如何识别渣男

 beijingshiyigenansheng(yixiachenga)zhuilewobannian，zaiwokaishidongxinshenzhijuedetayoukenengshiyigebucuodeduixiangdeshihou，wofaxiantayouyigetanlesanniandenvpengyou。

一：什么是渣男?

 zhananqianqianwanwanzhong，jiabaodejienvyouqianbuhaidedengdengdengdeng。danshibentiezhongsuoshuodequebushizheizhongkeyiyiyanjiukanchu“zha”dezhanan。woshuodezheiyileizhananyouhenqiangdeyinbixing，taduinihenhaogezhongxuhanwennuan，liangsangexiaoshizhaobudaonijiuzheji，henitanjianglaitanjiatingbiaoshixiwangnengjinkuaijiandaonidefumu，jinimaigezhongxiaoliwu，shenzhidainijiantapengyoufumu……

那么如何分辨呢?

（如何识别渣男？）

 1、shouxian，xiangxinzijidezhijue。qishizaiwozuikaishihearenshishiwojiujuedetabingbukaopu，zheizhongzhijuebuduandijinggaoworangwolikaita，danshiwoqueyizhichennizaiyizhongzida(can2)hetadetianyanmiyu(can3)zhong，yizhiyulangfeilezheibanniandeshijianheganqing。qianduanshijiankanleyijuhuashuodehenhao：“ruguoyigenvshengkanqilaibukaopu，neimetahenyoukenengshikaopude;ruguoyigenanshengkanqilaijiubukaopu，neimetashiyoubajiuzhendebukaopu。”suoyiruguoniyudaoyigekanqilaibukaopudenansheng，qingjinshendiduidaizheifenganqing，erbushijitazhaoliyou。

 2、buyaozida，zhananjiuzainishenbian。woxiangxinyouhenduoxiangwoyiyangdenvhaizi，suanshizhangxiangbucuoxuelibucuoyilushunfengshunshui，juedewozheimecongmingzheimepiaoliangzheimekeai，zenmeyoukenengyounanshengbuaiwo?wozaizhongxueshijiutongguoshujizhidaoyouneimeyileinansheng，duinitianyanmiyudouzhishiweileheniwanwanerbushizhendeduomeaini。danshenchuganqingzhizhongdenvshenghennanquxiangxinzheiyidian，meigerendoujuedezijideganqingzuiyuzhongbutong，doujuedezijizheimemeihaozenmehuiyounanshengbuaiwo?ruguotazhishixiangpianwowozenmehuikanbuchulai?(ruguonihewoyiyangsuirandulehenduoshuquemeizenmeyoulianaijingli，nihaizhenkanbuchulai)。shijishangzheigeshijieshangyoutaiduomeinvyeyoutaiduomiaoquhengshengdesixiang，womenbuguoshizuiputongdeputongren。meiyousheigewaiyuzhongbutong，zidaziliandoushihaowuzuoyongbingqiehenfumiandeqingxu。qudiaozheizhonghaowuyiyidiyuzhongbutonggan，jiugengrongyikandaozhenxiang。

 3、woshuodezheileizhananyibandouyouzijidebishaji。woyudaodezheiweishitebiehuishuohuiyan。wozirenzhishanghedongchalidoubusuanhencha，weishenmehuibeipianlebannian?shouxianshiyinweizheibanniandoushiyidibingqiewobuzaidalu，zhuyaokaowxdengwenzijiaoliu。haiyouyigehenzhongyaodeyuanyinjiushiyinweiashizaitaihuiyan。tajiushiyouzheizhongbenshi，bagushibiandehaowupozhanrangnifaxianbule。nishaoweibucha，jiuhuibeitadebianjieheshiairaojinqu。huanghuawangwangbanfenzhenbanfenjia，peishangchongmanaiyideyuyanhebubeixinrendeweiqu，duanduanshiyichanghaoxi。jingguozheibannian，woyouyigehendadeshouhuojiushiduitianyanmiyudenaishoulitigaolehenduo……suoyi，kanyigenanrenaibuainikantasuoshuodehaowuyiyi，yaokantazhenzhengzuoleshenme。zheitiaodaolihenduoguniangdouzhidao，danyouyoujigeguniangnenggouzaiyibianbiandetianyanmiyuzhonghainengbaochiqingxingni?

