杨幂魏大勋密恋了？离婚后的她靠这点，居然越来越迷人了

zuijin“maoxinvxing”yangmihe“quanxinanxing”weidaxunliangcichongshangleresoubangdediyiming。

 congjinniande8yuefen，wangyoufawenshuo：“wogangcaihaoxiangzai798zhuangdaoweidaxunhetanvpengyoule”、“jueduibushitan，yinweineigenvshengshoudaowogujijiu80duo，165zuoyoushengao，zhangtoufa”kaishizaidaobeiwangyoubachuyishidaitongyidingyashemaodengdeng，yangmiheweidaxunde“weibeizhengshidelianqing”hushanhushandezaigezhongmeiti，chuxianzaidazhongdeshiyeli。

haoxiangtijidaoyangmi，dajiadediyifanyinghuishi“liguohun”、“ershouhuo”、“nanshenshouge”、“huiliao”……

danwomenbudebuchengren，yangmiderenshengxiangkailemadasidekailegua，suiranheliukaiweilihunle，meiliquebujiandangnian。

 “quanxinanxing”weidaxunjiushiyigehenhaodelizi，suizanweizhengshitaliangyoumeiyouzaiyiqi，danzuoweiyigezhuixing13deweidaxunlaishuo，yijingchenggongle。

2006nian12yue22ri，weidaxunfaleyitiaoweibo：

 yinweiyangmi，zai06niandeshihou，weidaxunjiulizhiyaokaoshangzhongyangxijuxueyuan，xiwangnengheyangmiyouhezuo，tongshikaiqiletajianxinmanzhangdejianfeizhilu。

zuihou，gongfubufuyouxinren，weidaxunjianfeichenggong，yekaoshanglezhongyangxijuxueyuan。

daodishishenme，rangliguohundeyangmiyijiubaochidangchudemeili，rangzhongduorenweitafengkuang？

01

高度的自律

 youyiduanshijian，yangmidetizhongyecengshangguotoutiao，zai2016nianshicanjiade《zhenzhengnanzihan》shidetizhongshi47.9kg，zaijinniancanjia《mishidataotuo》zhongdetizhongwei47.48kg，liangnianshijian，tizhongmeiyouzengjiafanerhaishoule，shengao1.68deta，tizhongzhiyoujinjinde95jin。

yangmizijigengshitanyan，chulehuaiyunshenghaiziwai，zijidetizhongcongweichaochuguo96jin，zheizizhiliqueshirangrenjingya。

zaiyicicaifangzhong，jizhewenyangmi：“bianlaohebianpang，nigengshoubulenayige？”

 yangmishuo：“wojuedebianpangjieshoubule。yinweimeigerendouhuibianlaode，zheigenikongzhibule，danshibianpangdehua，yidingshiyinweiniduizijibufuze。”

haiyourentidao“yangmichabuduo5niandoumeiheguonaicha”。

bujinshinvxingduizijiyaoqiuzheimegao，nanxingyetongyangruci。

 jiunapengyuyanlaishuo，“xingzoudekeermeng”jiushixingrongpengyuyande，taneinitiandeshencai，yangguangdewaizai，zai《xiebuyazheng》zhong，zhanxiandelinlijinzhi，shenzhilianjiangwendouxicheng：zheigenanrentaixingganle。zheige“xinggan”debeihoushiduizijidezilv。

 xiaoshihoudetashige140jindexiaopangzi，weilejianfeipaishe，meitianzaoshang8dianqichuang，heticaoduidetongxueyiqixunlian，meitian12gexiaoshi，yizhou6tian，congdangang、diaohuan、anma、tiaoma，yiludelianxialai。gengshishinianmeiyouchiguobaofan(tanshuihuahewu)。

 zilvderen，cong50suidexuqing、40suidezhangziyi、37suidezhangjunning、33suideyangmizaidao27suidezhoudongyu、dilireba，wuyibushiweilenengzairenheshihoudouzhanshidezhuangtai，guozhegaoduzilvdeshenghuo。

youyigelianghaodeshencai，bujinkeyitigaozijidezixinxin，tongshiyeshiduiyizhilideyicidakaoyan。

 dangran，zilvbujinjintixianzaishencaideguanlishang，ershencaideguanlishiyigejidadekaoyan，dangwomendeshencainengbeiwomenziyouzhipeideshihou，haiyoushenmeshiwomenzuobulede？

 zilv，shiwomenduizijideweilaishedingyigekeshixiandemubiao，ranhoubushouwaijiedeyouhuo，yibuyibudinuliqushixianta，dangzuodaole，womenjiushizijirenshengdezhuren。

zheijiushiyonggaodudezilv，huanqurenshengxiabanchangwanmeidetuibian。

02

找到喜欢和适合自己的路

 xihuan=“nizuiyuanyizuodeneijianshi，caishinizhenzhengdetianfusuozai”，haohaozuozijixihuandeshi，bingbatazuohao，shijiehuibian，danmengxiangshizhongruyi，jiuhaoxiangxiezuobushiweilemingsheng，shiweileshiguangliushishiwoxinan。

zhaodaozijidelu，bianquanxinquanyizouxiaqu。buyaoweibeizijidebenxin，bianshizhenzhengaiziji。

xihuanbuyidinghuiyoujieguo，danneishizijineixinshenchuzuizhendexiangfa，renshengdeyiyizaiyuguochengzhonghuode。

