别傻了 男人喜欢一个人时才不是这样子

　　nvrenyinweijiatingbeipotichufenshouruhewanhui，yingduijiatinggongzuoyalidaozhinvxingpobudeyitichufenshou，wanhuiganqingchengweiyixiangfanzameirirenwu。yaorenshidaotamenkenengzaoyudekuchuhedanyou，yizunzhongyulijieweizaitijinxingjiaoliu。shulibicideyaoqiuheqidai，xunzhaowentidebenzhi，binggongtongxunzhaojiejuefangan。jiyuxinlizhichiheguanai，bangzhutamenzhongjianxinrenheguishugan，jiqijianlixindegongtongmubiaohejiatingjiazhiguannian。weiyoutongguozhenzhihezhangjiudeqinfen，caikenengwanchengwanliuyujiatingdehexiegongchu。

　　1. 了解她的心里挣脱

　　nvrenyinweijiatingbeipotichufenshouruhewanhui，nvrenyouyujiatingnantierbudebutichufenshou，tongchangshiqinshenjinglileyiduanshijiandexinlidouzhengyutongku。tamenjiangmianlinzhejudadeyali，baohanyujiarendemaodun、poxiguanxidejiaolvbuan、jingjiyalidetigaodeng。zuixian，nixuyaolejietajingyu，shizhezhanzaitadejiaodusikaowenti。

　　2. 创建开放式的沟通的方式

　　zaiwanhuiganqingdeguochengdangzhong，chuangjianduiwaikaifang、fuzerendegoutongdefangshishishifenzhongyaode。bixuzaojiuyigeanquan、baorongdeziranhuanjing，lingtanenggouziyoubiaodachuxinlidekuchuhedanxin。lingtingtaxinlihua，erqiefangzhizhizehuochize，zhishichangshilejieduifangdeganshou。

　　3. 寻找问题的本质

　　weilenengwanhuiganqing，nixuyaoxunzhaoshitatichufenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin。zheiyinggaishijiatingguanlianjinzhang、queshaogoutong、quefashizhangyuzhichideng。yutayiqinulidequshibiewenti，bingxunzhaojiejuefangan。yerangtaganshoudaoninduiyitongjianglaichengnuo。

　　4. 给予心理支持与关注

　　zaizheiguochengzhong，daijitachixubuduandexinlizhichiyuguanhuaishibukequeshaode。genjujitajiyujingshencengmiandeguishugan，rangtajuedenizhenzhengguanxinduifangdeganshouyijixuyao。biaodanideshiyong，bingzhichitaleguanmianduinanti，rangtaganshoudaodajiakeyiyitongduguokunnan。

　　5. 重建信任与归属感

　　lianggerenfenshouzhuyaoshiyinweibuzaixinrenhuoguishuganeryinqide，nixuyaoqinfenfujianshangshujichu。quebaonideyantanjuzhizishizhizhongyizhi，bingduixianchengnuo。chucizhiwai，tigongyizhonganquandehuanjing，rangtajuedenizhongshiduifangdeganshouyijixuyao。zhujianzhongjianxinren，xuyaoshijianheyili。

　　6. 一同找到新的方位

　　zuizhong，weilenengwanhuiganqing，nimenxuyaoyitongzhaodaoxindefangxianghemubiao。zheishejichedigaibianjiatingdeguannianyumubiao。shuangfangbixucanyujinlai，erfeiyigerendefuchu。tongguohezuoheshangyi，zhaodaoyigeshuangfanglingrenmanyidejunhengdian，weijiatingdezhengtiguihuapushangjiben。

　　nvrenyinweijiatingbeipotichufenshouruhewanhui，wulunmianduiduomedekunnandeqingkuang，wanhuiganqingxuyaoshuangfangdegongtongfendouyulijie。guanjianzaiyuchuangjianduiwaikaifangdejiaoliu，lejieduifangdexinlidouzheng，xunzhaowentidebenzhi，binggongtongxunzhaojiejuefangan。yucitongshi，jiyuxinlizhichiyuguanhuai，zhongjianxinrenyuguishugan，jiqiyitongjiedingjiatingdexinqushi，quanshiqudechenggongwanhuiganqingdeguanjianbuzhou。