotianbaochilianluo，tishibicizhijiandecunyouhebiyaoxing。chucizhiwai，womenkeyizaihuilaishifenpeiyixielangmanzhutihuodong，tishengwomenzijideyouhaoduherenke，congerjiangdichuguidegailv。

　　laogongchuchazenmezhidaochuguimeichugui，chuchapanbianshiyizhonglingrenkanyoudexianxiang，danzheibingbuyiweizhemeiyigechuchadouhuizaochengchugui。zaizhiyideyucitongshi，womenyinggaibaochilixinghelixing。zuizhuyaodeshi，xianghuzhijiandelejie、rentonghejiaoliushichuliwentidehexin。wulunzuizhongdejiejuzenyang，womendouyaodongdechulishiqing，yuairenyiqichengzhang，bulunshizaichuchahuoshipingdandeshenghuozhong。