shihe=ruoyigexuanzeshishihezijide，neimezaizhixingdeguochengzhonghuidexinyingshou，yehuigengyoudongli。

 zaizuikaishideshihou，yangmijuede“zheitiaolucongkaishijiuzoudehenshunqiziran，ruguoburangwoxuebiaoyan，wodoumeiyouxiangguozijiyaoganshenme。ruxingdangyanyuan，juedeyanxiyejiushigemoushengdezhiye，woyemeiduodazhixiang”，dao “youshihou，yanwanyichangxihuilai，lianxizaodouzaixiangneichangxi”，“jintianyanleyichangxi，tinghaotingbangde，xingfendeganjueyiqianmeiyouguo”，zaidaohoumiande“yanxibuzaishijiandandezhiye，yaohaohaoyanxi，haohaochengzhang，biaoyan，nengdaijiwodedongxitaiduole。”

 zaiyangmidezheiduanzishuzhong，womenkeyiganjue“congkaishijiuzoudeshunqiziran”，zhengminglezheigexuanzeshiyinweishihe，suoyizouqilaiyedexinyingshou。

“lianxizaodouzaixiangneichangxi”zuyizhengmingzijishixihuande，caihuitourugengjiaduoxinsixiangyaozuodegenghao。

 “buzaishijiandandezhiye，yaohaohaoyanxi、chengzhang、biaoyan”，zaigaosuwomen“quedinglema，zheishiwoxiangyaozoudelu，shihewode”。

 qishiwomendouyiyang，zaishiqingdaolaizhiqian，duihenduodedongxidoushimohude，danbuyaojizijishedingtaiduode“jiaru”，xianquchangshi，shihede、xihuandebushiyicijiunengchangshichulai，ershiyaozaibutongdeshijianzhongzhaochu。

womenbuxuyaomofangbierendeshenghuo，bierendeguiji，meiyigerendoushibutongdegeti，youyinggaiyouzijidutedeweidao。

cengjingyougefuzhuangdiandelaobannianghewozheimeshuo：

 “kaifuzhuangdian，zuikaishibushiweilezhuanqian，ershiyinweixihuan。xihuanbierenchuanzhewodapeideyifu，xihuanbierenrenkewodefengge，yexihuanbierenxihuanwodexihuan，zheishiwojuedehenkaixindeshiqing，zaidaohoulai，wofaxianzheibujinjinshixihuandeshiqingle，ershixiangbatazuohao，zuoweiwoshengminglideyibufen，haoxiangzhendehenshihewo。”

zhaodaoxihuanheshihezijidebiyiqiedouzhongyao，zheiyangkeyijiangwomendemeilizaizheidedaowuxiandefangda。

03

有足够的安全感

yourenzheiyanglaixingronganquangan：

 nideanquanganyinggailaiyuanyushoujimangededianliang，guomalushilukouliangqidelvdeng，chumensuishenxiedaideshenfenzheng、shouji、yaochi、haiyouzugoudexianjinheyinxingka，anshizuohaodegongzuo，xiayutiantiqianshouhaodeyifubeizi，yijishengbingshihainengchengzheyigerenqukanbingdazhenchiyaodeliqihelizhi。

yangmideanquangan，baifenzhisanshishiyuanziyujiatingdesuzao，shengxiadebaifenzhiqishishizijijiziji。

tashuo“yiqianshixinren，qishihenmeiyouanquangan，yidanyourangdajiakandaowodejihuijiuhuixiangbawo。”

dangwomenhaishiyigegangtajinshehuidexinrenshi，womenjiuxiangshiyizhangbaizhi，jixufengkuangdewanglimianjimoshui。

 zhengshiyinweiwomenshenmedoubudong，eryouzaizheigeyoushenglietaidehuanjingzhong，womenyaobuduandeqiangdaziji，jizijishurugengduodemoshui，dengmoshuijizangoule，womenyejiushiyingzheigeshehui，keyizaizheigeshehuichuruziyoule。

 mianlinturuqilaideweijishi，womenyekeyiyingduiziru，yinweiwomenyounengli，buhaipa，zheijiushizijijizijineibaifenzhiqishideanquangan。

 biedenvmingxinglihun，kenenghuishiyixiaochen，shiyeshangdeziyuanduoduoshaoshaohuiyouzhesun，danlihunduiyangmilaishuohaoxiangbingmeiyoushenmeyingxiang。zheijiushiyangmizijijizijideneibaifenzhiqishideanquangan。

04

用长远的目光投资自己美好的未来

yangmishiqianbanshengshiduizijizishendetouzi，houbanshengshiyongzhangyuanmuguangtouziweizijizengzhi。

 huidaowomendeshenghuozhonglai，henduorenshuoxianzaitouzifangdichanhuizhengqian、touzijijingupiaokeyifadacai，womenyeweizheixiejinronghuodonglecibubi，weizijideshengzhikongjiannulizhe。

 jiushixiwangyouyitianzijinenggourangkalideyuejishuyuelaiyueda，xiwangzijideweilaiyekeyichengweiduojindechenggongrenshi，youchenggongdeshiye、zijidecaifu，zouxiangrenshengdianfeng。

 danzonghuiwangjiyaotouziziji，womenbunengbaozhengshiyehuiyizhi“shunfengshunshui”、bunengbaozheng“jinrongfengbo”buhuizaicijianglin，henduodehenduo，womendoumeiyoubanfaqubaozheng，weiyikeyibaozhengdeshi“duizijidetouzizhangqiyouxiao”。

文| 曾婷婷