脱单困惑：为什么你总是找不到合适的对象

　　zaiaiqingshijieli，fenshouyebansuizhelingrenjiuxindequanguocheng。danshi，youderentiaoxuancaiquyizhongjiduanhuadeshouduanlaiyingduifenshouzhihoudetongku，neibianshi“nvpengyoufenshouhouquanmianlahei”。zheijiuyiweizhewanquanduankaiheqianrendeguanlian，baohanshejiaowangluo、shoujiheduanxin。zheizhongfangfakenenghuiduitongkudeneixindailaiyizhongkuanwei，tongshiyeweizijiyigecongtoukaishidehaojihui。laheibujinjinshiduanjuelianluo，gengjiashiweizijichuangzaoyigequanxindeshineikongjian，keyirangzijimanmanxiubuneixindeshangtong，zhongxindedaoningjinghexingfu。

　　改变自我，一个人面对失恋了的痛苦

　　fenshou，shiyichangaiqingdejieshu，yeshiyiduantongkudekaiduan。zuonvpengyoutiaoxuanyunifenshouhou，nihuoxuhuijuedeshiwang、tongkuhejuewang。zaizheishihou，yourenxuanzecaiquyizhongjiduandefangshi，jiquanfangweilahei，wanquanduankaigenqianrendeyiqielianluo。zheishiyizhongtuolixianshiheziwobaohudefangfa，jiyuduifangcongtoukaishidehaojihui。

　　zailaheiqianrennvyouyihou，nihuifaxiannijinruyizhongduchuqingkuang。meiletadexiaoxi、shouji、shenzhishejiaomeitishangdehudongjiaoliu，nikenenghuiganshoudaoyizhongziyoubaituo。zheileisuiyi，rangniyouzheshijianyukongjianqumianduishilianledetongkuheziwofansheng。nikaishikaolvcongqiandezhuduo，shenshizijiwentihebuzhengque。zheiyiguochengjinguantongku，danqueshishigaibianziwodeguanjiansuozai，rangnicongzhongjiqujingyanjiaoxun，fazhanchengweizuihaodeziji。

　　慢慢治愈，拾起内心的宁静

　　fenshouhou，shijianzuihaodeliangyao。genjulaheiqianrennvyou，ninengbazijicongguoqudehuiyizhongjiefangchulai，manmanjiejueshilianleyinying。bulunshiweilenengfangfanyishihaishiweilerangzijinenggougenghaodizhiyu，douyaoweizijichongzudeshijiankongjianyingduitongku。zaizheiguochengzhong，nihuifaxiannijianjiankaishijienafenshouzheiyishishi，jianjiandishifangchulaineixindetongku，zhongshineixindeningjing。

　　自我成长，迎来新的幸福

　　laheiqiannvyouxingweirangnikeyigengzhuanzhudizhuyizijidechengzhangyufazhan。ruguonijiangjinglicongguoqudeaiqingzhongjiefangchulai，nihuifaxianniyougengduodeshijianhejingliqulejiegerenxingquaihao、gongzuoheshiye、jiqiyujiaren、haopengyoudegoutong。zheizhongzhiliyuziwochengzhang，rangninulitishengziji，chengweiyigegengqiang、gengdulidegeti。

　　genjulaheiqianrennvyou，neiniyejiletayigezhongxinlaiguodehaojihui。ninengzhongxinshenshizijiduiaiqingdekanfa，shulineixindeqingxu，tanxunzuishihezijideairen。huoxu，weilaidexingfujiuzaibuyuanchuwozaidengdai。

　　结语

　　nvpengyoufenshouhouquanmianlahei，suiranshiyizhongjiduanhuadexingwei，dannenggoudailaiyizhongxindekeneng。tarangnikeyigaibianziwo，yigerenmianduishilianledetongku；manmanzhiyu，shiqineixindeningjing；jiqiziwochengzhang，yinglaixindexingfu。zheiyiguochengkenengjianxinqietongku，dantayeshiyigejiyu，yigezhongxindingyizijidehaojihui。jilao，wulunjingguoshenmeyangdetongku，nihuibiandeyuelaiyuewanqiang、gengjiaduli，erweilaidexingfujiubuhuizaiyuan。