 4、guanyushoujilianxi。woheashiyidi，zhuyaokaowxlianxi。tajibenshangcongweibulianxiwochaoguo2gexiaoshi，shenghuoxijiejinshubaogao。tashoujibufangbianbanhaiwaiyewu，tingqilaiyekeyilijie。danwozongshijuedenalibudui。tajiwodadianhuakeyishuomanjiu，erwojitadadianhuaquezongshimeichaoguo20fenzhong。zheizhongxijiehennanbeizhuyidao，zheihewogerenyouguanxi。wozongshirenweilianaizhongzhudongshinanshengdeshi，suoyijishaozhudongjitadadianhua，zheihaowuyiwenjitachuangzaolebianlitiaojian。suoyi，yaozhuyiguanchanimenxiangchuzhongdexijie。nanshengzhenzhengaiyigenvshengshiyouwuxianqiannengde，tazongnengzhaodaofangfa。bunengfeijiqukannikeyibanlishoujiyewu，bunengbanlishoujiyewuhaikeyibanliwangluotonghuayewu。wogerenrenweiruguoshoujidoubujinvpengyoukandejueduishiyouwentide，yididehuazuobudaonikeyisuishijitadadianhuaguoqudehuayeshiyouwentide。

 5、guanyusnshegonggongpingtai。zheigeyaofenren，ruguoyigechungongkenanshuotameiyouwbzhileideshiyoukenengde。danshiyigezaiyixianchengshitushengtuzhangduiwangluozuixinremencihuidengdengdoushuzhiderenshuotameiyouwbdeng，neimenijiuyaoxiaoxinle。

 5、dainijianpengyouhefumuyebunengzhengmingshenme。atongshilianxilianggenvshengdeshiqingtafumukendingshizhidaode，dantafumuyemeiyouzuzhi。niyiweinibeitadaihuijiajiushibeitajiarendingleshiyihouxifule，qishishuobudingtamenzhishizaibijiaonihelingwaibeidaihuijiadenvshengnagegenghaoeryi。niyaojizhu，tamenshizheigenanshengdefumuhepengyou，tamenkendingzhanzainanshengdelichanglaikaolv。nirenweitazheishidaodebaihuai，tafumujuedezijizhishixiangtiaogezuiheshizuiyouxiudexifubale。ertapengyourenshitaduoshaonian，renshinijiu?kenengbubangtayinmanergaosunizhenxiangme?

 5、zhananwangwangdouburenweizijishizhanan。youzheimeyizhongzhanan，tayoushihoudougaobuqingchuzijideganqinghezijixiangyaoshenme。taduimeigeguniangdouzhenxinshiyi，juedemeigedoushiai。danshijishangtabuairenheren，tazhiaitaziji。zhanandegongtongtezhengshizisi。tamennagedouxiangyao，nagedoushebudediuxia，tamenhuoxushixiangwanwan，huoxushizaikaoliangnagegengshihezhangjiufazhan。danshiwuluntazenmexiang，tazheimexiangdeqiantidoubushiaini，ershinagegengyouliyutaziji。

二：遇到渣男该怎么做?

yudaozhananweiyinengzuodejiushilikelikai。meiyouqitabanfa。

 zaigushiliyoueyufaze：“dangnifaxianzijidejiaoyibeilileshichangdefangxiang，bixulijizhisun，budeyourenheyanwu，budecunyourenhejiaoxing。”zaiganqingzhongyeyiyang，chengzhiwei“zhisun”。

 qishizaiheadejiechuzhongwohuaiyiguotayeyoujihuihetaqieduanlianxi，danshidangshiwobuganxin。wowufachengrenwoshuleertabingbuaiwozheijianshi。wojuedezheimehaodeguniangzenmehuiyourenbuxihuan?(canyi2)woxiangwoyidingyaorangtaaiwoyongyuanwufawangjiwo，rangwochengweitashengmingzhongzuimeilizuiwufawangjidepianzhang。danshijishanghezheizhongnanshengzhandou，niyongyuanwufaying，yongyuanmeiyoubanfaying。yinweitazhiaitaziji，nimeifarangyigezhiaizijiderenxishengtazijiquaini。hezheizhongrenzhandou，nitouruyueduo，shudeyueduo。

 zheiciwofaxianayouzhangqinvyouhouwogaosuzijiwohetayidi，meiyoushenmesunshi，dingduotouruledianshijianganqing。erqieyesuanshizengzhanglejingyanzhi，yihouzhishaobuhuizaipengshangtongyileidezhanan。

挺好。

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